Two years later, I became a freelancer and did a little business before I understood the behavior of that classmate: making money is not just a way of working; Working in a large enterprise does not mean rapid growth; It is an innate advantage to have resources at home, so you should use them with peace of mind, not really waste them.
Through this process of thinking change, I also understand that it is useless for us to listen to so many truths at ordinary times. You haven't experienced it, you won't be at ease, and you won't really understand it. What really makes you grow up at a high speed is that you keep trying and doing things, and then come back and sum up some truth for yourself. These truths are your own and your future life experience, which can guide you to do things better.
We always feel that our precious life experience can be shared with future generations, and future generations can get great help. Actually, it is not. The listener felt so much at that time that he almost forgot it after three days, let alone changed his behavior. I believe that under this Zhihu question, many respondents have selflessly shared their most valuable life experiences, and hundreds of thousands of readers have read and collected these truths, but they have hardly changed.
Therefore, instead of learning truth, it is better to learn methods, then do things, sum up the truth through doing things, and learn truth directly, which also explains the sentence: "After listening to so many truths, I still can't live a good life." Because it's someone else's fault, you have to be a producer to live a good life.
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