Traveling while you are young, the sooner you experience it, the better, and you can open your world view very early. I had dinner with my son's classmate's mother the other day. Today's mothers are certainly more open-minded than our mothers, and economic conditions allow them to go abroad.
When talking about planning children's trips, I also talked about my own views. Parents must grow up with their children. They should plan their travel routes from the first grade of primary school, planning 15. By the time he graduates from college, he will already be a man who travels around the world.
It doesn't matter if you don't remember when you are young. As long as he has been there, he will leave a memory in his mind. He has been there.
For example, go to a country every summer vacation and go to a province every winter vacation.
The opening of a person's internal structure must be based on the opening of regional structure. Talking about the world outlook without real experience is an empty talk on paper.
My son has been there, so has my mother.
Can't we grow up together?
Are these far? Many families plan like this.
I was in the arena that day, and two people were discussing China's fight against Japan, saying that it was playing the devil. I think it's quite interesting. What age is it now? If you have been to Japan, you will have a new understanding of the Japanese. Look at the pedestrians in the street, all dressed neatly. You can tell at a glance which group of people are from China and which group are from Japan. ...
Travel can eliminate prejudice, don't you think it's interesting? You haven't been to Japan, you haven't met the Japanese, but you hate them. History needs to convey the truth, not emotions. Did Qin Shihuang destroy the Six Kingdoms? Do we hate Xi 'an?
What we want to convey to our children is love, not hate. That's not helping children, but hurting them. If we are very powerful, shall we destroy Japan? Revenge?
Do we not love peace?
This is an open, inclusive and peaceful era.
Everything goes back to the essence. If you want money, Niu Ge always advises us, young people, don't think about anything, just make money and realize primitive accumulation quickly. On this basis, you can pursue your dreams again, and you find that your pattern has also changed.
Because of my work, I often get in touch with writers. Internet is a world of words. Why is the writer silent instead? Writers don't lack stories, they don't lack writing, what do they lack?
First, the pattern. Second, thoughts.
To put it more bluntly, their economic income directly restricts their pattern and hinders them from seeing the world from a higher level. Last time I listened to a lecture by a writer, a southern writer and a Mao Prize winner. He was talking about the charm of China's writing, and used the example that "love" is more powerful than "affection". I read it with the audience, and then asked everyone if "love" is more powerful.
I talked about many prejudices, such as why I don't want to go abroad and think that foreigners are not as human as China people. ...
I thought, you haven't eaten grapes. How do you know what grapes taste like?
Just by imagination?
Yesterday, Zi Ming asked me: Why don't I think money is very important?
I said, it has something to do with your experience. You are still a student. After graduating from college, you were sent to Inner Mongolia and have been living in a single dormitory. You have no concept of home. To put it bluntly, you have no sense of responsibility.
He said, I also know that money is very important, but I just don't have the desire you said.
I said, let me tell you a story. Regarding love and money, each of us firmly believes that love can overcome everything. For example, a girl loves me deeply, and I asked her, if I am sick, will she accompany me? Her answer is definitely yes, because this is a questionnaire survey, and her answer is really what she thinks.
So can love overcome money?
When I went to Kubuqi Desert that year, my teammates were recruited temporarily, similar to the organization of donkey friends. Boys take more cars, girls take a ride and live in tents at night.
There is a girl in it, her hometown is Sanmenxia, who works in Beijing. She is a kindergarten teacher, and her husband is her high school classmate, studying for a doctorate in Beijing.
Husband is her idol.
Talking about her husband, she can feel the happiness from the heart and marry her idol. It's perfect. They live in a rented house next to her husband's school and share it with others. She never thinks that money is important. Love is enough. Can't they live like this?
At that time, we discussed a very secular question, that is, there is a house to have a home, or where is the home?
I talked about my own views. In Shandong, we have a home only when we have a house, but we don't have a house to wander around. ...
Some of them support me, while others contradict me.
Sanmenxia girl is definitely against me. She thinks I take things too seriously. I also refuted her: you are just a student model. Students fall in love without talking about life. It is good to have love. What money is not money? You two are still studying it.
Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and where there are rivers and lakes, there are love and hate. Naturally, some people want to hit on Sanmenxia girl. There used to be a saying that wild species were very popular in cross-country circles, and girls didn't even bring tents.
But the girl from Sanmenxia brought a tent.
I don't think anyone can handle her because her love belief is too firm. I gave her a nickname, Liu Hulan.
This has something to do with her hairstyle, Qi Liuhai.
She looks good, 80 points, wears glasses, and is 1.68 meters tall. She smiled naively. She said that she had never seen a desert before, so she wanted to see it. ...
There is a driver from Luo Yang who drives a F350, a pickup truck with six tires. He has a yellow card and is very domineering. They are the only two villagers in the team.
F350 also works in Beijing. In the long run, they have more and more personal contacts. F350 will take Liu Hulan to some private parties and invite guests to their homes.
What happened?
Liu Hulan's original belief system was destroyed, and she felt more and more timid about her husband. He is in his thirties and has nothing but reading, a house, a car and the pleasures of life. He even wears a cheap T-shirt, and he doesn't know what a man's taste is, nor is he romantic or humorous.
In a word, it's useless.
When faith is destroyed, it is natural to rebuild it. She accepted secular standards. What is a good man? Powerful.
What is the strength?
Rich, powerful and talented.
I don't know what happened afterwards. It is said that Liu Hulan and F350 are still pure friends. She introduced her husband to F350, hoping that her husband would learn more from F350.
Why is Liu Hulan so indecisive?
Because her past lifestyle is not the normal state of life at all. The normal state of life is that two people live together and pay attention to daily life, not college life.
Who cares if you have money when you fall in love in college?
However, once you leave the campus, you enter the society, and the society will be judged by the society. A few days ago, I had dinner with a group of local cyclists and talked about Liu Neng's coming to our county. I asked why you didn't tell me. I will get his autograph.
A group of people denounced me, meaning what's so great about celebrities? I don't want to send my autograph.
I wonder why there is such an argument.
You talk as if you are great, but it only means that you have never been in contact with celebrities and have never felt their powerful atmosphere.
If you are really implanted with that aura, you will surrender yourself.
Powerful men have the ability to conquer women and men. I told this story to Zi Ming to tell him that you can't always live in the mode of college and go into society. As a man, you will be 30 years old soon. You should consider buying a house and a car, giving the bride a bride price, giving your parents some savings and having your own life pursuit. Otherwise, you can't fool around all day.
However, I believe he will realize it sooner or later, but it may take several years, such as after marriage.
However, I always feel distressed. Take a look. I came to learn badminton with 30,000 yuan, and spent more than 1 10,000, leaving 20,000. The less I spend, the more anxious people will be and the more they want to take shortcuts. The biggest disadvantage of office workers is that they can't stand it, because they are used to the monthly salary and can't accept more than 1 month.
Once there is no income this month, you will be anxious.
If you don't take a long-term view, it is useless to teach and persuade.
You must make more money while you are young, because many of your dreams can be realized when you are young. A friend went to see a sports car, and the big brother who accompanied him said, buy it if you like. When you get to my age, you can afford it, because you don't like it anymore.
So, when you get rich and old, your dream of traveling around the world is basically gone, because your focus is on grandchildren.
One year old, one year old, single-minded.
In the past two years, I have been deeply touched. I used to like F350, and I took the B certificate specially. I used to like it, but I couldn't afford it. I can afford it now, but I don't like it anymore. I seldom drive my own pickup truck now. I also thought about buying a BMW M4 manual gearbox, but it seems that I lost interest in cars overnight. After that age, I don't have that heart.
I've been thinking, why does Niu Ge object to us buying cars frequently?
In fact, he has passed that age. What's the point of buying a car? He can't understand our obsession with cars.
The past is the past. Just as my son is obsessed with cartoons, I can't be interested in watching them any more. My son's dream may be to stay at home and watch cartoons every day without going to school when he grows up.
I can stay at home every day, but I hardly watch cartoons.
I met Wei in the arena yesterday, the brother who made chicken equipment and a member of my team. He had fun. What time to leave every day is strictly enforced.
Now my career is doing very well. In the spring, I just signed a contract of 60 million yuan and drove a very domineering Lexus off-road with my peers. He advised Zi Ming: You haven't met anyone, and you haven't got married. You can try. Men should get married first. I get married early, so I always comfort myself. The better your career, the better your daughter-in-law, and the better your offspring, you still have a chance.
I said, yes.
However, starting a business requires talent. Wei was the monitor in high school and the president of the student union in college. Such people are enterprising, and Wang Rui is also the president of the student union. They have been one step ahead of us since they studied.
Going to society is still the case.
Genius.
He didn't play as well as me, but he didn't admit defeat. It was interesting. In the official competition, we are men's doubles partners, and sometimes we fall behind 10 by more goals. I mean, give up?
He didn't want to fight until the last moment.
Domineering is not for every man. Once a woman meets a domineering man, she is rarely attracted. It is a high sense of trust and security, and women pursue a sense of security.
When I was a child, I always dreamed of crossing N39, which is the most difficult crossing in China. It takes 50 days to cross the Taklimakan desert, and the desert area is 1300 km. How hard do you think it is? It was not until 2007 that the team successfully crossed.
What about now?
Let me go, and I won't go either, because my mind is not on it. I wrote an article before. If a person is adventurous, single and rich, he can completely challenge 20 classic adventure routes in China, and he is not famous yet!
The couple in Journey of Love have deeply realized this. As long as you take the road that others have never taken, you will become the focus of others, because 90% people have shackles on their legs and can't get out.
Instead of going abroad now, they began to cross the four no-man's land. Car home, an off-road vehicle sponsored by Mercedes-Benz, started to follow.
Zi Ming said that he didn't like traveling.
I said, that's because you haven't experienced what travel is. Your life track is rural hometown, university life, Inner Mongolia mining area. You have no contact with the outside world at all. Once you have it, you will like to travel.
I don't like traveling, but I haven't experienced it.
Therefore, I am very optimistic about someone's trip to China. As long as you can finish it, you are destined to be the focus, because everyone worships you. If you do something or someone you can't do, you are an idol!
I really have a wife and children, and I can't go out. It's not that I don't have time, but my heart is always at home and I don't want to leave this home.