We compare ourselves with friends and girlfriends because they are right in front of us. We don't compare ourselves with strangers on the roadside. It will not be compared with people who are many levels higher than us, because there is no comparability at all, but girlfriends are different. Two people can become girlfriends, which means that the three views and family growth backgrounds are similar, so they will be compared.
But this comparison is harmless. If two people are in the same class at school, they may be better than school or major at university, better than work and boyfriend after graduation, and even better than husband and children after marriage, but so what! If the other person is better than himself, he is happy. If the other person is not as good as himself, he will pull. She is just a comparison object. Besides, if two people don't rob each other, they won't hurt their feelings.
We don't value the results of comparison. In addition, brothers and sisters may compare. There is nothing wrong with some unemotional comparisons between girlfriends. Because we have an object to compare with us, and each is a flag of the other, we will live harder and live more meaningfully.
As for the kind of girlfriend who really intrigues and doesn't want her to be good. How can two people who rob each other of resources or boyfriends come out under the guise of girlfriends? They can only be said to be familiar passers-by Even girlfriends are fake girlfriends. Stay away from such a person as soon as possible, because you never know when she will stab you in the back. At that time, it will really hurt feelings.