The best way for a lady to face two or more inviters is to politely refuse them all. If two men come to invite in tandem, they can accept the invitation of the first one in the order of "first come, then come", and sincerely say to the people behind: I'm sorry, next time. And try to honor your promises. The ball is an occasion to make friends and meet friends through dancing, so the lady can't easily refuse the invitation of others at the ball. A woman can refuse the invitation of an individual man who "doesn't feel well", but she should pay attention to her discretion and polite language and express it politely. . When you want to attend the dance, the following points can be used for your reference:

(1) Know exactly the nature of the dance tonight, and then decide on the clothes to wear and make appropriate decoration, and avoid over-and-under products. Don't go to the dance with heavy makeup, and don't wear jeans to crowd; Because you're going to a middle school dance, not an outing. (2) If you are sitting with your boyfriend and someone asks you to dance, you must ask his permission politely.

(3) When you go to a dance alone, you should listen to the dance host to arrange a partner for you. At the same time, when other boys come to you for a polite invitation, it is extremely impolite to refuse. You should stand up with a smile and accept his invitation.

(4) For unfamiliar steps, don't jump boldly, unless the person who invites the dance doesn't care if you step on his feet or you are not afraid of making a fool of yourself.

(5) When you don't want to dance, but someone just asks you to dance, you can refuse him, but please pay attention to the art of refusing, and don't let him feel "unable to get off the stage".

(6) When you are dancing, don't shake your shoulders to show the importance of what you are saying; In that way, people will feel frivolous and not solemn. (7) When dancing, don't discuss or argue about one thing, and don't make an attempted detailed wealth survey when the meeting is over.

(8) When dancing, you can tell the other person your name when he asks. If you don't want him to know, just tell him your last name. When he asks for your address, if you don't want him to know, you can say, "* * knows where I live." Isn't that a clever refusal? As a man, you should also know where you are going.

(9) If the opposite party asks you something about you, you can tell him frankly. If you don't want him to know, you can refuse to answer, but don't make up lies.

(1) Pay attention to your sitting posture. The lights in the dance are usually dim and hazy, and the boy can only see your shape, so you should always pay attention to maintaining beautiful manners.

(11) When the dance is in progress, don't be too presumptuous because of the infection of music and atmosphere, especially when dancing, don't close your eyes.

(12) Unless you are a recognized couple, don't put your cheek on his shoulder when dancing. As for the dances of "one paste", "two paste" and "three paste", we should avoid them.

(13) When you are sitting in the corner alone, don't make silly actions.

(14) When attending a dance of any nature, you should not usurp the host's role in clothing and jewelry.

(15) Please be careful not to stain lipstick on your partner's skirt or tie.

(16) If you want to leave the venue early, just say hello to people quietly, and never say that you want to leave early in front of the public, so as not to spoil the fun of others and make it difficult for the host to control the atmosphere in the venue.

(17) Even if another boy wants to take you home and you come with another companion, please be careful: don't leave him alone. If you don't have a boyfriend to accompany you, and you don't want to send you back at the dance, if you have known each other for a long time, you can refuse each other in a half-joking way. If you are new, you can politely say sorry and tell him that you have been sent to see you off. Remember to be tactful and decent when you speak, so that the other party will not be embarrassed or pester you.

etiquette for attending the dance.