First, do more in action. In fact, in the process of chasing girls, many high-quality girls actually pay more attention to what boys do, and it is not important to filter out what boys say and whether they can catch up with their brains or not. For example, if you want to invite a girl to a movie, you should buy movie tickets in advance and prepare popcorn, snacks and drinks. In the middle of the movie, decide where to eat after watching the movie, and then send the girl home after the date. Sometimes girls actually pay more attention to the experience when they are together, rather than just listening to one or two sweet words. Of course, if you are a slow-witted, speechless person with low emotional intelligence, you will have no mobility and execution in the process of getting along with girls. When you get to the cinema, you always want to buy tickets, but after watching the movie, you can't find anything to eat ... Then after several times, girls will definitely not want to date you. Second, self-change If you are not only slow to respond to girls, but also slow in daily communication, then you may need to change yourself. Starting today, shut down and restart. Clothes should be neat and clean, and dressing should be divided into occasions. Emotional intelligence, eloquence and face should be honed. For example, ask passers-by in unfamiliar places and communicate with the opposite sex more. Or chat with the opposite sex online, don't chat with a gun. It's obscene. Speak normally. Finally, to rebuild your self-confidence, you must hint at yourself, and it is best to hint that your self-confidence is explosive. I feel that I have many advantages and few disadvantages. I am the handsome one. Hmm. In this way, you won't have this trouble when you get along with girls again. Third, in addition, in fact, people who chase girls with slow brains and low emotional intelligence always like to immerse themselves in their own world. If you want to change, you should try to escape from your comfort zone, find something new to do and see the world more. Help to talk with others, improve adaptability and conversation skills. How to chase girls with slow brain response and low emotional intelligence 2 1. How to show that boys have low emotional intelligence? Falling in love is not to please women, but to show your ability in front of women. Women fall in love for a living, not for keeping pets. You have to feel dependent on your life. You are thin in appearance, and then you are inferior in temperament, which makes people look shabby. Therefore, you should first correct your attitude of making friends and then experience yourself. Being thin can show shrewdness, while being fat can show wisdom. Let a girl like you, not because you are handsome and rich, but to stimulate her inner world. 2. How do you pursue the same kind of girls with your own high IQ and low EQ? How to find a girlfriend with low emotional intelligence? Let you be yourself, not sloppy and casual, but stick to principles and keep your own life style. Really care about each other, talk to each other and tell her when you miss each other. If you don't want to talk, just say, I'm tired, have a rest. Naturally, when you can really, really get along with a girl with your own unique style, that is, when you may be able to be with her. 3, if you are good at falling in love with each other, you don't have to be very talkative. If she takes the initiative, it proves that she likes you very much. Just be normal, be kind to her and care about her. Contact her when you miss her. You can send a message or make a phone call. Have dinner together, or go shopping and watch movies or something. Let's go out to play or cook or play games. * * * Compared with doing one thing, it will enhance the feelings between us. When the time is ripe, you can also propose to her. Girls will be more easily moved in a slightly more romantic place. In small matters, try to accommodate each other's differences, including hobbies, consumption concepts, etc. Pay attention to the relationship between yourself and your partner's parents. If you mention your parents in communication, you should show your respect for their families and remember to evaluate and complain about their families. Especially when lovers encounter the sadness of losing their jobs or loved ones, they must be the solid backing of lovers and always comfort and encourage each other.