A father came home late from work and found his 5-year-old son waiting for him at the door. "May I ask you a question?" "Dad, how much can 1 hour earn?" "If you must know, I earn $20 1 hour." "Dad, can you lend me $ kloc-0/0?" Father was very angry. After about 1 hour, he calmed down and began to think that he might be too strict with his children ... maybe the children really want to buy things, and besides, he rarely asks for money. So the father went into his son's room and gave him $65,438+00. "Thank you, Dad." The child smiled and took out some crumpled bills from under the pillow and counted them slowly. "You already have money, why do you need money?" "Because I didn't have enough before, now I have enough." The child replied, "Dad, I have $20 now. Can I buy 1 hour from you? Please come home early tomorrow-I want to have dinner with you. "

Time can buy money, family and happiness. Make time for your family, because some things can't be bought with money.

2. Divide the story of Apple

The earliest education in a person's life comes from the family and from the early education of the mother to the child. In order to study the influence of mothers on people's life, a famous American psychologist selected 50 successful people in the United States, all of whom have made outstanding achievements in their respective industries, and at the same time selected 50 people with criminal records to write to them respectively, asking them to talk about the influence of mothers on them. There are two letters about the same thing: when they were young, their mother gave them apples.

The prisoner wrote: My mother asked me and my brother: Which one do you want? My brother called me and said he wanted the biggest and hottest one. The mother listened, stared at him and scolded him, saying, "A good boy should learn to give good things to others, and don't always think about himself." I had a brainwave and changed my mind and said, "Mom, I want the youngest and the biggest for my brother." My mother was very happy to hear that. She kissed me on the cheek and gave me a big red apple as a reward. I got what I wanted, and from then on, I learned to lie. Later, I learned to fight, steal and rob. I will do whatever it takes to get what I want. Until now, I have been sent to prison.

The famous man wrote: My brother and I are both fighting for a big one. Mother said, "I'll divide the hungry lawn in front of the door into three pieces, and each of you is responsible for pruning." Whoever does the fastest and best has the right to get it! " "The three of us competed to weed, and as a result, I won the biggest apple. I am very grateful to my mother, who made me understand the simplest and most important truth: to get the best, we must strive for the first place.

The hand that pushes the cradle is the hand that pushes the world. A mother is a child's first teacher. You can teach him to tell the first lie, or you can teach him to be an honest man who will always strive for the first place.

3. A beautiful story

There is a little boy with a flat nose. Because I got encephalitis at the age of two, I was mentally impaired and had difficulty in learning. For example, if someone can write two or three hundred words in a composition, he can only write three or five lines. But even such a composition can be written beautifully.

It was a composition class, and the topic was "Wish". He writes very carefully, and his composition is very short, with only three sentences: I have two wishes. The first one is that my mother looks at me with a smile every day and says, "You are so smart." The second is that the teacher smiles at me every day and says, "You are not stupid at all."

Therefore, it is this composition that deeply touched his teacher. The mother-like teacher not only gave him the highest score, but also read the composition emotionally in the class and criticized one by one: you are smart and your composition is very touching. Please rest assured that your mother will love you, your teacher will love you even more, and everyone will love you.

Yes, intelligence will be impaired, but love will never. It is full of vitality, always hanging in the shade, with bright flowers and fragrant fruits.

4. mistakes are also valuable.

A student misreads "there are descendants" as "there are descendants" when reading the text. Everyone burst into laughter, and the serious atmosphere in the classroom suddenly vanished. What shall we do? But seeing the teacher's demeanor, she calmly asked, "Students, what are you laughing at?"? This classmate is right! " After listening to her words, the teacher became quiet. She went on to say: "If there is a successor, there is a successor; There are also descendants who mean that someone will take over. " At this time, the classroom was silent. The teacher said kindly, "Of course, the same meaning does not mean that this classmate has read it correctly. He read it wrong because he didn't see it clearly. If you had read carefully, you wouldn't have made such an inappropriate mistake. Shall we ask him to read it to you again? " Hearing this, the students can't help clapping their hands. At this time, the standing students read more passionately.

5, the value of life

A little boy who grew up in an orphanage often asked the dean pessimistically, "What's the point of an unwanted child like me living?"

The dean always laughs without answering.

One day, the dean handed the boy a stone and said, "Tomorrow morning, you will take this stone to the market to sell, but it is not really for sale. Remember, no matter how much money others pay, you must never sell it. "

The next day, the boy squatted in the corner of the market with a stone, and unexpectedly found that many people were curious about his stone, and the price was getting higher and higher. Back to the hospital, the boy excitedly reported to the dean, who smiled and asked him to take it to the gold market for sale tomorrow. In the gold market, someone paid 10 times more than yesterday to buy this stone.

Finally, the dean asked the children to take the stones to the gem market for display. As a result, the value of the stone increased by 10 times, because the boy didn't sell it at all, so it was circulated as a "rare treasure".

The boy excitedly returned to the orphanage with a stone, told the dean all this and asked why.

Dean didn't laugh, slowly looking at the child's man said:

"The value of life, like this stone, has different meanings in different environments. An unremarkable stone, because of your cherish and reluctance to sell, has enhanced its value and been passed down as a rare treasure. Don't you like this stone? As long as you value yourself and cherish yourself, life is meaningful and valuable. "

The value of life depends on your attitude first.

6. The first lesson of life

This is an ordinary kindergarten in America.

The children who just entered the park were taken into the kindergarten library by the teacher and sat on the carpet casually to receive the first lesson in life.

A kindergarten library teacher came over with a smile, behind him was a whole shelf of books.

"Children, shall I tell you a story?"

"good!" The children replied.

So the teacher took a book from the bookshelf and told a very simple fairy tale.

"Children," the teacher said after finishing the story, "this story is written in this book, written by a writer. You can also write such a book when you grow up. "

The teacher paused and then asked, "Which child can tell you a story?"

A child stood up at once. "I have a father, a mother, and ..." The childish voice echoed in the hall.

However, the teacher carefully and neatly recorded this incoherent story with a good piece of paper.

"Next," said the teacher, "which child will illustrate the story?"

Another child stood up and drew a "father", a "mother" and a "me". Of course, the painting is ugly, but the teacher is very serious. He sticks it at the back of the story, then takes out a beautiful cover paper and binds them together. Write the author's name, illustrator's name and publication date on the cover.

The teacher held the "book" high: "Look, son, this is the first book you wrote. Son, writing a book is not difficult. You are too young to write such a little book; But when you grow up, you can write big books and become a great person. "

The first lesson of life is over, and before you know it, the child is instilled. What do you think of this indoctrination?

Evaluation: this kind of indoctrination makes children "stand" from an early age, not just "lie down" to see those big people. This self-confidence and sound personality will lay a good foundation for a person's life.

Remember, we are raising children, not flowers.

David has two children, one is five and the other is seven. One day, he was teaching his 7-year-old child Kelly how to cut grass with a pneumatic lawn mower. When his wife asked him to ask something, he was teaching the children how to turn the lawn mower around. When David turned to answer the question, Kelly pushed the lawn mower to the flower bed beside the lawn. ...

When David looked back and found out what had happened, he began to lose control. David spent a lot of time and energy to help the flower bed envied by his neighbors, which is about 2 feet wide and has been razed to the ground! When he began to raise his voice to his son, his wife quickly came over and put her hand on his shoulder and said, "David, please remember-we are raising children, not flowers!" " "

David's wife also reminded us that parents must know how to be familiar, not how to be familiar. Children and their self-esteem are more important than anything he destroys. The window broken by the ball, the lamp knocked down by the child, the plate dropped in the kitchen were all broken and the flowers died. What's the use of blaming children again? I must remember not to break a child's heart, not to numb their energetic feelings, and not to add more losses.

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When a couple took their 7-year-old daughter out to a friend's house for dinner, her daughter knocked over the glass. They didn't blame their daughter after cleaning the water stains. My friend looked up at them and said, "You know, I really appreciate that you are not like other parents. Most friends' parents will yell at their children's unintentional mistakes and teach them to be more careful. Thank you for not doing that! "

Once, I had dinner with some friends and something similar happened. Their son knocked over the milk cup on the table. When they blamed him, I also knocked over my cup with stories. When I began to explain that I would get into trouble in my forties, the boy began to laugh, and her parents seemed to understand what I meant and stopped being angry. How easily we forget that we are still studying!

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I recently heard a story about Stephen Gray. He is a scientist who has made important medical achievements. A newspaper reporter interviewed him and asked him why he was more creative than a group of people. What makes him surpass ordinary people?

He replied that, in his opinion, all this is related to the experience his mother gave him when he was a child. Once, he tried to get a bottle of milk from the refrigerator. He dropped the bottle and spilled milk all over the floor-like a sea of milk!

His mother came to the kitchen without yelling at him, teaching him or punishing him. She said, "Wow, you made a mess! I have hardly seen such a big puddle. Anyway, the damage has been done. Would you like to play in the milk for a few minutes before we clean it up? "

That's true. A few minutes later, his mother said, "You know, every time you make such a mess, you'd better clean it up and put it back." Do you want to do this? We can use sponges, towels or mops. Which one do you like? "He chose a sponge, so they cleaned up the spilled milk together.

His mother added, "You know, we once did a failed experiment about how to hold a big cow bottle effectively with two small hands. Let's go to the backyard and fill the bottle with water to see if you can move it. " The little boy understood that if he grasped the bottle cap near the bottle mouth with both hands, he could grasp the bottle and not fall. This course is great!

The famous scientist said that this lesson told him that he didn't need to be afraid of mistakes. In addition, he also learned that mistakes are only opportunities to learn new things, and so are scientific experiments. Even if the experiment fails, we will still learn something valuable from it.

Wouldn't it be great if everyone's parents reacted like his mother?

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A few years ago, Paul Law once told a story on the radio, which was also used in adult relationships.

A young woman was driving home from work and had a collision and damaged the fender. She shed tears when she explained that the car was a new one that had just been produced for a few days. How will she explain to her husband when she comes home?

The driver of the other car expressed sympathy, but he also said that they had to write down the driver's license and license plate number of the other car. A piece of paper fell out when the young woman took out the document from the big brown envelope. Above, the man's note reads: "If something happens ... Remember, honey, I love you, not the car!" " "

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Let's remember that the child's mind is more important than any material. When we remember this, the flowers of self-esteem and love will bloom more beautifully than any flowers in the garden!

(America) Jack. Canfield card game

Comment: What kind of material loss can be compared with the damage caused to the person you love?

8. Interest

In an exam, a boy got 59 points in Chinese. He went to the teacher and said, "Teacher, please add 1 to my composition, just 1. Please! " The teacher said: "The composition will never add points; However, I can change your total score to 60-I will lend it to you 1. However, you have to think about it, this 1 can't be borrowed for nothing. If you want to pay interest, you can borrow 1 and return 10. I will deduct you 10 from the next exam. How's it going? If you think it's not worth it, don't borrow it. " The boy gritted his teeth and said, "I'll borrow it." Results In the next exam, he scored 9 1 point, deducted1point, and got a net score of 8 1 point.

This teacher: first, he has real love for his students, and he doesn't want his students to be beaten; Second, he completely believes in students; Third, he is good at using opportunities to motivate students. The students who borrowed points got the teacher's "funding", got the teacher's care, inspired the confidence of struggle, and realized their promise from failing to getting full marks in the exam.

Generally speaking, teachers often don't pay much attention to students with poor academic performance, don't trust them, and some even sarcastically, eager to "punish" students with the help of their parents. Teachers want to teach students well, but they lack love for them. It is difficult to "smelt iron" simply by "hating iron and not producing steel". Loving students is associated with respecting and trusting students.

9. the magic of love

This is a true story that happened in a black slum in America.

A university professor brought his students here to investigate and study, and one of the topics was to predict the future of 200 local black children. The students were all very serious, and the report came out soon. The conclusion was depressing: all 200 children were identified as "useless", "idle", "mediocre all their lives" and so on.

Forty years later, the old professor has passed away, and his successor found this report in the archives. Curiosity drove him to the black slums of that year. He was surprised to find that among the 200 children surveyed that year, most of the remaining 180 children, including bankers, businessmen, barristers and excellent athletes, had made considerable achievements except for 20 who left their hometown and could not be examined. All this, they say, is most grateful to a primary school teacher in those days.

The successor found the primary school teacher of that year. At this time, she is old and her pronunciation is unclear, but there is a sentence that everyone can understand: "I love these children."

Evaluation: There are only teachers without love, and there are no children who cannot be changed.

10, what kind of environment do you give your children?

Children who grow up with accusations are likely to complain about others in the future;

Children who grow up in hostility are likely to complain in the future;

Children who grow up in fear are likely to be timid in the future;

Children who grow up in pity will easily feel sorry for themselves in the future;

Children who grow up in ridicule are prone to negative retreat in the future;

Children who grow up in jealousy are prone to intrigue in the future;

Children who grow up in humiliation are likely to feel guilty in the future;

Children who grow up with tolerance will be extremely patient in the future;

Children who are encouraged to grow are full of confidence in the future;

Children who grow up in praise will be grateful in the future;

Children who grow up with identity will be able to love others and themselves in the future;

Children who grow up in acceptance will have a broad mind in the future;

Children who grow up with identity will be able to master their own goals in the future;

Sharing children who grow up will be generous in the future;

Children who grow up in honesty and fairness will certainly be able to safeguard justice and truth in the future;

Children who grow up in stability will trust themselves and others in the future;

Children who grow up friendly will be more concerned about the world in the future;

Children who grow up safely will also have a peaceful mind in the future.

Evaluation: As Beethoven said, "We should keep this in mind and provide children with a growing environment full of virtues and good deeds. Recommend virtue and good deeds to your children. Only it, not wealth, can bring happiness to people. "

1 1, the old mother of the Prime Minister.

Chuan Mei, the 86-year-old mother of Thai Prime Minister chuan leekphai, is a food vendor. Although she is old, she also sells shrimp tofu, bean cakes and flour cakes in a market in Bangkok. She said: "My son became prime minister because my son has a future and there is no contradiction with my stall. I'm not ashamed. I like setting up stalls very much. You can see many old friends here. "

The happiest thing for Chuanmei is to come home from work and see her son wolfing down his own tofu.

The Thai media praised: "An ordinary mother of the civilian class has educated a respected prime minister for her honesty and integrity." Facing the reporter, Chuan Mei said modestly, "I didn't actually do anything. I only taught him from an early age that he must be honest, hardworking and modest. I never beat and scold him, but I don't remember him letting me down. "

Evaluation: Determined to succeed is the common wish of mothers all over the world. Any "dragon" grows up under the education and influence of parents. How many mothers have done this? How many mothers are willing to be ordinary after their son "Jackie Chan"? Chinese mother thought deeply.

12, beauty discrimination

Losing the college entrance examination is undoubtedly a blow to a young man who is in his prime. This was the case with my classmate David eight years ago. I have just been admitted to a university in Beijing.

When I entered the third year of college, one day David suddenly found me on campus. It turns out that he is also a member of a famous university in Beijing.

"Congratulations-"I said.

"Congratulations. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Two years ago, I always thought I was finished and had no future, but my parents had high hopes for me and I was forced to repeat my studies-do you know what it was like to be forced? In the repeat class, my grade is the fifth from the bottom ... "

"But now you ..." I'm confused.

"Then you listen to me. Teacher Zhang, who once taught English, asked me to recite words in class. I was reading a martial arts novel. Teacher Zhang was very angry and said,' David, you are really worthless. You not only wasted your parents' money, but also wasted your youth. If you can go to college, there will be no illiteracy in the world. I thought I was going to explode. I jumped up from my seat, stepped onto the platform, pointed to the teacher and said,' Don't look down on people. I must go to college in my life. Then I tore the martial arts novels to pieces. You know, my score in the first college entrance examination was poor 100, and the next year was poor 17. This year's college entrance examination, I actually exceeded 80 points ... I really want to find Teacher Zhang and tell him that I am not a coward ... "

Three years later, I returned to my alma mater in high school. The head teacher told me that Mr. Zhang, who teaches English, had bone cancer.

I went to see him. He was in high spirits. At the same time, I can't help mentioning David. ...

Teacher Zhang burst into tears. After a while, he asked his wife to take an old photo of a scholar smiling under the Eiffel Tower in Paris.

Teacher Zhang said, "Before 18, he was the smartest and least diligent student in my class. Once, I said in class,' If a student like you is admitted to a university, I will lower my head three times ...' "

"What happened later?" I asked.

"Later, like David," Mr. Zhang choked up, "for some students, general encouragement is useless. The key is to give them mental surgery with a sharp knife-do you believe it? Many times, the discrimination of others can let us inspire the most powerful power inside. "

Two months later, Teacher Zhang passed away.

Four years later, I went to Beijing on business and accidentally met David in the street. He went shopping leisurely with his girlfriend when he was a doctor. I told David what Teacher Zhang said. ...

In the crowd, David burst into tears.

After that, I have been reminiscing about the loving but cruel discrimination that David encountered. I think "discrimination" contains an inspiring force. For David and the student who took photos under the Eiffel Tower, Mr. Zhang's discrimination must be the most beautiful and precious in their life journey.

13, the best education in life (1)

A young man came to work in this city, and soon because of his efforts, the boss opened a small company for him. He managed this small company in good order and its performance soared. A foreign businessman wants to talk to him about a cooperation project after hearing about it. After the negotiation, he invited the foreign businessman with black eyes and yellow skin to dinner. Dinner was simple, the plates were clean, and only two steamed buns were left. He said to the waiter, please put these two steamed buns in the food bag and I'll take them away. The foreign businessman immediately stood up and said that he would sign a contract with him tomorrow. The next day, the boss gave a banquet to entertain foreign businessmen. During the dinner, foreign businessmen asked him softly, what education have you received? He said my family was poor and my parents couldn't read. Their education for me started with a grain of rice and a thread. After my father died, my mother worked hard to provide me with education. She said I don't expect you to be superior. You can do your own thing ... The boss next to you has bright liquid in his eyes, raises his glass and says excitedly, I propose a toast to her old man-you have the best education in life!

A person knows how to cherish after suffering; A person who grows up in poverty will not fail to know the importance of thrift; A person who knows how to work hard from an early age will not be irresponsible to himself and others. ...

Poverty is not terrible. The terrible thing is that people learn nothing in poverty and then lose their self-esteem.

14, the best education in life (2)

A plain-looking girl, studying in a very ordinary technical secondary school, got average grades. After learning that her mother had an incurable disease, she wanted to lighten the burden on her family and earn some money in the two months of summer vacation. She applied for a job in a company, and the Korean manager read her resume and turned it down with a straight face. The girl took back her materials, propped up the chair with her palm and stood up. She felt that her hand had been pricked and looked at the palm of her hand, with a small red blood bead on it. It turned out that there was a nail sticking out of the chair. She saw a paperweight on the table, so she used it to knock the nail flat, and then turned away. But a few minutes later, the Korean manager sent someone to chase her back, and she was hired.

A person who grows up in love, his best reward is also love. When love urges a person to do something that is difficult for him, it is enough to prove the power of love!

On a small matter that has nothing to do with himself, he can also show consideration and concern for others, and his love education is undoubtedly successful.

15, the best education in life (3)

There is a position to be filled, and four applicants have come in succession. In the column of recruitment conditions, there is a condition that you must have more than two years of work experience. The first three applicants all said that they had similar work experience, but when asked by the applicants, they quickly showed their ignorance in this respect. Finally, a male classmate came. He told the recruiter frankly that he had no working experience in this field, but he was very interested in this job, and he was confident that he would be qualified for this job after short-term practice. The recruiter hired him without hesitation. After that, he had a talk with the recruiter. The recruiter said that many job seekers are dishonest when introducing themselves, but why can he tell them honestly? He said that he once picked up money when he was a child. When his grandmother asked him, he lied. Grandma gave him a heavy blow on the ass, and then warned him: "Poverty is not terrible, as long as you are honest, you will be saved!" " "He said he would always remember what grandma said. Imagine a person who dare not face up to his shortcomings and can only rely on the trust of those who have cheated him. Can he go far?

An honest man actually needs courage most. He must dare to face the facts and the truth, and bravely point out the truth when others are vague and passive about Nuo Nuo.

Honesty is superior to all intelligence, which is the basic condition of intelligence.

Comment: Sending children to school is just to learn something. The most basic thing of being a man is not necessarily learned in class. Parents should never forget to teach their children things other than books, and set an example in teaching.