What is it like to fall in love with a financial person? ?

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What is it like to fall in love?

Case 1

A girl posted a marriage advertisement on the classified information website Craiglist. She thought she was stunningly beautiful, elegant and tasteful, and wanted to find a man with an annual salary. With a boyfriend worth $500,000, he lives a happy life on Central Park West in New York.

A guy who claimed to be a JPMorgan industrial investment consultant replied:

“From a businessman’s point of view, marrying you is a bad decision. The truth is obvious. Digging into the details, what you are talking about is actually a simple "finance" and "appearance" transaction: Party A provides an outstanding appearance, Party B pays for it, and the transaction is fair. However, there is a fatal problem here. Your beauty will fade, but my money will not decrease for no reason. In fact, my income will probably increase year by year, but you will not become more beautiful year by year.

So, from now on. From an economic point of view, I am an appreciation asset and you are a depreciation asset. Not only is it depreciating, but it is also depreciating at an accelerated rate! You are now 25. In the next five years, you can still maintain your slim figure and pretty appearance, although you will lose a little more every year. There will be regression. But beauty will disappear faster and faster. If it is your only asset, your value will be very worrying after ten years.

In Wall Street terms, every transaction has one. Position, dating with you is a "Trading Position". Once the value drops, it must be sold immediately, and it is not suitable to hold it for a long time-that is, the marriage you want sounds cruel, but it will accelerate the depreciation of one thing. For supplies, the wise choice is to rent rather than buy. Anyone with an annual income of more than 500,000 is certainly not a fool, so we will only date you, but we will not marry you.

Case. 2

I work at the front desk and do business. I don’t travel very often except for meetings. I have to do transactions. I don’t travel as often as investment banks. Even if I travel, it doesn’t last long, but I do travel for an average of one month a year. I had at least one business trip experience.

My girlfriend (now upgraded to wife) was in a different place, and we were cross-border. It was very hard for me in the mainland and she was in Hong Kong, and it was very stressful to do business. .

There are just a few methods, making phone calls (I use Bluetooth to talk on the phone every day when I have nothing to do, and my arms can’t bear to hold the phone for a long time) and Skype videos are similar.

< p>Watch the drama together (download it first and then click on it together at a fixed time to synchronize the plot), and then complain together and so on.

Also, we try our best to spend the holidays together. Go out to play, find a place that is relatively close to both, and meet at that place.

I can’t accept others sending me away, so I usually fly back.

Zhihu: Song Siyuan

Case 3

My boyfriend works in investment banking and I work in auditing. We have been dating for a year and a half...

He is a senior, and I He was a junior, he chased me first, and after a long time, he fell in love seriously, and he took me home to meet his parents in the second week of our relationship.

The love experience is that you are here on a business trip, and I am here. I'm on a business trip there.

He has a higher level than me and has greater responsibilities than me. Although I am also very busy, he is busier than me. Our base is in the same city, but we can only meet once every two weeks. As long as he doesn't When working on a project, he stays with me 99.99% of the time.

There were quarrels, and my phone was blocked and I had no contact for half a month. It was really busy.

I also had quarrels because he often couldn't reply to messages in a hurry. Later, after a frank communication, I realized that it wasn't that he couldn't take care of me when he was usually busy, but that he felt that I was always quarreling with him. , He must maintain emotional stability at work, otherwise things will never be done, and this will make it even more impossible. In fact, I just want him to spend more time with me. Later we reached an agreement that I would not make any noise to him, and he promised to make short calls several times a day, and things are going well so far.

I was recently flirted with because I had a bad day at work. At that time, I was in a cold war with him and didn’t talk to each other. But he found out later! Angrier than me! I'm really angry, not just pretending. Let me sue the boss! The leader doesn’t care! We won't do it anymore! He takes care of me when I go home! I instantly felt so handsome! Being teased...seeing people's hearts at the critical moment. So, very grateful.

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