anxiety is normal and cannot be changed

1. As the folk proverb says, money is a bastard, and you can't play without it. Money is indispensable in life! If you are too utilitarian, you will feel that you don't have enough money and want to earn more. In fact, on the other hand, your money is directly proportional to your efforts.

2. It is suggested to learn more, make yourself worth more money, or start a business, if you have a doorway!

That's my suggestion.

Don't worry about it.

First of all, money is a part of us, not all of us. Being anxious about money may be too heavy. As the saying goes, "People die for money, birds die for food." This also shows that worrying about money is a normal thing, but we can't put ourselves in anxiety because of money? To change the quality, so when we want to love money, we should also master our own hearts. Only with a healthy attitude can we keep wealth.

money is not everything, and you can't do anything without money. Money is the pursuit of most people in this life. According to the 28 th Law, 81% of the wealth in the world lies in 21% of people, but this does not necessarily mean that these 21% people don't want to make money. On the contrary, it may be that they want to make money most, and they have the know-how to make big money. If ordinary people want to earn more money, they must first put their minds at ease and not be too pessimistic. If you were born without a villa or a sports car, it would be very difficult to have it in this life, but wealth can be accumulated, which can lay a solid foundation for your next generation. So don't think too much. Set yourself a suitable goal for making money. Too much anxiety will affect you and even the people around you.

I often hear people preach the idea of "Don't do things just to make money". The reason is that this will destroy your intrinsic motivation, make you unable to enjoy the process of doing things, and thus fall into anxiety and procrastination. I can't agree with this view. Because in fact, if a person can do things "only" to make money, he will not feel anxious, but also enjoy the process. A person will be anxious because of making money. In fact, it is because of the contradiction between his "intrinsic motivation" and "extrinsic motivation". The extrinsic motivation urges him to make money, and the intrinsic motivation urges him to "follow his own heart and realize himself". These two motives conflict, so we will be anxious. A person who "only" wants to make money, and he can do this, actually means that there is no conflict between his internal motivation and external motivation, and there is no difference between internal and external. The goal of making money is also his "self-realization" goal. A person who "completely" doesn't care about making money can also enjoy the process of doing things because he has no conflict of motives. The reason why most of us ordinary people are worried about such things as "making money" and "realizing ourselves" is because they have fundamental conflicts. We want both this and that. Moreover, we can't control our own mind. After reading several pieces of chicken soup for the soul today, we feel that people should pursue the realization of self-worth. Tomorrow, I will be brainwashed by some WeChat official account, and I feel that making money first is the most realistic and important issue. We can't have "consistent" values, which is the fundamental reason why our emotions fluctuate so easily. In fact, it is not that things are impermanent, but that our own values and goals are too "impermanent". These people see more thoroughly, money is endless, and a person's life is very limited.

Take it lightly, take it easy, and don't force yourself into depression before you regret it. Money is a thing apart from you, and you can spend as much as you earn. Money is something that brings pleasure, not pain. I don't earn much either. Let nature take its course.

People who are anxious about money are generally in urgent need of money. If you want to eliminate anxiety, you should try to make money. If you need it badly, you can go to some formal lending platforms to borrow it to cope with the current predicament.

Life is like this. Most people are anxious about money, especially in middle age! All kinds of expenses in life, big and small money, and wages are limited. When the money in hand is less than expenses, you will be anxious.

Your anxiety shows that you are a self-motivated person. Take time out to meet some friends to see if there are any money-making projects, or take a part-time job that you can do. When the money in your hand exceeds the expenditure, you will not be anxious.

what are you worried about? Just put your mind right and do your best!