I think there are countless self-reliant women in today's society, so housework is not necessarily done by women. Besides, your wife doesn't do housework when she is at home. When you are in love, you should know why you should do housework as soon as you get married, and then complain that the other party doesn't do housework after you get married.
You married a wife, not a nanny. Harmony and happiness are the most important. Don't ask too many questions. The current mode of getting along is that the woman does housework when she is happy, and she doesn't do it when she is unhappy. Men watch when they are used to it, and clean when they don't like it. There is no rule that women must do housework. A woman is a princess at home, a nanny in her husband's family, a woman who spends money and a woman who earns money. Why does housework mean that women have to work?
It is not easy to form a family, and one of the husband and wife has to pay the price. If your wife is unemployed and can't go out to work, it's ok to do housework properly, because you think the years are quiet and good, but someone is just carrying it for you.
Both husband and wife need to work. It's almost 10 when they come home from work every day. How can they have the energy to do housework? I just want to lie still when I get home. After work, I will take care of my children, cook for them and help them with their homework. I'm tired enough to finish it, but I'm really too lazy to do housework. This is the voice of modern young couples. In the fast-paced life, everyone is trying to make money. After a busy day, I am exhausted when I get home, so I naturally don't want to bother doing housework any more.
Many families will have disputes over housework or trivial matters, and even more and more couples will have conflicts and divorce. Contemporary young couples earn money and do housework together. If they want to work to earn money and do housework, then this person must be superman.
Housework doesn't just disappear. It's always there, waiting for someone to do it. Husband said that he has more time and his salary is not high. I have to work. I am very tired, so now my husband does more housework. But sometimes I help sweep the floor and mop the floor. In fact, finishing housework together is the best result. You can also allocate housework according to the severity of housework.
For some physical housework, such as changing light bulbs and repairing toilets, the man should do his part and take the initiative; For some housework that doesn't require physical strength, the wife can choose, and the man should take the initiative to bear what he doesn't like.
In addition, it can also be distributed according to the fineness of housework. For some fine work at home, such as sewing and washing clothes, women have a little advantage over men. If these things are given to the man, the result will probably be poor sewing and unclean washing. For some trivial housework, the man can try his best to undertake some, such as sweeping the floor and taking out the garbage.
As the saying goes, men and women are not tired from work. The same is true of family life. Husband and wife share trivial housework in daily life, in exchange for the warmth of home and the sweetness of love! Home and husband and wife are the same! Everything should be maintained together, and housework should be shared together! Let's do it together and never attend the meeting! Such a family will be happy, the relationship between husband and wife will be good, and there will always be trivial things in life. How to live a good life requires business and quantity.