1. The cost of making friends is too high.

In modern life and work, work pressure is generally high. Smart people naturally do not be confused when doing things. They are either busy working overtime or making more money.

In short, they are very busy and rarely arrange time for making friends in their schedules, because making a real friend is something that takes a lot of time and requires careful maintenance, and may not last long in the end.

Most people make so-called friends more for profit than for sincere friends, so it is better to cultivate a business partner to make more money.

2. Insufficient bandwidth for communication information.

When two friends are together, the bandwidth for exchanging information is very important. People have different growth processes and different levels of communication. In real life, two people can communicate efficiently due to various factors. There are very few people, and communication efficiency among most people is very low.

Guo Degang once gave an example where communication was completely impossible: For example, I told a rocket expert that your rocket is not good and the fuel is not good. I think you have to burn firewood, preferably coal, and the coal must be refined. For coal preparation, washing coal with water will not work. If that scientist looks at me seriously, he will lose."

Guo Degang and Yu Qian communicated very smoothly. In the few minutes of communication before taking the stage, he started talking, and Yu Qian knew what to do next. Doing this is also a major factor in their everlasting friendship.

3. There are too few people who can resist temptation.

Most people’s ideas change with time and location. Things will change, especially when it comes to profit issues, and they rarely stick to their original ideas.

After Deyun Club became popular, many veteran actors complained that they earned too little. After leaving Deyunshe, some reporters also felt aggrieved that Yu Qian did not have shares in Deyunshe. Yu Qian said that I felt very balanced. Why should I have shares in the company? I am just an actor in the company and there is no reason to ask for the company's stock price.

To be able to remain sober after becoming famous is why Yu Qian and Guo Degang have been friends for 20 years, and there are too few such people.

4. Farmers. and snakes.

Of course friends should help each other, but the story of the farmer and the snake tells us that if we help the wrong person, we will be harmed.

And this story. It is always happening in reality. It is easy for people not to help snakes, but the good and evil of people cannot be seen at once. What to do if you encounter it, you can only distinguish between good and evil and then help yourself. The safest,

The final choice is to wait for your own safety, and wait until you are sure that the other party is not a snake before helping. In the end, you don’t know how long you have to wait, and your friends will naturally Nothing to do.