1 means that the other person is busy with his work and has less and less interest in his family, which means that his interest in you can even be ignored, which is not as good as before, because his interest has shifted, which is fatal. For example, I used to play online games to the point of addiction, but my interest shifted to online games and I stopped playing at all.
This is a very bad situation. The other person's interest in women is still the same as before, but not you. This is a very bad situation.