Confucius said, "The winner has three friends, but the loser has three friends. Friends are frank, friends forgive and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends will be open, friendly, soft, friends will be destroyed and damaged. "

Interpretation of Qian Yu:

Confucius said that there are three kinds of friends who are good to you and three kinds of friends who are bad to you.

Make friends with people who are outspoken to me; Make friends with honest and upright people; It's good to make friends with well-informed people.

Make friends with vain and superficial people; Make friends with people who flatter, please and flatter; It is harmful to make friends with those who have a glib tongue but no real skills.

? This passage is Confucius' theory of making friends, which clearly points out who we should be friends with and who we should not be friends with. In fact, each of us has a conscience and knows right and wrong, but we tend to be soft-hearted or confused for a while, so we make friends with bad people, and the result is to harm others and kill each other. Today, after we talked about three kinds of friends that are beneficial and three kinds of friends that are harmful, I hope everyone will strictly implement them and make clear who to leave and who to be close to.

Tomoshi, this person is very straightforward and points out your shortcomings bluntly. He is an honest man, so we will make friends with him. Straight people are often annoying and you will be annoying. People are proud, and you will feel bad if you don't give you face. But we should overcome this character defect and face the reality. This man is honest and frank, so we will make friends with him to correct our mistakes.

? Forgive, be honest, be frank, and don't lie. Some people are full of lies and keep making up lies to deceive you. Such people should leave at once, or after a long time, you will be assimilated and enter the stage of killing each other.

? We make friends with people and only associate with them. Life is precious for honest and upright people, and we have no time to waste on lies.

In addition, birds of a feather flock together, who you make friends with, and slowly, what kind of person you will become.

? Friends, smell more. Make friends with well-informed people, why make friends with well-informed people? It's simple. This can broaden your knowledge, so as not to be an ignorant person and make jokes if you don't know anything.

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Which friends are harmful? Don't make friends with anyone?

Friends make friends.

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Shallow people dress themselves up every day. In fact, they are just a straw bag without inner feelings. Don't make friends with such people. After a long time, you will become a person who can only dress up.

Friendly and soft.

Flattery is flattering people every day. It is meaningless for such people to flatter each other every day without making friends with him.

Friends are easy.

Full of words. I talk about things that have nothing to do with me every day. I speak very loudly. In fact, I don't know anything, and I don't have any practical career. I can't do anything. I brag first. Don't make friends with such people.

? In short, when we make friends, we all want to associate with real people and want to be a real person ourselves. If you are not a real person, you can't associate with a real person.