bridesmaid
Bridesmaids' dresses are usually chosen in advance. Most bridesmaids prepare dresses for bridesmaids. If not, bridesmaids should prepare dresses in advance, mainly small dresses, and the styles should be simple and atmospheric. Don't choose to mop the floor or make yourself feel immobile, because the bridesmaid will accompany the bride that day. The bridesmaid's dress must be simple and generous. Don't upstage the bride. The main colors are pink, beige, blue and purple. Don't wear bright colors, just look decent. Remember that the protagonist of this day is not you, but the bride.
best man
The best man's clothing is also relatively simple, basically black. Don't choose white, because white is conspicuous and suitable for the groom. The color of the best man's suit should be steady Don't choose other colors, which will make people feel like stealing the groom's thunder.
Parents of both parties
The parents of the bride and groom should dress generously and simply on the wedding day, and the father mainly wears a suit. If * * * suits should also be formal, such as jackets, the color is mainly dark, while mothers can wear Hanfu, with dark colors and gold as the main colors, or formal suits and suits are better, showing their confidence as elders.
Relatives of both parties
Relatives of both sides usually wear formal clothes, and suits and suits are good choices, as long as they are not too exposed or too casual, and the colors are mainly dark or light.
friend
Most friends are about the same age as the bride and groom. Men usually wear suits or formal suits. Don't be too casual. T-shirts and jeans don't fit. Women generally wear skirts, not too short, knee-high, not too bright in color, and elegant in style.
Table manners that people attending the wedding should know.
1, the language is decent and humorous.
Sprinkle on the table, you can show a person's talent, common sense, self-cultivation and communication etiquette. Sometimes a humorous language will leave a deep impression on the guests and make people feel good about you invisibly. Therefore, it is very important to know when to say something, to use appropriate language, and to be humorous.
2, aim at both sides, grasp the overall situation
Most banquets have a theme, that is, the purpose of drinking. When you go to eat, you should first look at the expressions around you and prioritize. Don't drink for the sake of drinking, and you lose a good chance to make friends, let alone let some grandstanding drinkers disturb the host's meaning.
3, everyone is happy, avoid whispering.
Most banquets have more guests, so try to talk about topics that most people can participate in and get the approval of most people. Because of different personal hobbies and knowledge, the topic should not be too biased as far as possible, so as not to be dominated by one family, far apart, and talk endlessly, leading to digression and ignoring everyone.
In particular, try not to whisper to others and give others a sense of mystery, which will often cause jealousy of "just the two of you" and affect the effect of drinking.
4, moderate persuasion, don't force.
On the wine table, we often encounter the phenomenon of persuading wine. Some people always like to regard the wine field as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic to drink enough.
"Talk about heroes with wine" is ok for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for people who drink less. Sometimes, excessive persuasion will completely destroy the feelings of the original friends.
5. Toast in an orderly way, with clear priorities.
Baking bread is also a science. Generally speaking, a toast should be made in the order of age, position and the status of the guest and the host. Before toasting, we must fully consider the order of toasting and distinguish between primary and secondary.
In order to drink with people you don't know, you should first inquire about your identity or pay attention to what others call you so as not to be embarrassed or hurt your feelings.
When toasting, you must grasp the order of toasting. If you want to have a guest at the dinner table, you should be respectful to him, but you should pay attention to the fact that if someone with higher status or older people is present, you should not only be respectful to those who can help you, but also propose a toast to the respected elders first, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed.
6. Read words and understand people's hearts.
If you want to get everyone's appreciation on the wine table, you must learn to read and read. Because when dealing with people, we must understand people's hearts, so that we can play a good role on the wine table.
7, the edge is gradually exposed, sit firmly on Mount Tai.
At the banquet, you should see the occasion clearly, correctly evaluate your own strength, don't be too impulsive, try to keep some alcohol and talk, don't let others underestimate yourself and don't show yourself too much, choose the right time and gradually radiate your own edge, so as to sit firmly on Mount Tai and not give others the idea of "this ability", so that everyone can't underestimate your strength.