All right! After all, surfing the internet is just a pastime, but if the real society hurts you a lot! You can tell all these unpleasantness to your netizens! After all, it's just an emotional catharsis. Tell another person that you think he can listen to you! This is actually very feasible! But if it's unrealistic and unfeasible to find your partner online, it's definitely good if you just say confidant. Maybe it will be much better than in real life!