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Why do you help everything, but others turn against you?
Why do you help everything, but others turn against you?

My friend A cried to me, and I was too tired to live.

Work and life

She is recognized as a good person.

I will try my best to help you when you need it.

Completely a modern version of Liu Daer's orphan daughter Zhuge Liang.

Her interpersonal relationship is polarized.

Some people like to die.

Someone hates her to death.

People who hate her to death like it to death.

It's totally illogical for me to go here. line

This is just one of the stories that A turned against each other:

A is opposite the company, and colleague B is a mushroom.

Sweet mouth, sister a called and called.

Nightclubs, bars, karaoke, everything.

Punch in early, skip breakfast and often have a stomachache.

A felt very distressed that the mushroom was cold and didn't care about her health, so she brought breakfast to B.

Since then, the relationship between the two has developed by leaps and bounds. The difference is that they cut chicken blood, drank yellow wine and became sisters.

"Sister A, you'd better. I have an appointment this afternoon to cover for me. "

A went to the leader and said that B left early in the afternoon 1 hour.

"Sister A, I drank too much on my birthday. We are all bastards who drank me. "

In the morning 1 drive home

"A elder sister, this customer is so annoying. Come and help me. "

A pays for drinks and meals, b doesn't drink and play with mobile phones, and a drinks and vomits.

"Sister A said to invite you to dinner today, but I didn't bring my wallet, hee hee"

Nine times out of ten, eating is like this, and A pays silently.

A thinks B is just a little sister, inexperienced and alone. Although sometimes she is a little too sensible, she still has to take care of her.

Then b got mad.

The reason is that she wants to buy more than 7 thousand bags and borrow money from A, and A advises B not to spend money indiscriminately. She didn't have much money when she first started working. Don't compare and show off. B's office burst into tears on the spot. "You are not my mother. Why are you lecturing me? I didn't borrow 4000 yuan from you. You old woman don't need these things. We young people like them. Do you usually treat me well for the sake of leaders and colleagues to make everyone think you are a good person? Don't borrow, even if the middle ... "

A moment of dumbfounded. JGP

Passers-by whisper. TXT+ dumbfounded. JPG+ Mom's egg is so embarrassing. AVI

Why do we obey others without principle?

Why don't we say no firmly?

What others ask us to do is difficult, or we don't want to do it because it violates our behavior habits. Why didn't we refuse her in the first place?

That's human nature. You have no principles. You always obey. You do it again. When you refuse, you are a villain. ...

Others are used to your obedience, hard work and resentment. You refuse me as soon as I open my mouth! ! !

You see, this is how my sister sends single dog Goodman cards.

"In fact, you are a good man … but we are not suitable …"

Without defense, MAX would not dance like a lion. Even if he called 999, a good man was beaten a hundred times.

You cooked a lot of mala Tang. You used to be a good man, and finally K.O. killed you.

It's obviously difficult, it's obviously troublesome, and it's obviously unwilling. Why don't we refuse? (make it clear that it has nothing to do with him)

Afraid of hurting each other's friendship? In fact, a real good friend won't talk unless he has to. He will talk about every little thing and his feelings will not be deep.

Do you think you can get favor by helping, and the other party is grateful? When your help has no bottom line and you become obedient, others will only think that your contribution is very cheap.

Afraid of offending people? Come on, you have the right to choose your friends. If we can't talk it over, the friendship we maintain by wronged ourselves is wool friendship.

Life is so busy that not everyone will think of you. The world is so big that not all goodwill will be rewarded equally.

You are not RMB, how can everyone like you?

True good friends, brothers and sisters are duty-bound, and some people work hard.

Ordinary friends, do what they can, agree if they can help, and explain clearly if they can't.

Friends of friends who can't fight around, you must think about it if you don't lift a finger to help.

There is a saying in Empresses in the Palace: It is my duty to help you, but it is my duty not to help you. Don't take my good feelings for you as my responsibility. Please remember that you didn't mean not to help. Your time and energy are limited, and your abilities are large and small. Not all of you can help!

You have to ask me what a real good friend is ... Come on, come on, when you are eighteen, I promise I won't kill you. At most, I will have endocrine disorders and incontinence.

People who need you to sacrifice yourself to protect are never true friends. Please consider what you can get from this relationship and become a responsive and abusive person. Others will only think that you are easy to use, easy to control, easy to discuss and easy to bully. No one will care, except yourself, your family and your true friends.

Telling the truth: to be a responsive and abusive person is not kindness, but weakness, especially lack of opinion!

Some parents educate their children like this: "Good things should be shared and played together, but if you don't want to, please speak out loudly", learn to refuse to express yourself and start from the doll.