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The classic origin of "judging people by their words" "#" Han Feizi. Constitutional studies "+0 >, a gentleman's tolerance, Zhong Ni 2> ate more times and persisted for a long time.
Zaiyu's 3> writing is elegant and elegant. Zhong Ni took it over several times, but he didn't argue with Zhien.
So Confucius said, "What about people by ability? Lost feathers; Judge people by their words? Lost and slaughtered. 」
Therefore, with the wisdom of Zhong Ni, there is a false voice.
[Note] (1) Ataiyu: Tantai Miming.
5 12 BC? ? , surnamed Dan Tai, Ming, jade son.
Wucheng people in the Spring and Autumn Period, disciples of Confucius.
② Zhong Ni: Confucius.
55 BC1? Qian 479 was born in the Spring and Autumn Period.
Learn from an ordinary teacher. According to legend, Li was invited, learned the truth of being a man from Changhong, and learned the piano from this teacher.
At the beginning of his career, he was a shepherd, taking pictures and taking care of Lu.
Traveling around the world for thirteen years, I am nothing. He returned to Shandong at the age of 68 and devoted himself to sorting out ancient books in his later years.
There are 3,000 disciples and 72 people who are proficient in six arts, which is the first of its kind in civilian education, and later generations are honored as "the most holy teacher".
(3) Zaiyu: 522 BC? DiSiWuBa, word minister, spring and autumn period and Lu people.
Li Kou, a disciple of Confucius, thinks.
Confucius once blamed rotten wood for sleeping during the day.
Referring to the allusions in Dai's Five Emperors' Virtue, Records of the Historian, Biography of Zhong Ni's Disciples and Tantai's Death, this paper explains that the original book "judge a person by his appearance" is "judge a person by his capacity".
According to Han Feizi's Remarkable Learning, there were 3,000 disciples in the Spring and Autumn Period. Among them, Tan Taiming was good-looking, so Confucius almost thought he was a good student, but it took a long time to know that his virtue did not match his appearance.
However, Zaiyu's speech was extraordinary. Confucius almost believed that he was an excellent student, but it took a long time to know that his wisdom and talent did not match his speech.
Confucius misjudged the appearance and conversation of these two disciples, which did not conform to their actual ability, so he sighed, "What about judging people according to their capacity?" ? Lost feathers; Judge people by their words? Lost and slaughtered. 」
In other words, judging people by their appearance will be misjudged as a feather; If you use words to measure a person's talent, you will be misjudged like killing him.
Later, the idiom "judge a person by his appearance" evolved from here, referring to the beauty and ugliness of appearance as the standard for understanding, judging or appointing talents.
Documentary evidence 0 1. Historical records. Volume 67. Biography of Zhong Ni's disciples. Tan Tai destroyed Ming: "Confucius listened to it and said," I take people by words and lose them; It is indecent to judge a person by his appearance.
""02. Biography of a Bhikkhu. Volume 13. Interpretation of the Law of the Jin Temple: "General Song set up a fast in the East House and always looked down on him.
When he heard the three stories of the scroll, he was shocked and convinced, but sighed: "Judge a book by its cover, but lose its feathers and believe it."
""03. "Old Tang books. Volume 104. Biography of Feng Changqing: "Changqing longed for the lofty righteousness of the public and was willing to whip things, so he went forward without media." How to treat deep rejection? If Fiona Fang leads people, the scholar-officials look forward to it; If you judge a book by its cover, you may lose your feathers! " 04. Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio. Volume 1 1. "Jiaping Gongzi": "I recommend myself because I am a scholar of a noble family.
It's not empty! Judge a book by its cover, but laugh at the world! "05." Mirror Flower Edge "The 18th time:" You only look at his pupils, not to mention Mr.! Although shine on you is Better than Blue, who is his teacher and the woman in purple is his daughter? Can there be a great disparity in knowledge? Look at an ordinary old scholar, who is "judging people by their appearances" again. 」
The semantic interpretation of usage takes the beauty and ugliness of appearance as the standard for understanding, judging or appointing talents.
Usage categories are used in expressions that pay attention to appearance.
Example < 0 1 > Even saints lament that it is inevitable to judge people by their appearances, not to mention that you and I are both ordinary people. & lt02 & gt To serve the country, we must first attach importance to character, then knowledge and ability, and never judge a person by his appearance.
& lt03 & gt The current beauty contest is not only about judging people by their appearance, but also about their temperament and talent.
& lt04 & gt When she chooses a spouse, she only judges a book by its cover. After marriage, she found that the other person had a bad personality and finally ended in divorce.
& lt05 & gt In this recruitment, inexperienced supervisors only judge people by their appearances. Of course, people with real talent and learning can't be selected.
& lt06 & gt When we first met, I made the mistake of judging people by their appearances and didn't take him seriously. It took me some time to know that he was a man of good character and learning. From the outside, what a good judge this is! Synonym:
Antonym: Identify reference words to accommodate people.