A newly married couple. The wife’s cooking skills are not good and the dishes she cooks are difficult to eat. At this time, the husband has to bite the bullet and eat. While eating, he praises: "It tastes great," and pretends to eat. This is a white lie between husband and wife. Even if your wife knows that what you are telling is a lie, she will be happy to accept it.

Another example is that the color and style of the clothes that the husband buys for his wife are not necessarily certain. It is in line with the wife's psychology, but in order not to disappoint her husband, the wife deliberately says that she likes her very much. If the wife tells the truth, both of them will be unhappy, and the husband will feel very embarrassed. A lie can avoid the unpleasant feeling and make the relationship between husband and wife The room was filled with romantic warmth.

There are more examples of life-saving lies. On August 2 last year, water leaked from the Wenlian Coal Mine in Downlow Town, Pu'an County, and the roof collapsed. Xiao Hong, Yang Tongshun and four other people were working underground; ten minutes , the flood flooded the alley and the roof, the way out was blocked, and there was no way out. They were forced to a platform one meter high and three meters wide above the alley. The water level was still rising, and the situation was extremely critical.

The four of them divided into two groups and took turns digging coal ash above the platform. They dug out two steps over one meter high in two days. With no food or ammunition, they went without food for three or four days. Hunger, cold, fear and despair struck together. In order to encourage everyone to fight against the approaching death in desperate situations, Xiao Hong lied again and again that the water level was falling, and whoever could persist would be able to get out alive.

On the fourth day of persistence, some people in the tunnel with thin air had already collapsed and passed out. But at this time, the water level really dropped. The four of them felt that this was an opportunity to escape, and climbed to the mouth of the well step by step, supporting each other. ; At this time, nine water pumps at the wellhead were draining water day and night. People on the well thought that the four of them must have no hope of survival, but unexpectedly they won the final victory in the fight against death.

Return There is an example of an American transport plane in the last century that encountered a sandstorm and made an emergency landing in the desert. However, the plane was severely damaged and could not resume takeoff. The communication equipment was also damaged, and communication with the outside world was interrupted; nine passengers and one driver were The crew members were in despair; their survival instinct made them fight for the limited dry food and water.

At the critical moment, a temporary passenger on the plane stood up and said: "Don't panic, everyone. I "I am an aircraft designer. As long as everyone works together and listens to my instructions, the aircraft can be repaired." This was like a shot in the arm, stabilizing everyone's mood. They consciously saved water and dry food; everything was in order, and everyone united to fight against the sandstorm.

More than ten days passed, and the plane was not repaired; but a camel caravan of businessmen traveling to and from the desert rescued them when they passed by. A few days later, people discovered that the temporary passenger was not at all. He is not an airplane designer, he is a primary school teacher who knows nothing about airplanes. When someone knew the truth, they called him a liar and angrily asked him: Everyone's lives are almost in danger, but you still have the heart to deceive us? The teacher said :If I hadn’t lied at that time, would everyone be alive today?

Isn’t there a saying: White lies are beautiful. When we tell moderate lies for the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect and tolerance, and have magical power.

Let’s take an example. There is a student who is not very good at long-distance running. However, in a test, the teacher told him that his long-distance running speed was faster than other students, and also said He had the opportunity to represent the school in a competition and told him to work hard. After hearing the teacher's words, the student was very excited because he, who had always thought that he had no talent for long-distance running, could actually represent the school in a competition. From that day on, he really fell in love with long-distance running and insisted on running every day. After a while, he was actually selected to represent the school in the competition.

There was once a teacher who made a lie and said that he could predict the future for his students: you might become a mathematician in the future, he might be a writer, which one has artistic talent... Under the guidance and influence of the teacher Through education, encouragement and shaping, children become diligent, sensible and eager to learn. A few years later, a large number of students entered the university with excellent results, and the village became famous for it. People think that this old teacher can calculate and perceive the future. In fact, the teacher’s good intentions are to plant a beautiful lie in the heart of the child, just like sowing a seed in the soil, which will eventually flourish. Mao, blossom and bear fruit.

My eyes always get wet when I read the American short story "The Last Leaf". When the sick old man looked at the withering leaves and felt desolate and despairing, the loving painter used a carefully sketched green leaf to decorate the withered tree of life, thus maintaining the dying light of life for a while. Isn't this the ultimate lie?

Lies born out of good wishes are the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It ignites a fire of hope in people's hearts, convinced that there is love, trust, and touching in the world, and thus finds more reasons to smile at life. White lies are the spirituality given to human nature, embodying the delicacy of emotion and the maturity of thought, prompting people to be strong and persistent, to strive hard involuntarily, and finally to overcome vulnerability and survive in desperate situations.

A lie from a parent can make the face of a child who is not familiar with the world as bright as a flower; a lie from a teacher can help hesitant students no longer be confused and grow better; a lie from a doctor can make the fearful students no longer confused. The patient goes from destruction to rebirth...

Dear friends, wake up. In fact, white lies do not hinder integrity at all. Don’t think that white lies will hinder integrity anymore, because As long as you are thinking about others, then a white lie is precious. It will neither cause a crisis of trust, nor tarnish civilization, nor distort human nature.

White lies have the magical power to inspire you to make progress again and again and never give up for the dreams in your heart. Because the road ahead is completely illuminated by a happy mood, and life becomes better because of it.

If being honest and forthright is a mistake, I choose to lie.

If true confession and frankness are a kind of harm, I choose to lie.

If it is to save yourself or others from pain and sorrow, what’s the harm in lying more?

White lies do not hinder integrity

The reason why "lies" are called "lies" is because they are false, untrue, and deceptive words. If a person often lies in his mouth to deceive others, he will lose people's trust over time. Just like the child in the article "The Lying Child", he shouts "Wolf is coming" every day to seek excitement and happiness. But when the wolf really comes, he has only one person to face it and bear it, no matter what. Shouting would not help, and no one would come to help him again. Because maybe the people who came to help him were used to his shouting and thought he was "teasing you" again. It can be seen that lies hinder integrity.

But today, the "lie" we are talking about has another attributive - well-intentioned. With the addition of this qualifier, the nature of lies has fundamentally changed. "White lies" are people's good wishes for things, the dialogue between people's kind hearts, the warmth that people comfort each other, and the tenderness revealed in people's hearts... No one will go Investigating its credibility, even if the person who hears a white lie knows it is a lie, he will still try to believe it and will not feel the liar's hypocrisy. Sometimes he will be grateful from the heart.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by a doctor, his parents, spouse, children, and all relatives will not tell him directly: "Life can no longer be saved." Words like "How long can you live in this world at most?" Although these are all true, who would be so cruel as a judge sentencing a prisoner to death and tell the truth to a loved one who is already in pain? At this time, everyone will form a united front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make the patient full of hope for treatment, so that the patient can spend the remaining days of his life with a peaceful mind. Could this be detrimental to integrity?

When a child who is not familiar with the world suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his relatives, how should he explain to him where his relatives have gone? We think the best way is: don't tell him the real situation for the time being, just say that he went on a business trip to a far away place, or studied and worked abroad. When the child becomes sensible and has a certain tolerance, he will tell the truth and the child will understand the behavior of his relatives and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier.

Doesn't this also hinder integrity?

When the mother of a soldier who is on a mission in the field is terminally ill and takes her last breath, she wishes she could see her son for the last time. However, the son cannot come back and show his filial piety to his old mother. Taking care of the mother who had been worried about her son, he was very apologetic and missed her very much. The old mother understood her son very well and told the relatives around her that after she left, she should not tell her son who was far away or distract him. She should say that his condition had stabilized so that he could feel at ease and be loyal to the country. Is such a white lie detrimental to integrity?

So, I insist that white lies not only do not hinder integrity, but also greatly enhance the friendship and feelings between people, and also have an indelible effect on social stability. I would like to suggest that you use white lies when they should be used, and there is no big conflict with whether they are honest or not.

We know that people in this society are burdened with many obligations, and there are sometimes conflicts between obligations. When one obligation overrides another, , it is necessary to relieve another obligation. Therefore, the essence of a white lie is a more urgent and important obligation, and this obligation comes at the expense of mitigating the obligation of good faith.

A long time ago, a Western philosopher once said: There are only two things in this world that can cause deep shock in people's hearts: one is the brilliant starry sky above our heads, and the other is the lofty moral principles in our hearts. ―Integrity. Obviously, there is nothing more beautiful and innocent than the beauty of the soul, and integrity is precisely one of the manifestations of inner beauty. I think it is not difficult for the other classmate to see from this that since it is a lie, it hinders integrity, and the effectiveness and benefits obtained will ultimately come at the expense of integrity.

Here I would like to ask the other classmate, when a person loses his integrity, does his starting point still have good intentions?

Please note to the opposing debater that the topic of our debate today is whether white lies impede integrity, not whether lies impede integrity.

First of all, "Modern Chinese Dictionary" explains "lie" as untrue words, which are obviously neutral in emotional color. Lying for different purposes will lead to completely different results: deceiving people with cunning and treacherous means for the purpose of harming others and benefiting oneself. It is malicious fraud and will inevitably lead to the loss of social morality and disorder of order. Another kind of hiding the true situation for the purpose of benefiting others is good-faith concealment, which will make the relationship more harmonious and the society more harmonious. Therefore, good-faith concealment and malicious fraud are very different from motivation to result and cannot be confused. When a poor mother leaves her only food to her children while hiding the fact that she is still hungry, do you still accuse the kind and noble maternal love of being "dishonest"?

Second, what is “integrity”? Honesty and trustworthiness. The ancients have long advocated "sincerity" and "trustworthiness", emphasizing the consistency of words and deeds, the unity of knowledge and action; the principle of integrity requires people to consciously abide by the law, be sincere and trustworthy. But none of them simply requires people to tell the truth 100%. It is extremely terrifying to tell the truth regardless of the situation: Can you tell the enemy all our military intelligence during the war? Can you reveal your trade secrets to your opponents in the market? Therefore, since the principle of good faith does not mean simplistic 100% truth, concealment in good faith when necessary will not conflict with the principle of good faith.

Third, white lies are a correct and friendly way of doing things, and their motives, purposes and results are all consistent with "integrity". The significance of promoting integrity in society is to cultivate people's noble moral sentiments, establish mutual trust among people, and create positive interactions for mutual benefit. And those white lies full of kindness and compassion are used to make relationships more harmonious, life warmer, and society more harmonious. More harmonious. "The way of a university ends with perfection." Out of the same good intentions, the two are closely unified. To sum up, let me reiterate our point of view:

First, lies are divided into malicious fraud and well-intentioned concealment based on their essential differences, and the two cannot be confused.

Second, "integrity" does not mean 100% truthfulness without specific analysis. Under certain circumstances, good-faith concealment is indispensable.

Third, white lies are consistent with the principle of good faith from purpose to result.

Therefore, we believe that white lies do not hinder integrity.

[Effective]:

I am very happy to express my opinion today on whether white lies undermine integrity.

The following is our view:

There is no doubt that a white lie itself is a lie. Lies, lying is deception, deception is immoral, and immoral things are unpopular. These are all things that our teachers have taught us since childhood. But we ask ourselves, who has never told a lie? Whether it is for our relatives, friends, or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add a "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone may accept it. This is a concentrated expression of the weakness of human nature.

Mark Twain once said: "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will embarrass your opponents and relieve your friends." Therefore, psychology The opinion of academic experts is: Don’t lie easily, even if it’s a white lie.

[Opposition]:

When a poor mother leaves the only food she has for her children while hiding the fact that she is still hungry, do you still want to accuse a kind and noble person? Is maternal love "dishonest"? In fact, we can see the shadow of white lies everywhere in life, from the tearful comfort before the sickbed to the politeness when rejecting politely, from the decay of the lover's world to the beautiful exaggeration in the poet's writing, but they are not that terrible, let the other party talk about it. "Lie" and color changes. [Effective]:

Please note that even if it is a white lie, as a lie itself, it is an act contrary to integrity. Therefore, no matter whether the lie has a good purpose or not, it must be a lie itself. It would impair integrity. Therefore, I want to speak loudly here, let us reject white lies and jointly build an honest society. [Opposition]:

In the first argument, the other party pointed out that when a person faces two obligations, and when they conflict with each other, the obligation of the other party should be alleviated. But the first defense of the affirmative did not discuss that white lies and honesty are contradictory. How can we directly conclude that white lies will definitely relieve the duty of good faith?

Please note that the opponent’s defense team has clearly stated in the first defense that lies themselves should have the function of deceiving, and only malicious lies are based on deception. Please do not narrow the extension of the concept of “lie”.

[Effective]:

Please note that there are major omissions in your defense. We believe that when distinguishing things, we should first start with the definition. Based on the definition of Kangxi Dictionary, a white lie is to seek truth without facts, to tell lies, to exaggerate, to cover up, and to distort the truth. Let’s start with the analysis of the phrase structure of white lies. It is a biased phrase, and the central word is lie. Therefore, white lies are essentially lies. Although the motives of white lies are good intentions, because good intentions themselves have certain uncertainties, they are often exploited by some "professional liars" - this is an indisputable fact. "Lies" themselves are dark. The likes and dislikes of things cannot be measured by their purpose. White lies themselves are lies. Although he took off his beggar's clothes and put on a cheongsam, he still couldn't get rid of the essence of lies, and lies mean deception, thus hindering integrity. The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once such a lie is exposed, it will hurt the other party more deeply. As a lie itself, it is an act contrary to integrity.

In the 20-word code of ethics proposed in the "Implementation Outline for Citizen Morality Construction" promulgated by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, "integrity" is a very important code. Integrity is the pursuit of "truth" and the pursuit of integrity. justice. The ancients said that "the true one" is the most sincere person. If you are not refined or sincere, you cannot move people.

As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech: "The harmonious socialist society we want to build should be democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, integrity and friendliness, full of vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature. society. ”

Through the above-mentioned multi-faceted analysis, we believe that no matter whether a lie has a good purpose, it will definitely hinder integrity as a lie.

[Opposition]:

White lies and honesty are moral norms in different categories and will not conflict, just like a car will not hit a plane.

Integrity: Trust. In Chinese culture, "faith" and "righteousness" constitute "faithfulness", which is a humanistic spirit and a criterion for life.

"Faith" and "sincerity" are connected to form the moral code of "honesty", which is a rare product. The sages of modern Western jurisprudence proposed the concept of "contract society". All relationships between people are contractual relationships. In such a In society, integrity is the bottom line of social morality. After my country establishes a market economy, it is necessary to establish a standardized and orderly market, and integrity has become the most important criterion. Therefore, "integrity" in the modern sense is the moral code for market operation.

White lies, all kinds of white lies from the starting point and the result, are all to protect the other person's emotions and maintain the other person's mental health and happiness, which is a kind of humanistic spirit. Because of the existence of white lies, the world becomes better, warmer, and more harmonious. The world will be full of love and sunshine, children will grow up healthily, the elderly will enjoy their old age, and the patients will be full of hope.

So, these are two moral principles in different fields, which will not conflict or contradict each other, and white lies will not hinder integrity.

A white lie is not a "lie" (a malicious lie), just like a whale in the sea is not a fish, and a mouse is not a mouse.

[Effective]:

Please pay attention to the other party’s argument. Is it a lie? Where does the goodwill come from? ! That’s goodwill! Why lie? !

Although lies are well-intentioned, as a lie itself, it is an act contrary to integrity. Therefore, no matter whether the lie has a good purpose or not, as a lie, it will definitely hinder integrity.

Looking back at the national spirit, it turns out that integrity is actually in the dim light. Across the river of thousands of years, one can still clearly hear: Integrity is the virtue of the Chinese nation, just like the Great Wall is the symbol of the Chinese nation. If a person loses his integrity, what he leaves behind is hypocrisy: if an enterprise loses its integrity, it will face bankruptcy; and if a nation loses its integrity, it will face corruption and death!

If you keep your word and integrity, you will have a pure land; if you keep your word and integrity, you will succeed; if you keep your word and integrity, the Chinese nation will be eternal.

Here I would like to ask the other classmate, when a person loses his integrity, does his starting point still have good intentions?

[Opposition]:

Please note that the debate topic of our debate today is whether white lies hinder integrity, rather than discussing whether dishonest people still have good intentions. Please understand the logic of cause and effect. The opponent's fellow debater said that since it is a lie, how can there be any good intention? Do you doubt the existence of white lies? Since there are no white lies, is our discussion today still meaningful?

[Effective]:

There is no need, why are we sitting here debating?

So-called white lies may also lead to unforeseen consequences. He also gave an example: A person is terminally ill. In order to allow him to spend the rest of his life peacefully, his relatives and friends unanimously hide it from him. There is absolutely no malice and no self-interest in this, but it often fails to satisfy people's expectations and the deception cannot last long. On the contrary, the patient loses the rationality to cooperate with treatment and the opportunity to deal with personal affairs. The female philosopher Sisela Polk warned that such lies will put people on the verge of a major decline in personality. She wrote in her book "Lying, Moral Choices in Public and Private Life": "The psychological barriers disappear, the ability to distinguish truth from falsehood becomes more blurred, and the concept of believing that lies cannot be detected may tend to Paranoid." Some psychologists who have studied the phenomenon of lying suggest that before anyone wants to tell some "white lies" to friends, relatives, or colleagues, it is best to carefully consider an issue involving psychological reactions, that is, if the other party After knowing the truth, will I be grateful for your kindness, or will I feel that my long-term trust in you has been hurt by you

[Opposition]:

The opponent's opponent has admitted to the white lie. exist. Relatives and friends will not affect the treatment. In fact, they are for better treatment. Stress will only affect the condition. A mother divorced her husband. The child was still ignorant at the time. The mother told the child that your father is a sailor and is abroad now. He will come back in a few days. The child is full of expectations for life and has never been distressed or felt inferior because of the lack of a member of his family - his father. Later, the mother scored twice, found a new husband, and established a new family, so she said to her child: Your father has come back from abroad. As a result, there is no barrier between the child and his father, and they share the same affection as father and son. Since the father does not see the child outside, he treats the child as his own. Give your children daily tutoring so that they can grow up healthily and become students in prestigious universities.

One day, when the child graduated from college, she finally found out that her father was not her biological father. Although she cried and was distressed that she had been deceived, she would eventually understand that her mother was right to do this, otherwise she would not There will be no happy childhood, no healthy psychology, no good academic achievements, no happy family, no ~~~~~

Ask the other debater, ask yourself, in the world Who would doubt the personality and integrity of another person because of a white lie?

[Format]:

“White lies are more of excuses”!

Anyone who uses an excuse is trying to use it to protect themselves or others. Help us save face so we can endure setbacks.

Gaismer said: "It is quite common to think that you are better than you really are." The excuses people come up with are sometimes unexpected. Why do people deceive themselves and others? American humorist Lai Dele pointed out: "Most people do not live in reality, but live in fantasies, especially fantasies about themselves." Then again, it is sometimes difficult to understand the truth about yourself and your friends. It's very cruel, and it's best not to know about it.

However, most excuses are destructive. Using excuses unconsciously can fool yourself, if not others. So I ask the other party to realize, have more integrity and less excuses! At the same time, I would like to ask the other party, if everyone has this view, how can we build an honest society and how can our country develop greater integrity?

People always give lies a derogatory connotation. This is because there is a crisis of integrity in today's society, and lies are actually neutral. Even if today's society proposes the ethics of integrity, it does not require that the truth be told in all circumstances, and lies are not allowed to exist. White lies are not "lies" (malicious lies), and they do not conflict with integrity and have their existence. Spatially, if you don't like the word "lie", we can mind linguists creating another word, such as "false words" and "euphemism" to express the semantic meaning of white lies.

White lies leave behind the ugliness and come to the beautiful world!

White lies abandon selfishness and come to the world of integrity!

Ask your opponent to give examples. Who has been harmed by white lies? Causes loss of integrity?

[Affirmative]:

You did not answer the affirmative’s three questions directly. I think that even if lies are well-intentioned, their negative impact is everywhere. No need to give examples. This negative impact on integrity is often relatively subtle and is a kind of chronic poisoning. Ignoring this poison is undoubtedly deceiving oneself and stealing the bell. I would like to ask the debaters on the other side. You keep saying that white lies and integrity are two different categories. Could you please give an accurate definition of white lies?

[Contrary]:

The affirmative side said in the third argument that "white lies are more of excuses". Does this sentence require proof? Is it possible to quote directly without argument? The affirmative's three arguments directly demonstrate the harm of "excuses", which contains serious logical errors. At the same time, I found that the opposing debater had many logical errors, so I won’t list them all here.

We asked the other party to cite examples, but the other party said that there are many examples, but still did not cite one.

Everyone knows the meaning of a white lie. It is not a new concept. Why need to define it again?

The affirmative's third defense repeatedly emphasized that white lies are chronic poisoning and are hidden. However, they did not conduct rigorous demonstrations or cite an example, but directly concluded that we cannot agree with it.

May I ask my fellow debater, how do white lies undermine integrity?

[Effective]:

When two people were in love, both parties promised never to change their hearts, but later they broke up. This was a white lie at the time, but the victim was later It was a serious blow. Does 1+1=2 require people in our area to continue to argue? This is a very simple question. Just like the idea that white lies are excuses. Japan ignores historical facts and distorts history, and gets This is strongly condemned by most Asian people. When the German president devoutly expressed his condolences to the victims of World War II, he received not only the Nobel Peace Prize, but also the understanding and tolerance of the people of the world.

If a country or a nation can always treat and evaluate objective things with a fair heart, it will definitely create an atmosphere of honesty and clarity instead of a vicious cycle of intrigue.

Premier Zhu Fangji pointed out in the government work report at the fifth session of the Ninth National People's Congress that it is necessary to "effectively strengthen the construction of social credit and gradually form a good governance system in which integrity is the basis and ethics is the most important factor in the whole society. fashion". Being honest and making friends is an important part of our country's traditional morality. It is also a fundamental measure to maintain the normal operation of the economy, promote institutional innovation, and rectify and standardize the market economic order at present and in the future. At present, with the rapid development of the economy and society and the evolution of people's values, the lack of credit in some fields and individuals has increasingly become a serious social hazard and must be paid great attention to. As the opponent said in the first argument, how can lies be in good faith? Since they are lies, they hinder integrity. May I ask the opponent’s opponent, what is integrity? What is lacking in our society?

[正方]:

We believe that so-called kind lies are detrimental to integrity. Of course, the lies here are not the shocking scams that people usually say, but are just pretending to affirm or affirm the practices, opinions or views of spouses, relatives and friends. Lies that support (but don’t actually approve of).

Here is an example of a company manager named Tom in Southern California. Tom spends Thanksgiving with his wife and son at his mother-in-law's house every year. He actually disliked eating a "special" pumpkin pie that his mother-in-law made, but told her how delicious her pie was to avoid hurting her feelings. "Is this wrong?" Tom asked his psychiatrist. This is a question that many people will ask. The psychologist asked him to see the lie from his mother-in-law's perspective. Suppose one day, Tom's son confides the truth in front of his grandmother, and her mother-in-law discovers Tom's true feelings. Will she tell Tom, "Thank you for your kindness?" Or will she feel emotionally hurt and say, "How could you do this all these years?" What else are you hiding from me like this?" And what questions will Tom's mother-in-law have about herself? Will Tom's son also imitate his father's lies? How would he view his father's personality? Will he believe what his father says again in the future?

A novelist once wrote: "The first time we try to tell a lie, we fall into the chaos we spin. "

We believe that the opponent has fundamental errors in the understanding and understanding of some concepts. Integrity is based on mutual honesty, and any deception is even the so-called " It can be said that "good faith" lies are completely different from "good faith". I don't think there is any need to demonstrate the concept of "good faith" lies here, as the analysis has been very clear.

[正方]:

Integrity has been advocated since ancient times. History goes back to 359 BC, when Shang Yang of the Qin Dynasty enacted legislation to enrich the country and strengthen the army with integrity. The allusion of "standing trees at the south gate" was staged. Shang Yang practiced Dharma for ten years. "The people of Qin are very happy, no one picks up things on the road, there are no thieves in the mountains, and the family has enough people." Today, as our country joins the WTO and the market economy is developing day by day, if counterfeiting is allowed to run rampant and credibility is lost, it will cause huge harm to economic life and bring disastrous consequences to social life. The current of dishonesty will surely erode like the plague. Trust between people hinders the pace of the socialist market economy. Looking back at the painful experience, it is urgent to advocate integrity, punish breach of trust, and improve credit ethics and credit legal systems. Time waits for no time

May I ask my friend, how can lies come from good intentions? If they are lies, they hinder integrity. May I ask the other party? Debate friends, what is integrity? What does our society need?

[Opposition]:

The other debater gave an example of lovers in love promising each other never to change their hearts. But then they broke up. This was not a white lie, but a malicious lie. It is a deception of the other party's emotions and cannot prove that malicious lies are deceptive.

[正方]:

We must reject lies and insist on integrity. How can we avoid the embarrassment encountered by the opposing party in work and life? We believe:

If you refuse at the beginning, there will be no embarrassing situation later. We now live in a time where candidness is frowned upon.

"Don't say that the hat worn by the aunt next door is ugly, do you hear me?"

"You have to tell the new head teacher, 'I am very happy that you are our head teacher'!"

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When we say similar things, it is not our sincere thoughts, but rather we choose some good words to say to each other that are not sad. This is because we believe that we cannot live without me

(give me more points because I am so serious)