So if it is out of stock, I suggest you withdraw the goods, or make a reservation, estimate when the goods will be delivered, and communicate with the buyer to avoid disputes.
Answer your supplementary question. It means that the inventory you filled in when you put it on the shelf does not match the actual inventory, which is also your problem. False inventory is also a kind of deception, because whether the buyer likes it or not, you take up the buyer's time and money.
In a word, sellers can't argue on this issue, especially in e-commerce. Once the buyer has photographed and paid, you must deliver the goods. If the stock is not enough, it will be removed from the shelf. This is your job, there is no excuse.