I'm an old man in my seventies. I have a daughter, 1995, who went to study in America. Now she has worked there, married an American and had a child. I have been there twice and lived there for nearly a year. But because I think it's better to go back to my hometown. What you introduced is true. I asked my aunt to work there. It is said that you have to have a separate room and bathroom, and you only work 8 hours a day, but the nanny fee needs to pay 2000 dollars a month. At the same time, in America, my husband's parents don't help with the children.

Many old people have different habits and views on some issues from their children and grandchildren. It is unrealistic to live apart from my mother in America. But I want to know if your father is still alive. Do you have any brothers or sisters in China? Any other relatives? If so, let them take it back to China! If there are no other relatives in China, be your lover and children and communicate with the elderly! After all, it's your real mother! 1000 dollars is enough to go to China alone. It is said that no one can afford to die in America! It's not easy to live in America now!