After hearing the above conversation, I thought I was still living in feudal times, and my daughter was not valued. I worked hard just to support the men at home. When I learned that the protagonist of the above conversation was a 4-year-old girl, I was deeply shocked by her parents' behavior, just for this natural "nibbling" behavior.

This 4-year-old girl is the well-known child star Alalei. She is only four years old and earns millions a year. She has always been envied by the public, and everyone wants such a promising daughter. It's just that this envy has disappeared with Ala Lei getting more and more busy and working harder, especially when watching a little girl under four years old hanging Weiya (many adult actors can't stand the pain of hanging Weiya), most parents will only sigh and sigh that their children are regarded as cash cows.

As a practitioner in the field of parenting, I pay more attention to "making money for my brother". Alalei was only four years old when she said this, and she was still a naive child. A four-year-old wouldn't have said such things if her parents hadn't conveyed similar things to her all day.

Just like one Tong Mo I interviewed some time ago, the other is an 8-year-old boy. When it comes to making money, the first reaction is not "making money for my sister", but "making money for myself". What I want is to buy toys to eat delicious food, not to support my family.

I think this is the dereliction of duty of Alaret's parents' education. "Biting small" is terrible, and biting your daughter with your son is even more irritating. From a legal point of view, Alalei has no obligation to support her brother. She is still a minor. No wonder the state has specially promulgated relevant advertising laws in order to protect the rights and interests of minors. It is estimated that some vampire parents are terrible.

(1) affects children's physical development and health.

Take the famous child star Ashton Chen as an example. He paid a lot for martial arts in those days. In the morning, when everyone was still sleeping, he was awakened by his father to practice when he was two or three years old. After the age of five, he ran on both sides of the set, busy from morning till night, which seriously affected his physical development and health.

Not from a health point of view, after all, Ashton Chen is great. From the perspective of growth and development, Ashton Chen, who could have grown to 1.8 meters, is now 1.7 meters, which is because she didn't keep up with her sleep when she was a child.

Not only Ashton Chen, but also many children who debut as child stars are always limited in height, perhaps because of a waist injury or lack of rest time, which makes the originally developing children passive and makes outsiders feel distressed.

② It is not conducive to children's normal interpersonal communication.

The child star I know is a lively and cheerful child, who is always laughing and laughing on the set and is very popular with three generations of actors. However, after leaving the cast, she was a lonely child, especially at school.

Once, in order to find examples of campus bullying, I took materials from relevant campus forums. Who wants to read the post that child stars (now girls) are bullied? The children who posted it gloated, saying what about the big star? Nobody cares about her at school, she will always be special! There is a lot of malice between the lines, which makes me feel very cold.

Later, when I met her again, I realized that because she often took time off to film, sometimes she was anxious to bring makeup to school. This series of special behaviors makes children of the same age reject her, let alone socialize normally and not be bullied. It is the treatment that teachers pay special attention to. But her parents don't think so. They think it's good not to make friends, so that their daughter won't be famous and exposed maliciously in the future. Hearing these words, I am helpless.

③ Distort children's view of money and values.

This is the most crucial point. This is the case with 8-year-old Tong Mo, from whom I used to draw material. She lost interest in learning at an early age. She just graduated from primary school and is sophisticated. As soon as she opened her mouth, she cut corners and was greedy for money, completely losing the excellent quality of her peers. And his parents don't care about their children's study, but they also ask with a smile, "What about your master's degree? You earn less than one month a year than my children. " I am ashamed to hear that.

Unfortunately, what this parent doesn't know is that parents are overdrawing their children's future, blocking their learning ability and long-term development, and their behavior is very short-sighted.

In my opinion, it is normal to cultivate children's child stars from an early age. After all, Zhang Ailing also said that it is necessary to become famous before it is too late. But this doesn't mean that parents can eat it indefinitely.

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The correct way to treat children of child stars should be to grasp the scale, pay attention to the combination of work and rest, and at least pay attention to completing nine-year compulsory education so that children can actively enter universities. Only when the learning ability is strong and the three views are correctly constructed can children have a long-term artistic development path. what do you think?

Topic discussion: Do you have gnawing parents around you?