20 golden rules to help you survive in the workplace.

There are only two kinds of people in the office, the protagonist and the walk-on

In the workplace, if you want to relax and don't want to climb up, you can only walk on for life. The disadvantage of being a walk-on is that you have to die first, and you have no credit at all, so you should consider layoffs first. The current workplace is by no means a place to raise lazy people. If you want to live a better life than others, you have to be the protagonist and let others do it. You can't step on other people's shoulders, so you can only be a cushion for others.

Everyone should have ambition, even if he wants to destroy the world, he can have ambition, which is the first condition to become the protagonist.

In the workplace, if you don't have a goal, you can't actively climb up. In the end, you can only become a walk-on and become a victim of others. So whether you destroy the world or become the richest man, you must be ambitious and determined to win.

Don't be fooled by the ideal. Ideals are needed, but they are not others' ideals, but your own.

When it comes to ambition, some people think of corporate goals, corporate culture and impassioned speeches by bosses. Forget that, the boss's ideal is only the boss's, but in the workplace, you are independent. Keep a clear head and don't be fooled easily. No matter what other people's ideals are, we should firmly remember our own ambitions, which is the foundation of life.

4. If you really have no ambition, then fight for money.

Everyone will return to the game once in a while. If it weren't for the money, who would be an official? So making money is the main pursuit of people. A dangerous situation in the workplace is that the boss wins people's hearts with ideals and wants them to work for nothing. But if you really want to work without money, then you are worthless. Since you are worthless, what is the need to exist? Money is the only thing that measures your value. If you really don't want anything, go and make money.

You may not be smart, but you must not be careless.

The same is true in the workplace. You may not be clever, but you must not be careless. People who are not smart are clumsy at most and make things worse. In the workplace, this is not a big crime. But if you are not careful, you will infringe on the interests of others at any time and commit a workplace taboo that offends people. By then, I don't even know why I should wear it. Watch your mouth. If you can have an affair, talk less about your colleagues. If you can say something nice, don't speak ill of others.

6. The boss will know everything you say. So think about what to say and what not to say.

Don't expect your boss not to hear what you say in private. The boss knows everything is true. It's exactly the same in the workplace. As long as you are not talking to yourself alone, you have to worry that the person you are talking to will spread the word. And experience tells us that every comment about the company will eventually reach the boss. So when you talk to anyone, you should think about what to say and what not to say. Never say anything you shouldn't say. Shut up if you can.

7. It is necessary to have a heart-to-heart talk with the boss occasionally, but it should be targeted.

Remember, long talk is a means, and it doesn't really make you say everything. Occasionally, confide in your heart and say something irrelevant, which can make your boss think you are very considerate. In fact, no boss has ever really trusted you. Don't give up your heart when your eyes are full of tears. The one who is betrayed is always the one who has a heart-to-heart relationship.

8, no matter when, playing dumb is always the most difficult to make mistakes.

Jin Yong once said that behind his old ears, he can hear what he should hear, but he can't hear what he shouldn't hear. When someone tells you to face up to your position and choose the direction of things, no matter how you choose, it is wrong. Then pretending is the best choice, which is the hardest way to make mistakes without choice. Don't worry about being stupid. Even if everyone can see that you are stupid, they still can't do anything about you. The real unlucky ones are those who make it clear. With these walk-on sacrifices, it's not your turn.

9. Thinking of yourself as the smartest person is often the most stupid.

In the workplace, I always regard myself as the smartest person. I must be a really smart master who is a walk-on, and I am a stupid smart person. Be smart when you should be smart, and don't play dumb when you should be smart.

10, there must be a backer, but it is more reliable than a backer. Is to make yourself valuable.

Therefore, in the workplace, it is necessary to have a good relationship with the boss, and it is also important to find a good backer for yourself. And more importantly, let yourself have enough value so that every boss must win you over.

1 1, you are the boss, but the boss is not necessarily your person.

This meaning must be understood. When a boss tells you that you are his man, you must know in your heart that the boss is not your man. You are his and he is his own. When your business is in the boss's interest, they will not hesitate to betray you. Remember at all times that you are your own and only you can be responsible for yourself. Don't trust the boss to pretend to be intimate, it's always a trap.

12, the boss said he was at ease with you, but the truth may be just the opposite.

If the boss is really at ease with you, he doesn't have to mention it often at all. True trust is expressed through actions. When the boss is willing to work with you to do harm and struggle in the workplace, that is a sign of trust. But the boss verbally said that he was relieved of you, but be careful. It is very likely that you have done something to make the boss suspect that you are unfaithful.

13. Think from the boss's standpoint and do things from your own standpoint.

When your boss trusts you to do something, you must have an account in mind. Don't do everything foolishly. You should consider the problem from the boss's standpoint and understand why the boss is doing this and what he can achieve. Then choose from your own standpoint, some do it, and some shirk it. Even a seemingly loyal person like Yu Zecheng can't cover everything. Choose what suits your own interests. Ideas that are not in your interest push sugar to please the boss with what you have done, and let the boss know that you have tried your best with what you have not done.

14, the boss suddenly collapsed, don't panic, finish the task by yourself, and then find a new backer.

In the workplace, it often happens that the boss suddenly collapses. If you happen to meet, don't panic. Finish the work by yourself, beautifully and brilliantly. And this is the capital for you to settle down in the future, and you can use it to find a new backer. Again, you must make yourself valuable, which is more important than someone protecting you.

15, do a good job and work until you are old.

The words "do a good job to the end" and "make yourself valuable" are not contradictory. The value is reflected in the key point, which is the key place that will suddenly break out. When it doesn't matter, especially when you do something that is hard without merit, don't do it too well. Keep doing it well and you will keep doing it. If people think you can only do mediocre work, you will never get up even if you are exhausted.

16, there must be shortcomings.

In the workplace, there must be shortcomings. A perfect person with no shortcomings will be hated and stay away from others. If even the boss keeps his distance from you, the road to the workplace will be dangerous. So smart people will deliberately expose some shortcomings, especially some irrelevant shortcomings, so that the boss thinks he can praise you. This is the safest situation. But shortcomings must not be fatal, but they can't be your real shortcomings. They can only be amateur programs to chat during an affair, and they are more than friendly to people. If you want to blackmail them, there is no way.

17, people half a level higher than you are often the most dangerous, while people at the same level are natural enemies.

If you already have a job, you must feel the same way. Because people half a level higher than you have a sense of crisis, they are afraid that you may be on an equal footing with them at any time, so they will attack you whenever they have the opportunity. No matter the top or the first level, they are all bosses, and it is extremely dangerous for them to give you little shoes. People at the same level are inevitable enemies. As long as your boss is not a fool, he will definitely provoke his men to fight.

18, there must be nine truths in ten sentences, so that no one will believe a lie.

In the workplace, nine truths and one falsehood are also the best rules. A person with all unknown addresses can't be trusted by his boss. Only those who are loyal and hardly tell lies can deceive everyone at the most critical moment. You have to be an honest man, and an honest man can win people's trust. Without the trust of others, there will be no lies at the critical moment. Lying only needs to be at the most critical moment, say as little as you can. Everyone should have heard the story of the wolf coming.

19, treat every lie as a matter of life, so that you won't feel guilty when you lie.

The key difficulty in the workplace is how to get through your own psychological barrier. Some people are not born to lie, and they feel guilty when they lie. At this time, you need to remember your ambition. When a person has an ambition, an ideal and a belief, he can do anything. In order to complete the task, Yu Zecheng lied, killed people and did many bad things. This is entirely because he has faith in support, so Jing will not feel guilty. You should also remember that every lie can endanger your life. If you can't cross your heart, you may not realize your ideal. If you think so, will you still feel guilty?

20. Everyone is on the side of evil, because everyone has his own goodness.

Finally, say an ideal. Everyone has his own ideal. What is good for his ideal is evil. Because people have different positions and different needs. So in the eyes of others, you must stand on the evil side. You will always be your own good and others' evil. But what is the real great good and what is the great evil? Lying in order to realize your ideal is evil, but it is not a great evil. And if your ideal is to destroy the world, it is a great evil. If your ideal is that your career is thriving and your colleagues are happy, then even if you do something bad for this ideal, it is not a small evil. Great good and small evil have always been despised by saints. But saints do it themselves. Such saints can be ranked closer from Confucius, Mencius and Wang Yangming. In Confucianism, there is a way to combine knowledge with practice, which is to make you understand that you can do anything as long as you want to do it well. However, you must really make sure that your ambition is good.