☆ ★ If you have any difficulties, sit down with friends and family and talk about it. Try to turn around if you can. Those relatives, neighbors, close friends and classmates who accompanied us to grow up, screened ten, and each borrowed 21 thousand. Isn't that 211 thousand? In this year, 21 thousand is nothing. Everyone will help a good friend who has been in a relationship for ten years. No one will use this 21 thousand to measure the friendship of that decade. Don't tell me you're under eighteen. I said it's not too long to know each other for ten years. If you don't even have ten people around you who are willing to help you, how can these strangers on the Internet be reliable?

☆ ★ To say the least, if you can ask questions here, it should be more difficult for you to download APP loan software from the Internet to apply for a loan. But you're still asking here. Either you're stupid, or you've tried both. You've made yourself heavily in debt, and even friends and relatives have begun to think that you're unreliable and unwilling to continue helping you. You've postponed all kinds of things. Some of you have already helped you once, but you haven't finished the first time. Then you go to ask others for help for the second time, leaving them in a dilemma and finally refusing politely. I was polite afterwards, but in fact, I began to have all kinds of complaints in my heart. I've known you for so long, and I'm still so stingy. Do you take me as a friend? It's true that you only know who one of us is when you are in trouble. You will only think about it in your heart and won't say it, but do you think this idea is right? You have to think about why this is happening.

☆ ★ Let me make two assumptions for you: [You are my old classmate and have known each other for almost ten years. Today, when I ask you to borrow 21,111 yuan, you will think that this person is not bad at ordinary times. He spends birthdays, festivals and holidays every year, and often contacts with others. He realizes that he is not a gentleman now, but he is ok, and he is an old friend for many years. It is unreasonable not to say yes. Even if I ask you to go to the online APP to raise money and borrow it from me, you will hesitate. After weighing the pros and cons, you will eventually agree. After all these years of deep feelings, you will not talk about it. I helped him personally this time, and I can have a little help next time when I am in trouble] [But if you say, I don't usually deal with you, I don't even know when your birthday is, and I didn't say hello to you during holidays. You are wandering in your heart. It's no use coming to me when you have something to do. It's nothing to do. Lend you a big chicken. It's no use knowing each other for a hundred years. Yes, dozens or hundreds of dollars, maybe I will lend you reluctantly under your pleading. As for the reason, it's actually very simple. Although I've known you for a long time, your relationship with me is not as good as that of my cat and dog, and people are not as good as animals. But I've known you for so many years. Even if you lose a few tens of dollars, you should look at the wrong person and teach yourself a lesson. It doesn't matter ]

☆ ★ Don't lie when you die poor, and don't cheat when you die hard. Be an upright person and do things clearly. Never lose others' trust in you, because others' trust in you is the value of your existence in others' hearts. Otherwise, one day, when others see you clearly, they will see you clearly and cherish it. Always believe that honesty can win the world, and trustworthiness will win the hearts of the people. Whatever you do, you must live up to your conscience. Virtue is the world, talent and virtue carry things. If you are honest, there will be no shortage of close friends, and Alipay will give you high marks, because honest people have principles, and they know exactly what to do and what not to do.

☆ ★ So say yourself, if you ask such a question here, will anyone be willing to help an irrelevant and dishonest person? Maybe someone will help you, guide you to get a loan, give you interest money on the online loan, and then use the loan to support the loan, make you deeper and deeper, and even cheat you. What do you think, you must think directly and say, it's okay, it doesn't matter. Look at yourself. What a mess you've made, you loser. Get to know the innocent you used to be, and how far you are from now. I don't know how little you are, how arrogant you are, and how self-righteous you are. Here, you remember that no matter who asks you for money, password, verification code and payment password, you can't be trusted. Even if the other party's disguise is very real, don't be fooled! Remember. Because those truly powerful people will never appear here, and even if they do, they will not help you. The problem has been made very clear above. It's not that there are too few good people, but that if you don't work hard yourself, others can't find your hand even if they want to help you, and people won't help a person who only lies in bed dreaming.

★ Ask yourself, have you forgotten what a dream is? Have you forgotten what struggle is? Have you forgotten that you once shouted at heaven? Ask yourself how many years you have left to play. If you don't work hard, you will be old! If you want to fall, the gods can't save you. If you want to grow up, you can live in a corner. Don't believe that if you don't work hard, you will live for another 511 years, and you will still be a garbage. It has a history of 5,111 years since ancient times, and it has become a big business, which has not encountered major disasters. Therefore, I often say that failure is the normal state of ordinary people. Major setbacks are the boss's normal state. Disaster is the normal state of leaders. Therefore, a person can't achieve great things if he hasn't experienced some great things in his life. If you even make money, you need people to enlighten you, watch you, stare at you, coax you, encourage you, and I advise you not to do it, so you deserve to be poor. The world is fair, either you are comfortable and poor, or you work hard. Dare not fall, because the burden is too much. Dare not escape, because there are parents in front of me. Dare not get sick, because there is no one to take care of. Dare not say tired, because no one is used to it. Dare not be lazy, because no one gives you money. Being strong and independent is the only choice. Always remind yourself that you can't fall, you must be strong. If you lose something, love, career, money, and a debt. Well, congratulations, you have nothing to lose. In the future, you really have no choice but to keep getting it. Now you don't deserve to shout tired, because you have nothing. Swallow your grievances and tears. If you can't afford to lose, don't lose. If you can't die, stand up and tell everyone who looks down on us that I am fine.

☆ ★ Four Great Classical Novels, you shouldn't be familiar with others, so I'll tell you about the Journey to the West, which we are all familiar with.

★ the Monkey King said: When I was a monkey, I could only play with a group of monkeys. When I learn a skill, I can call Niu Mowang my brother, boss around with the Dragon King and grab treasures. Before making a scene in the sky, all the gods ignored me, hum! But when I make a scene in the sky, King Totali is respectful to me. Before I arrived at Leiyin Temple, I could only pay homage to the Bodhisattva, but, after I was named to fight against the Buddha, hum and hum! Bodhisattva and I have both become good friends (ouch, Monkey Brother, you are awesome). What I want to say is that a person will have better contacts and more resources waiting for you to use only when he is strong. If you don't try to improve yourself, you will try your best to make friends, say hello and expand the so-called contacts. I advise you to wash and sleep early. Such contacts are not worth mentioning.

☆ ★ We understand that the Tang Priest has become a Buddha, a great leader with a mission. The Monkey King has become a Buddha, and we can understand that he is an expert in business, and he is loyal to the evil spirits. The sand monk has become a Buddha, and we can understand that all the way to dirty work, hard work, hard work, there is nothing without credit, hard work. We don't understand what you said about pig and eight quit becoming buddhas. Delicious, lazy and lustful. Once Tang Priest is arrested, Monkey, let's break up. With this kind of employee, he finally became a Buddha. Why? Just because of one thing, I followed the right team. Agree or disagree. Therefore, the story of Journey to the West tells us that even if you are a pig and follow the right team, you can become a Buddha.

☆ ★ So you will understand how great Journey to the West and Tang Priest are. When I was a child, I saw the most despised person, Tang Yan, and now I understand that he is the most amazing. Isn't it the greatest leader who can take the three most difficult employees and be honest and obedient? When I was a child, I didn't understand when I watched Journey to the West. When the Tang Priest met anyone, the first sentence (poor monk came from the Tang Dynasty in the east and went to the west to worship Buddha and seek scriptures) didn't understand why he said this when he saw someone. Now I understand that a great leader can have no skills, but he must know where he came from and where he is going. Is that so? Only when you have a clear goal and a strong belief can you attract a group of people who are 111 times stronger than you. This is a great leader!

☆ ★ A man has to be like a Monkey King. I have been crazy, loved, hated, brilliant, down and out, fought, fought, worked hard, and been calculated, but when have I been afraid?

☆ ★ have you ever met a noble person? What kind of people you get close to, what kind of road you will take. The villain will teach you how to cheat. Card friends will only urge you to play cards. Fair-weather friends will urge you to drink quickly. The greatest luck in life is not finding money or winning the lottery, but that someone is willing to guide you to a higher platform. In fact, it is not your education or your IQ that limits your development, but the life circle you live in and the people around you. The so-called noble people are not people who give you money directly. But people who broaden your horizons, correct your pattern and give you positive energy.

☆ ★ I remind you from a personal point of view: put everything down, and all the attitudes and online loan pressures from everyone are blocked and ignored. It doesn't matter if you don't, at most, you will become a black household. Unless the amount involved reaches one million, you will become an old lai and be arrested by the police. Now you have only two choices [confess to your relatives and friends, someone is willing to help you, clear all your debts in one breath, and then you slowly make a living and repay the person who helped you later]. As for the other choice, give up everything, ignore it, find a new city and go to work. At first, I had no skills and my income was low, but my skills were accumulated bit by bit, and no one was born with it; No matter where you work in the future, you should remember these four points (1. Don't worry about making money, learn how to make yourself valuable first; 2, work, not everything is smooth, it is normal to be angry; 3. If you can't earn money, you will earn knowledge. If you can't earn knowledge, you will earn experience. If you can't earn experience, you can't make money. There is only one reason why you are confused, that is, the age you should have struggled, thinking too much but doing too little) Go to a new city, remember. You have no backer, you are a mountain. You don't have the world, you can conquer it yourself. You have no capital, make your own capital. There is no savior in this world. You are weak, so the difficulties are strong. You are strong, so the difficulties are weak. Or, you should open the road every mountain and bridge the bridge when you meet the water.

☆ ★ Everyone has hands and feet. I believe you won't lose to others. Keep at it. I believe that as long as you keep at it, the sun will wait for you. If you learn one more skill now, you will say less about begging others in the future. Otherwise, one day, someone wants to help you, and they don't know where to start.

☆ ★ Man proposes, God disposes. Generally speaking, you are not quite sure before you do something. Still holding a pioneering attitude to motivate yourself to do it. That is, seeking something. After your own efforts, it may or may not be successful. There is more or less the meaning of luck here. Success is good luck, failure is bad luck. But not everything in the world is successful. If you don't do it, you don't even have a chance of success. If you do it, there is at least a half chance of success. It's not that you can't reach your goal. Therefore, in any case, one should work diligently, and good luck always comes to diligent people.

☆ ★ believe me, people's potential can be tapped. Be careful when you speak too late. It may be an excuse for you to retreat. No one can stop you from moving forward, except yourself. Work hard and believe that in the near future, you can become a giant and truly become the biggest dark horse!

☆ ★ There may be some places that make you uncomfortable, but they are all good words. I hope you can think about it. As the saying goes, advice when most people hate it, good words will not sound good and comfortable, and what sounds comfortable is useless to others. That's it!