1, parents should communicate more. Parents should channel their children's bad emotions. The child's present state has greatly hurt her young mind. Parents should first put their minds right, help their children through the difficulties with a peaceful, optimistic and positive attitude, and believe that their own changes can drive their children to change. To treat children with equal respect and appreciation, we should pay more attention to their physical and mental health, their psychological dynamics, meet their reasonable psychological needs, communicate with them frankly and effectively, and listen to their voices.

2. Reduce temptation. Some parents, perhaps for the purpose of loving their children, invisibly revealed to their children such information as "the family is rich, the parents are very capable, and the future life is worry-free". This kind of temptation will be a devastating blow to children whose three views have not yet been finalized. It will give them an inexplicable sense of superiority, so they no longer take their studies seriously. No matter how rich and powerful the family is, it is necessary to cultivate children's self-reliance ability, which will benefit them for life.

3. Treat children with the right attitude. Parents should be partners in children's adolescent growth, respect, trust and understand their children. The specific way is to respect the child's desire for independence and listen to the child's thoughts as much as possible in some matters involving the child, instead of accepting it all because the child is immature. For example, buying clothes and decorating the bedroom. That is, don't prejudge the child's problems, but tell the child's parents' concerns, discuss the problems with him, and hint at the direction in the guidance.