In men's minds, this mode of thinking that "chatting" is extremely important is incomprehensible. Because men prefer competition and confrontation. When you meet the same sex, you must compete; When they meet the opposite sex they like, the first thing they think of is conquest and control.

For men, chatting is like leisure.

When many men pursue their favorite object, it is often difficult to find a topic and make the relationship go further. But let a man talk to a woman casually, and they will often be more open.

Sometimes, they also show rare humor and wit. This is only because men care too much about the former, and feel that it is not easy to chat with the woman they like, which is related to whether they can get her love. For the latter, they don't think much about gains and losses.

It is not easy for a man to chat with his wife.

Many wives often inadvertently create many problems when chatting with their husbands. For example, when a wife and her husband talk about the weather, they may soon say that it is cold and they are going to buy some clothes for themselves.

When the wife and husband talk about rising prices, they will ask her husband when his salary will rise and so on. That's why men don't want to talk to their wives. Because it's not easy to talk to your wife.

4. Men and women have different expectations for chatting.

When it comes to chatting, men and women in love have different expectations. Women expect to establish intimate relationships with men through conversation. Women are afraid of being rejected by men. They need to be accepted.

But men have to be vigilant, because the wife will throw a topic at any time, which will make the man as a husband fall into a position of being pushed around or accused.

5, chatting gives men pressure, so there is a distance.

When chatting between partners not only satisfies women's desire to vent, but also brings pressure to men, men are no longer willing to talk to their wives. Moreover, some men will turn to women other than their partners. At this time, the distance between partners will become farther and farther, and the relationship will become weaker and weaker.