Nowadays, there are many family problems. The root of all problems is that they don’t understand their own position, so they don’t know how to deal with family problems. They even always look for other people’s shortcomings and believe that they are right, which leads to communication difficulties. , the grievances and conflicts over violence have been very prominent for a long time.

In fact, it is not difficult to solve family problems, everyone looks for problems from themselves, it is very easy to solve the problem, then every road. Here's how to build a good, harmonious family and nurture the next generation.

The elderly are immoral and plague unfilial children. Instead of being happy, men are willing to be included in fashion, women are not soft and get rid of finances.

Family traditions promoted by the elderly, parents should show the family traditions, husbands and wives should take charge of the family traditions, children should inherit the family traditions and grandchildren should smooth out the family traditions, and the competition between brothers and sisters Than family tradition.

In the world of morality and law, this is a personal law. If we violate the law, the people will suffer disaster.

As the saying goes, the preface has it all. The prosperity and social harmony of a small country, as well as the happiness of personal life, physical health and prosperous career, all depend on a harmonious family.

This book is a compilation of quotations from educator Mr. Wang Fengyi and mentor Shi Renhuan for many years. It is the essence of the works and speeches of China's famous modern peasant thinkers. The text uses easy-to-understand language, relating to morals, traditional Confucianism and other aspects of the unshirkable responsibilities of everyone in the family, calling on everyone to go their own way, each original position, and the basic principles of family harmony. What is harmony? and mutual respect, harmony is mutual courtesy. In this family ethics, we can only control ourselves, reflect on our own family relationships and blame the people around us, which will definitely be counterproductive. For children in the family, we must know how to be grateful, grateful, grateful, parents who "do not look at others' kindness, only their own rights", regardless of filial piety and filial children, but look at their own kindness ""No matter the kindness of parents Kindness, but to see their filial piety, "filial piety", such people can live in harmony. In today's family harmony and unity in the entire country, and a harmonious society, this book can provide you and your family with the help of a slight income.

There is only Germany, there is no way, there is no morality, no morality, no blessing.

1. The old man is a star of virtue, with virtue as his root. "Virtue" is to fight for more than one peace.

2. The old man, as gray as ashes, gentle in anger, talk less, don't nag, don't talk, the family has each other's strengths and weaknesses, the origin of the lead must be Benefits, pockets full of houses.

3. The so-called sexual grayness given by Crawford. 4. Contentment, enjoying one's destiny at home. Family tradition, praise ancestors' virtues, educate children and grandchildren to know gratitude, gratitude, gratitude. 5. Mind your own business, and don't have too many children and grandchildren to worry about when the children have their own children. , Blessings of grandchildren.

6. Don’t interfere with children’s problems, let go and give way to the younger generation of masters, and don’t leave loopholes in the behavior of the elderly. . Doing your duty is too much.

8. Family problems, heart health and shame for the elderly: My old man has not done well, and there is no family education.

9. At home, no matter who is wrong, no matter what disaster or wrong, the family scandal cannot be publicized.

10. Establish what is right and what is wrong, what is wrong and what is wrong, and do not teach what is right and wrong. Wrong, do not listen to right and wrong, play right and wrong, we are not afraid of right and wrong, or the old man is evil

11, whether developed or not, the grandson will not thrive. , There is a direct relationship between the good fortune of the old man and the descendants of the good old man, and the evil plague of the old man, including the decline of fashion and fragrance.

12. How to make a prosperous old man. What's wrong? On the one hand, there is impunity for cultivating virtue, and on the other hand, it takes root in cultivating virtue for future generations.

13, the old man holds up a fortune-creating Crawford. One of the virtues. The Crawford generation rewards each generation with prosperity; your descendants are strong, you are virtuous, otherwise, it is virtue.

14. The old man, like the earth, silently carries everything and tolerates the origin of everything. In the minds of the elderly, family wealth.

15. With the love of the old man’s lover, the descendants of the family will flourish. If the old man is greedy, complete all the blessings for the family.

16. The morality of the elderly is the best Feng Shui, and the Feng Shui is the highest.

Parents' Road (Middle-aged Road)

1. The day of the lucky star, to celebrate the roots. Family fun has its own responsibilities and is made for profit.

2. Respect, love children and be grateful for everything from top to bottom to make the family harmonious.

3. Advocate the merits of our ancestors to the children of the elderly, set an example of respecting the elderly and being filial to the children, and be grateful for the kindness of our predecessors to inspire future generations.

4. Do not arrange things for the elderly to do. You do what they like, but take care of the elderly and often advise them to get more rest.

5. When the relationship between parents begins, the Yin and Yang approach, Yin's mother, Yang's father. Nourishing yin and strengthening yang can be the result of the growth of all things, the incompatibility of yin and yang, mental pain, the lack of love or some undesirable nature, or the lack of children born.

6. Parents are their children’s first teachers, and family is their children’s first school.

7. Whether a child is healthy has a lot to do with his mother, and whether his father's wisdom has a lot to do with it. LC solemnly looks at whether his parents have a happy love life.

8. When children are disobedient and unfilial, we must first ask ourselves whether we are filial to the elderly and whether we have done something wrong. Recognizing the parents (elderly) is not the merit (the child), and the education is not adequate.

9. From understanding children, such fruit acid, fruit acid roots work hard. ...... /> 10. Don't resent your children, let alone beat and scold your children, because their children's minds are based on their own success or failure, and consider whether their education is at fault.

11. Five simple things to educate your children: support, education, religion, collar, lead, but allow tube. We must focus on moral education.

12. "Control" means that parents let their children have their own way, find mistakes in their children, and rebel against his temper. They tend to control more and control children's tempers. Is it the only bad thing to control children's tempers? Yes, it is contrary to the fact that the child's temper is caused by sexual touching, even though father and son Cheng Zhoulu do not understand for their parents.

13. Children are not controlled and rely on virtue trials. Understand his personality, he cuts small branches and leaves big branches delicately, and does not drown, does not beat, does not curse, encourages more often, certainly criticizes less, and does not have material temptations.

14. Righteous others first, righted yourself first. For the first time, parents eliminated temperament and protected nature. Know how to deny yourself in order to educate your children. No matter whether you are a filial son or a daughter, ask yourself whether you are kind or not.

15, children, society, and heaven and earth. Badly taught children, small families, have a great impact on society, negative grace

The world of lovers. Children's education is a great responsibility.

The auspicious star for the couple and family, love is the root.

2. Building love for the entire family is the root. Love or lack of love cannot build a family, and it is the first condition for a family.

3. To love someone, we must first understand other parts. Sake, perfect the responsibility of enlightenment and play a part in each other. Do not tie up the freedom of the other party, give the other party happiness, and should not cause other troubles. Think about the other person and understand the other person's body and psychology

4. The standard of love. Selfless love, feeling that love has no frame (price), fraternity, unconditional, true love without prejudice.

Selfless love: respect each other and not cause you any trouble.

I don’t think I like it (price): I don’t want to raise my status, I don’t like it as a transaction. Understand other's benefits and praise other's benefits, making it difficult to understand and forgive each other. If the other party can enlighten and guide the other party to change. BR />Unconditional fraternity: No matter who the person is, it is not bound to the other person and gives the other person the right to freedom.

True love is without prejudice: A true believer has no doubts, no doubts. BR />Everything that can be done will be available.

5. The harmony of loving the Lord comes from harmony. Without love, it is impossible to build a harmonious family.

6. The three karma of husband and wife combination: first, to take care of each other with life, to take care of each other; second, to improve the family, pass on the family lineage, and leave this world with a good root; third, for a better life Taking good care of and taking care of both parents makes the elderly feel at ease and happy.

7. The trap between husband and wife is to achieve mutual understanding instead of blaming each other.

8. It is her husband’s business, but the husband forgets to do it. His wife does not complain, but takes things seriously and does them well. In turn, the husband does the same, and other things do not need to be filled in. This is trap.

9. After marriage, if a man cannot receive a wife and is not filial to his parents, in law, his brothers and sisters will be kind to children and very filial, and the elderly will not be at ease. Married women cannot help their husbands to honor their parents according to the German law, and the elderly feel uneasy.

10. Husbands take care of their father-in-law, and wives are more filial to their grandfathers and grandmothers. For example, the elderly person who buys things should be the son-in-law who goes to the father-in-law in person, and the daughter-in-law goes to the father-in-law in person.

11. Men and women have equal power, equality, and enjoy equal etiquette, but they are definitely not equal.

12, male and female, duties and responsibilities, yin and yang, every bit. Men are upright-centered; women are soft-centered. "As long as it does not lie in mobility (tempering)", "is consistent with the rationale. Gender, such as the "soft" of water, "and" must be reasonable. So upright, is soft, soft upright, nouns, although not the same, But the spirit is the same.

13. The troubles of couples, the opposite feelings of grace, the opposite parental entrustment of heaven and earth; the funny responsibilities of NV children born in their natal family, life karma. , life depends on positive quotes.

14 Road, husband and wife, is the road of yin and yang, and the yin and yang of the husband's righteousness cannot be given to each other. If you are sick, don’t die prematurely. Jiaqi, children, and sun are prosperous. Therefore, a woman’s path is a woman’s, a man’s path.

15, (Naturally) Together, the hearts are together. , physical cooperation.

16, the couple's mutual thanksgiving, the expected industry couple is happy, the husband leads his wife Shenglu. Wife helps husband to Germany and never gets angry. Heart border couple's etiquette couple, friends of each other's jurisdiction!

Husband road

A man’s words count, one means one, two means two, and he means what he says.

2. If you don’t want to say anything, it doesn’t matter if you don’t have dignity.

3. Men are yang. , Yang is the expression of selfless love.

4. Being selfish and doing things secretly violates one's own conscience, thus causing trouble to the whole family.

< p>5. Men should be "just". As long as they don't hit or swear, men who hit or swear are incompetent people.

6. "Just" means not only not hitting or swearing, but also not answering. Refutation, don't worry, as a fixed, scolding is just fluid (backfire). Take good times or bad times with ease, so this is a real man.

7, Sanhuo is a coward and violent. The husband, the husband of the man.

8. A coward is called a coward and cannot support a family. Slaves who are afraid of playing things are pushed to the front desk and are dedicated to listening to women. < /p>

9. A violent husband is unreasonable if he does not understand his responsibilities, so he does not dare to do bad things.

10. Her husband is brave enough to take responsibility. Reasoning, failure, heart health and shame in one's turn

11th, husband, tribe from three keys to three key positions, rigidity of sex, rigidity of heart, fixed configuration of body contours (tempering). ), the sexual desire is strong, the lust is not bad, the body shape is not bad, the angry gender is just falling, the physical force is just falling, the "gang of four" leader means that the woman must be led down the aisle, Filial piety, in law, and children in law.

12. Men are the pillars of society and can take their wives with reasonable ambitions.

13. A man is less likely to suffer a home disaster if the man cannot do something about the troubled home.

Wife Road

Women are the mother of the country, a woman’s house, and a wife’s man.

2. A woman should have a soft, serene smile, and a popular one.

3. The water circle is around you, or the five tones have the same taste, and the original quality is always the same. Follow the crowd, the rich and the poor, can be high or low, water can increase competition, not all things, in the lowest place, low everything in the future, often cannot be a woman's responsibility.

4. Nosy women are silent to men, women are not soft, and family wealth is not very busy.

5. Not just violent, not impatient, not wordy and talkative, and don’t worry about men’s affairs. Husbands who should help their husbands are not tired.

6, a wife, as a little helpful "three first tribesmen from Cardiff to Germany". From the "truth of the heart from heaven, the body is reasonable. What is a "reasonable" body? What should be done by people who do this, be filial to parents, parents-in-law, sisters, children under the age of the law, and teach them all the components Part. Huo Yuanjia is not angry, does not complain, does not regret. "The truth of the heart" refers to how to get rid of the interference of selfishness and greed. How do sisters teach their children in law? What? Feel the benefits of family harmony, and everything you do will naturally be in harmony with the law. ": Mainly fixed courage, but also potions to prevent and cure temperament, satisfactory nature, only benign ones.

7. Woman with three women: a shrew, a weak woman, and a daughter-in-law.

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8. Women are just storm control, mentally oppressive people, speaking like thunder, very difficult, covering the sky with one hand, calling a shrew. In a weak family, the husband will age prematurely.

< p>9. Women do nothing but depend on their husbands and their parents. Even if they die prematurely, their children will be useless.

10. Lazy women. A woman who complains is a sweeper, a shrew and a weak woman are not wives.

11. The daughter-in-law is not meant to be calm, but also a messenger of auspiciousness, a blessing, and a complete equal in life.

12. When the daughter-in-law is like water, the water is very satisfying, which means the root, the nature supports the complete family, and Axi Xing is filial to parents, sisters-in-law, sons and daughters. With the help of her husband, she went to Germany. Her husband served the society without any worries and maintained a prominent reputation as a pro-in-law. He was not only a true politician, but he also abided by his duties and made his due contribution for a long time. For a while, enjoy Fluke for a long time. /> 13. Whether the family is good or not, whether it is quiet and prosperous, the role of his wife is very important. A woman can be a wife of sexual water and will be blessed with children. Will be able to help the husband to have a happy family in Germany

The legal path

1. The mother and daughter are from the same family with different surnames. p>

2. Dao and Enyi are in harmony, and can be used as a life.

3. If the unqualified Tao and Dharma are not harmonious, the detachment of trauma and unqualified housework will be separated, and the family will fall apart. , including in fashion

4, mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, who has been waiting for years to get married, mother, daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law, an unmarried mother at home. The daughter-in-law comes to the house for lunch.

5. The mother-in-law understands everything early, and the daughter-in-law comes late and fully understands everything about the mother-in-law's daughter. Knowing that the daughter-in-law is the daughter, tell her, guide her, and stand in doubt.

6. It turns out that if the wife is a healthy mother, the mother does not understand the law and does not show mercy, which is Mr. Yang's weakness. , or use a lot of pressure to control your temper, speak the law of net evil, how can you have a good feeling?

7. Every family should consider his daughter marrying into this family, The mother-in-law loves her daughter-in-law and loves her daughter. If she fails to do this, her future daughter-in-law will use the same method, creating a vicious circle.

8, the advantage of talking is often mentioned. The daughter is grateful for her family's education. The daughter-in-law, if the mother's fault is behind her, don't quarrel with her. The daughter-in-law is naturally grateful and grateful.

9. As a daughter-in-law, husbands who love themselves must love their parents-in-law.

It is understood that there is no own beloved husband in law. The former hard-working, compassionate mother-in-law dedicated herself before her son raised to adulthood. You can no longer burden your mother-in-law, tell her to do things, or create resentment and trouble her words and deeds.

10. The wife should be filial to her parents-in-law as her own parents. The ancients said: Life is twice that of their parents. Therefore, both parents must be treated equally.

11. I like to respect my mother-in-law when we are in love. A mother-in-law who is sure to get a loving heart. Understand the old man's heart, follow the old man's Italy, and get the road.

12. It is wise to be a daughter-in-law: parents-in-law are a real blessing. Being an old man, resenting the old man, and refusing to perform filial piety to the old man means that you do not want rewards and have no good karma. BR /> 13. Unfilial piety to her in the law, due to the retribution of filial piety to her son and daughter until the child grows up, will also be affected.

14. The roots of the parents should be lush, the flowers fragrant and the fruits sweet, give treatment to the roots, fertilize the roots, water the roots, and loosen the soil.

15. Family harmony, for the sake of the husband and noble children, parents-in-law are necessary to teach Wang Tianzhun to develop the winner of grass frost, gel, or rich flower for a long time.

On College Road, you don’t ask others, but to improve yourself!

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1. Your children are the stars of heaven and the roots of filial piety.

2. For sons and daughters who are young and have difficulties in life, helping parents, and most importantly, making parents worry less, is the greatest repayment of gratitude in the world. When you grow up to be an adult, devote your body and heart to your parents.

3. As a child, you should be filial to your mission. Inheriting the ancestral business, carrying forward the family tradition, and determined to surpass the predecessors.

4. In order to satisfy the material needs of the elderly, it is an obligation not to be too filial and pious. "Filial piety" is true filial piety. It improves one's own part. Parents can rest assured that they will not cause any trouble to their parents and will not see their parents anymore.

/> 5. "Smooth", accept the precepts of parents, make parents happy and relieved. Even if the parents are obviously wrong, it's not the face of ambivalence. Parents, parents not only do not complain, but parents do things perfectly and ask parents for traps.

6. Parents and children can capture one of the stars for them that really is you. Blind obedience will inevitably lead to injustice, and filial piety is not yet true.

7. In this, our life is equal to the life we ??are destined to live. Well, you hit your own fate with good luck and bad luck. The sorrow and pain of achievement in which you temper your sake, your own retribution. The same gratitude, gratitude.

8. I ask whether my parents are kind or not, but I ask myself to be filial and filial.

9. We must be filial and obedient to the three realms of heart and body. Is it not being filial, not being sincere and not being filial, not repairing the body and not being filial to the body? To be truly filial, the three realms must be cleared.

10. "Three realms of filial piety. Must" The three realms refer to gender, mind and body. The filial piety body should pay attention to the body of adoptive parents in the parents' clothing, food, housing and transportation. Filial piety is the heart of all parents in the world. I like what my parents love. I pursue whatever is close to me. Whoever kisses me should respect it. The nature and music of engineering filial piety to the elderly, facing the mobility of sadness, rather than the things of the elderly, grandchildren, Lotte Nian.

11. Reasonable filial piety is a matter of minutes, filial piety is a matter of filial piety, and filial piety is a matter of respecting and understanding the elderly. Filial piety is trying to provide parents with their physiological needs; filial piety of heart-forgiving parents is a great filial piety.

12. Give clothes to their parents, be filial to their parents' preferences, feel filial to their parents, and make their parents peaceful and happy. Singles will get married sooner or later. Happiness is not what our parents worry about, it is the boundary of filial piety.

13. Their children are unfilial and will not be blessed. He complained that his family was poor, so he added to the difference.

14. Parents who are filial will naturally live longer; children who are not filial to their parents will live longer, and then give their parents a lot of trouble throughout their lives. Such children become prodigal stars.

15. An old man living alone can feel at ease and happy. As a filial old man dying, his serene smile is the end of his filial piety.

BR />Brothers and sisters said:

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Brothers and sisters are a Tianfu star with righteousness as their root.

2. "Yi" unconditional help at all costs. When a person is in trouble, others should be in place to help; those who are in good condition should try to help the poor.

3. If the brothers and sisters in the same room fight against each other and the same roots stir up Lingzu, the Mongolian filial piety is gray, weak, and helpless, and the brothers and sisters cannot love each other, and the parents must be worried and still unsatisfied. Therefore, to honor your parents, you must be harmonious with your brothers and sisters.

4. Brothers and sisters, brothers, respect each other, sympathize with each other, help each other, and trap each other.

5. With the help of brothers and sisters, know how to express gratitude, thanksgiving and gratitude.

6. Brothers are half of parents and should lead by example to help parents and careers and assist parents in improving everything. Inherited from my parents’ blog, Zuxian De.

7. Brother's brother. Parents take care of younger siblings.

8. When should brothers and sisters have brothers? As the elder, it is impossible for a brother to fill his place.

9. There are no scandals and gossips, don’t blame your parents and brothers.

10. Be lively and frugal and take command without any hesitation, which means when you do something.

11. The heart of the family and the virtues of learning, carry forward the fine family tradition. Being able to do this, one will thrive.

12. After he got married, he made a comparison of wealth and competed with each other over family tradition, one to one.

13. Brothers and sisters are not fighting for property, nor are brothers whose brides are injured. The way of brothers is the word "body", which is a long road and involves filial piety. Injured hands, feet and platonic feelings are against the will of heaven and will be punished someday in the future. The girl said:

Women are the source of the world. If the world and the country are good, good society and family should be destroyed. Who is the good girl?

2. A good girl at the time, a girl who understands.

3. This girl is the root of your mark, sexy as cotton, and the star of the room.

4. In order to commemorate this root, be not greedy, determined not to compete, be sure to be filial to your parents, brother and sister-in-law, and take good care of your nieces and nephews.

5. Attributes are like cotton, white as cotton, as protective as jade, soft as cotton, patient, not allowed to lose temper;

6. Such as cotton's warmth, others will not be indifferent, such as cotton's long, non-retired blog.

7. Do anything and everything, nothing is chosen, like the heart of cotton truth, it is sex, no different.

8. The girl is half main force and half bin. Everyone knows that the benefits of family and music can improve people's spirit and get married.

9. A girl is the key to a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The law encountered was not convincing to both parties.

Previously, his mother said that the benefit of the sister-in-law and the sister-in-law comforted her heart, and the physical solution of the sister-in-law mentioned in the law was the daily mother.

10. Filial piety, doing this in front of his mother, was mentioned in the brother-in-law Ti Lu, joy, is mentioned in the home.

11. If the family is talkative, not only does it not know what is right and what is wrong, but it expands into a non-traumatic and extreme chaos, and becomes ready to go home, and people are kicking the family apart.

12. At home, a kind girl, and a good unmarried daughter-in-law will be able to help her husband become enlightened, respect her husband, be harmonious with her sisters in law, honor her parents in law, and have family harmony, which is truly a blessing from the happy star.

13. Later, with the children, teaching your children to become famous can naturally lead to being a good mother.

14. The old lady will be the lucky star with a house full of pockets.

15. The girl said, if you can do it, then this is Yuanqing.

16. As a girl, it is important for the daughter-in-law to understand the past truth in order to secure a happy marriage in the future.

17. Most of the daughters whose parents love flesh and blood are very harmonious. The daughter's speech and behavior are free and unconstrained. Coupled with the nature of women, weak in self-control, they inevitably rely on their parents who love to act coquettishly. Her parents couldn't bear Daphne's claim to always listen to her when things happened, and they inevitably developed a coquettish idler who would make requests, come from Italy, bloom and do more. After he gets married, he will still be recognized as a coquettish person, which will inevitably lead to family conflicts and make him very painful.

Therefore, a daughter must first understand the road and serve Wenggu before her parents.

18. A girl is irresponsible in her family's finances, if she enjoys luxurious lifestyle habits, builds her own home page, and bears absolute or relative responsibility for the family's finances. But if his extravagant and wasteful habits don't change, it will definitely cause family conflicts and pain. Therefore, during this period, girls develop a simple living habit, cultivate the virtue of thrift, and build the cornerstone of a happy family.

19. When you are a girl, you should practice housekeeping. Such as financial control, housework, children's education, guidance, etc., must be faced and assumed after marriage, but also avoiding the scope of one's own responsibilities is a blind coquettish idler, and parents who indulge in favoritism will suffer difficulties or (girls) themselves.

Friends said:

Friends are synonymous with friends and his comrades.

2. The moral villain of a gentleman makes friends and has the right to make friends.

3. The regulation of kindness is the moral friendship, the friendship between gentlemen, the friendship between gentlemen, the friendship between snobbish people, the wine and meat, the profitable friendship is over once the friends are lost, the friendship between villains.

4. Profits are the definition of disadvantage, and snobbish friendships, hopefully, don't last long.

5. As the saying goes: "Near red and red, close to black ink." Therefore, we should be close to good friends with virtue and morality here, and stay away from bad friends who only know how to spend time and debauch.

6. With friends, the good will come from the improvement of the poor, and the benefit will be to be able to have friends instead of suffering.

7. Being blind and confused, regardless of good or evil, right or wrong, drifting will be harmed by friends.

8. The correct way is not to be a friend's tired, but Zhaoyi's change, not only to correct their friends, but also to improve the moral level of the best friend.

9. The way to be a responsible friend, but good friends who are responsible enough, or friends who are happy have no music. As many friends as possible, Sishu carries them with him.

10. I hope that your actions will be correct and convincing, and your words will be effective.

11. Hearing the anger, smelling the reputation of music, enemies and friends; smelling the reputation of fear, Wen Xin, directly understanding the disabled, becoming blind.

12. It is very important for friends to hold each other in opposite directions and allow appropriate space.