Some are near and invisible, and some are far and clear.

Those who are close but not see, do not observe their words; Those who are far away will come to test.

Everything in the world has its own natural attributes, and everything has its own laws of separation and integration.

However, some of these attributes and laws are difficult to see through, while others are far away.

It is difficult to see through because I have not mastered my own unique characteristics; I knew it like the back of my hand when I was far away, because I have done in-depth research on its history and present situation, and I can look back to prove the future.

Example:

Why are farmers so familiar with the 24 solar terms, but they are not impressed by people like me who have never planted land and can't remember the time corresponding to the 24 solar terms?

Because of word of mouth, it is constantly consolidated in practice;

When I was a child, I often heard my grandmother say what wind would blow in the solar terms, which was suitable for drying bacon;

How to judge? Are some simple and easy-to-remember recipes, passed down from the previous generation to the next generation, and passed down together with their own experience;

As the saying goes, if they master the songs of the 24 solar terms, they will be like a duck to water, use them perfectly, and remember those timeless knowledge more and more firmly in constant review.

2. Original: I am embarrassed.

If you fall down, it will be a stream.

A small stream made a big gap.

I was there at the beginning, and I could block it, block it, block it, hide it, and get it. That's why I got to you.

A saint knows the danger of things and only protects their use.

Because of things, we can understand the strategy and know the subtleties. After the end of autumn, I lingered in the foundation of Mount Tai.

Translation: No matter the micro-cracks, they will develop into small cracks; If the small seam is not solidified, it will develop into a middle seam; If the middle seam is not blocked, it will develop into a big crack.

As soon as microcracks appear, there are signs to be found. We can control and block them, repel them slowly, calm them down, make them disappear gradually, even replace them with old ones, and take the opportunity to use appropriate channels.

This is the basic principle of opposition technology.

As a result, when the symptoms of the crisis just appeared, only the wise can keenly perceive it, rely on their own strength, pursue the traces of its changes, secretly think, make overall plans, and find out the reasons for the slight gap.

The development and changes of everything are often like this. At the beginning, it all started with a small reason as the end of autumn. If it is not controlled, it will shake an object as big and strong as Mount Tai.

Example:

Bian Que went to see Cai Huangong and stood in front of Cai Huangong for a while. Bian Que said, "You have some minor problems between skin textures. If they are not treated, I am afraid the situation will get worse. "

Cai Huangong said, "I'm not sick."

After Bian Que left, Cai Huangong said, "Doctors like to treat people who are not sick to show their medical skills."

10 days later, Bian Que went to see Cai Huangong again and said, "Your illness is in your muscles. If it is not treated in time, it will be more serious. "

Cai Huangong ignored it.

After Bian Que left, Cai Huangong was unhappy again.

10 days later, Bian Que went to see Cai Huangong again and said, "Your illness is in your stomach. If it is not treated in time, it will be more serious. " Cai Huangong ignored it.

After Bian Que left, Cai Huangong was unhappy again.

Ten days later, Bian Que saw Huan Hou from a distance and turned to run.

Cai Huangong then sent someone to ask him.

Bian Que said: "Minor ailments are between textures and can be achieved through the power of boiling soup;" The disease lies in muscles and skin, and acupuncture can cure it; The disease is in the stomach, which can be cured with fire agent soup; The disease is in the bone marrow, which is the matter under the jurisdiction of the God of Life, and doctors can't cure it. Now he is ill in the bone marrow and no longer asks for treatment for him. "

Five days later, Cai Huangong felt pain and sent for Bian Que. Bian Que has fled to the state of Qin. Cai Huangong died of illness.

Feeling:

From this story, we can see that a small problem becomes an unsolvable problem, leading to the end of the day;

At first, Bian Que warned Cai Huangong that he had some minor problems. At that time, the disease was only the most superficial and the easiest to treat, but it became more and more serious, so the problem he didn't pay attention to became a serious problem heavier than Mount Tai, and he was terminally ill.

First of all, we should nip in the bud and learn to keep in good health when we are not sick. Secondly, we should start to deal with the problems at this stage as soon as possible, and don't wait until the condition worsens before regretting it.

Suddenly remind of another story:

A person competes with another person on the same stage, and the other person is highly valued by the boss, so this person thought of a way to sow discord, which made the boss start to have doubts about that person's heart, resulting in no trust in him later.

If the misunderstanding is prevented from expanding from the beginning, the psychological rift will not widen. As the suspicion becomes more and more serious, there seems to be something wrong with this person who has done nothing wrong.

abstract

Confrontation is a strategy that takes advantage of each other's loopholes and makes them unprepared. It can be used with the language rules of reaction. After repeatedly exploring the truth of words, it chooses to take the initiative or wait for the best opportunity to win.