Some children have been brought up by old people since childhood. Because of energy and physical reasons, the elderly seldom take their children with them, and their parents are busy with work, so children often stay at home or in the community, and lack of social activities will also lead to children's shyness.

In order to ease the shyness of children, parents must set an example, take their children out for a walk, go to some relaxing places, let their children get in touch with fresh environments and people, increase their knowledge and broaden their horizons, which will naturally help improve their social skills. It is best for children to go out with familiar friends, and the places to go out are chosen from near to far, which can not only eliminate strangeness, but also increase children's social experience.

2. Fully encourage and respect children's ideas.

If the child is cheerful and lively, but after experiencing some things, he becomes introverted and shy, or he is usually cheerful and shy only when facing some things or people, then parents need to know the reasons in time. For example, many children are good at singing children's songs and introducing themselves at home, but once they get to kindergarten or when there are many people, they will prevaricate for a long time, making everyone mistakenly think that they can't.

There are also some children who usually play well with children, but once they see a child coming, they will quickly avoid it. Parents must be clear about what their children are shy about, and see if their children are shy because they are unfamiliar with others, because they can't do things, or because they don't want to meet some people. Parents can encourage their children to tell the reasons, show understanding and respect, help them change together, and make them confident and strong.

3. Don't label children easily.

It is very taboo to label children at will, especially some bad labels. Some parents took their children out, and before the children came to say hello, parents quickly said, "My children are introverted and dare not talk to everyone", so even if the children wanted to talk, they don't want to talk now.

When parents blindly label their children as introverted, shy and timid, they will give them a psychological hint and make them more introverted and shy. Parents should encourage their children in time and say to him, "You are so brave today!" "Mom believes you can do it yourself" and so on. Form positive psychological hints for children.

Games are an important way for children to make friends and build self-confidence.

Games are the easiest way for children to relax wholeheartedly, and children are the easiest to make friends and express themselves in games. Many shy children don't like to chase and fight with other children, but they can also play some quiet games, such as building sand castles, building blocks and making handicrafts. If parents want to improve their children's shyness and introversion, they should encourage their children to participate in more games, especially outdoor activities. The relaxed and pleasant atmosphere of nature is more helpful for children to relax and enhance their self-confidence.