Not everyone can succeed, but success can be imitated. I send you twelve success tips. You have done it, and you will succeed!

They always greet a new day with a calm mind.

Too many books and courses about personal success seem to regard us as robots and completely ignore the great power of human emotions. The calmer we are at the beginning of the day, the easier it is to keep a calm mind throughout the day. Because, if we greet a brand-new day in a calm state, it is easy for us to stay focused and finish what we should do.

if we wake up in the morning and face overwhelming pressure-phone ringing, e-mail and SMS alerts, fire alarms, etc.-you will be in a state of passive response all day, instead of being proactive. This means that when you want to do the priority things that push you to success, you can't take the initiative. You are just passively dealing with things that others have entrusted to you, without considering whether these things are important or not.

in the first hour of every day, try not to change too much. Trustworthy morning planning can help you find a sense of self-control very effectively, so that you won't fall into a state of passive reaction, thus reducing tension and pressure, making you more alert and more capable of doing your job. It is important to remember that the state in which you start a day's work has a great influence on your overall work efficiency.

they will push away all unnecessary and useless work.

sometimes, we all think, "why can't we get everything done?" The answer is actually very simple: we have done too many wrong things.

Many studies have found that people spend more time blindly to solve various problems that keep appearing, which makes it impossible for them to finish more work. On the contrary, if they measure and track key priorities and milestones according to a well-planned plan, they will be more efficient. So, if you want to be more successful and reduce stress, don't ask how to improve the efficiency of doing something. The first question to ask is "Do I really need to do this?"

just because you can do something well doesn't mean it should be done by you. I think this is a common problem in most time management suggestions; Efficiency master people often only focus on how to get things done quickly, but in fact, most of the things that people do quickly are not necessary at all.

when you think about it, it's actually ironic-on the one hand, we are complaining about too little time, on the other hand, when we are arranging our priorities, it seems that we have endless time. Therefore, try to focus on what is really important and don't be disturbed by other trifles.

they will finish what they have to do within 24 hours!

almost everyone is talking about this problem, but successful people will put it into action. I once said, and I will say it again: it doesn't matter whether you have a high IQ or a doctorate in quantum physics, because if you don't act, you can't change anything or make any progress in the real world. There is a huge difference between knowing and doing. Without action, knowledge and wisdom are useless. It's that simple.

Successful people know that a good plan implemented today is more valuable than best laid plans, which can only be implemented one day in the future. They will not wait for "the right time" or "the right date" or "the right (impossible) environment" because they know that these reactions are all from fear. They will act immediately-because only in this way will they really make progress.

They will gradually turn the difficulties in life into advantages.

Many of the most famous novels, songs and inventions are inspired by extremely painful and sad memories. Therefore, don't lose heart in the face of many challenges, because they may become the catalyst for the birth of epic masterpieces.

a new field of psychology called "post-traumatic growth" holds that many people can make use of the hardships and trauma they have experienced to achieve great creativity and intellectual development. Researchers have found that trauma is especially helpful for people to develop interpersonal relationships, satisfaction, gratitude, personal ability and improvisation.

We may regard this world as a safe or other kind of place. Once this world view is broken, we will have to re-establish our view of the outside world. We suddenly have the opportunity to look at the outside world from a brand-new perspective like newborns. And this experience is conducive to personal growth and long-term success.

They constantly challenge the limits and stimulate themselves to learn.

you will learn more when you challenge your limits and step out of your previous comfort zone.

of course, it is important to form good habits. "Flow" is equally important. But neither of them is the best way to learn. Sometimes, you need to challenge your limits. This process will be a little hard and uncomfortable. But this is the way the human brain grows. Only when we get out of the comfort zone will we get something.

when you are struggling, it is time for you to become stronger and smarter. The longer you stay in the uncomfortable zone, the faster you will learn. Ten minutes of high efficiency is better than an hour of mediocrity. In this state, you can improve your ability, constantly challenge your own limits, make mistakes, fall, learn from your mistakes, and then continue to challenge higher limits.

when faced with difficult decisions, they trust their intuition.

Intuition is very real, and any wise person should not ignore its function, because it comes from the depths of our subconscious mind and from your previous life experience. If everyone tells you "yes", but your intuition gives the opposite answer, there must be a good reason. In the face of difficult decisions, find out all the information you can find, let yourself know the situation as comprehensively as possible, and then let God give you intuition to make a decision.

Successful people know that trusting their intuition equals trusting their true self. The more you trust your true self, the better you can control the process of realizing your goals and dreams.

they carefully focus on the positive.

Sean Achor wrote in his book "The Happiness Advantage" that a recent scientific study found that compared with doctors who are in a neutral emotional state, doctors who adjust to positive emotions before diagnosis can always experience a significant improvement in their knowledge ability, which shortens the time for accurate diagnosis by about 21%. The researchers' subsequent research on other occupations found that optimistic salespeople outperformed their pessimistic peers by 51%. Students who feel happy before the math exam have significantly higher test scores than those who are in neutral mood. Therefore, our emotions seem to work best only in a positive state, not in a negative or neutral state.

Of course, this does not mean that successful people are never upset, but if you can carefully accept and release negative emotions instead of sinking into them, you can significantly improve the efficiency in all aspects of your life. Spend less time thinking about how to solve your problems and more time thinking about how to manage your own mentality. Always keep a positive attitude.

They create intuitive reminders to keep themselves focused on long-term goals.

You want to lose weight, but when you are tired, it is easy for you to find a reasonable excuse to start exercising and eating properly tomorrow. You want to build a profitable company, but when you get caught up in daily chores, it's easy for you to do things that you are familiar with, rather than what the company needs you to do for growth. You want to cultivate the closest relationship, but when you are busy, it is easy to find reasons to say that you really need to solve the client's proposal.

Good things don't come easily, and when things get tricky, we often choose shortcuts-even if it takes us in the wrong direction.

In order to avoid this situation, successful people have made intuitive reminders to pull them back to the normal track from the edge of impulsiveness without judgment. A friend of ours has paid off about $ million in debt in the past five years. He posted a credit card balance on the computer monitor. It can constantly remind itself of the debts that need to be repaid. Another friend posted a picture of himself 91 pounds fatter than he is now on the refrigerator to remind himself that he can't be that person again. Another person fills his desk with photos of his family, on the one hand, because he likes to look through these photos from time to time, on the other hand, when the work becomes difficult, these photos can remind him who he is working hard for.

when are you most likely to succumb to your inner impulse and get out of the way of achieving your ultimate goal? Find such a moment, and then use visual reminders to interrupt this impulse, so that you can continue on the road to achieving your goals.

they keep a diary.

Oprah keeps a diary. Eminem keeps a diary. J·K· Rowling also keeps a diary.

Successful people track their progress, set goals, reflect on their mistakes and learn from them. They usually put these jobs in a notebook. In life, if you want to go somewhere, you need a map, and this note is the map on your way to success. You can record what you did today, what goals you intend to achieve, what mistakes you made, and so on. You can reflect on yourself here, record important ideas, and track the goals you have achieved and plan to achieve. Diary is one of the most effective tools for the general public, but it may not be fully utilized.

They will find themselves a mentor who can teach by example and answer questions.

no matter what you want to achieve, you can't accomplish it by yourself. Learning from books is a difficult process. Sometimes, the Internet makes it difficult for us to distinguish truth from lies. You need an elder to tell you some tricks-he can be your mentor or coach.

11,111 hours of hard work can make you an expert, but what makes you devote 11,111 hours to something? That is one or two excellent mentors. If you have studied the lives of successful people, you will find that the best people in all fields-athletes, musicians, entrepreneurs, artists, etc.-have extraordinary mentors, coaches or role models, who make the practice very valuable and meaningful.

sometimes, just observing the tutor can bring miracles. When we observe an example that we want to learn, we know exactly what kind of person we want to be, and then you will burst into amazing enthusiasm. Humans are naturally willing to socialize, and when we want to join an elite circle, this idea will push us to achieve great achievements. "Look, they did it. I can do it too! " Although it sounds a little too simple, taking time to study excellent people will be the most valuable thing you can do for yourself.

they welcome sincere feedback and criticism.

Aristotle said, "If you want to be free from criticism, don't talk, don't do anything, and don't be rude." This is a joking statement. If you are criticized for speaking, doing or thinking something unusual, it is a good thing. This means that you took a stand on something at a recent moment. And this is a very important part of success.

follow the footsteps of successful people and learn how to deal with criticism effectively. For negative criticism full of malice, you should evaluate it after receiving it, and then put it behind you, while for constructive opinions, you should take action after evaluation. Seek feedback from people you value-people who have had similar experiences with you. Remember, accept feedback in a cordial manner; In this way, people around you are more likely to provide you with support and honest opinions in the future.

they will control their pride.

Last but not least ...

Admit your mistake and say you're sorry. Knowing that you can't know everything. Set up a great dream. Admit that you owe your success to others. Laugh at yourself from time to time. Ask for help when necessary.

experienced mistakes and failures. Willing to try again. There is no eternal profession or absolute truth in this world. We are all groping our way forward. Learn from everyone, stay humble, and don't forget to enjoy the good time on the road.