Halfway couples refer to couples who have both had marriage experiences and reunited after the last marriage broke down. With the change of young people's views on marriage, divorce has become a very common scene, and half-way couples have also become a social problem that everyone has begun to pay attention to. Judging from the examples around us, most couples will not give up halfway.
The main reason is that a knot in one's heart will always exist and there is not enough trust between them. Halfway through the marriage, this past will always stand between the two. If only there were peace. If there are differences, it is likely to be the best material to turn over old scores. In addition, everything is most afraid of comparison, and it is better to be afraid than good. After becoming a halfway couple, it is easy to compare this marriage experience with the previous one. If you find that the situation has not improved or even worsened, your dissatisfaction will accumulate in a little trivial things, and a little thing will eventually become the last straw to crush the camel.
In addition, because of my marriage experience, my psychology is relatively mature, which gives birth to many considerations, and it is easy to give birth to the problem of going in two directions. Everyone has selfishness. It is difficult to trust each other completely when encountering things, and everyone has reservations about each other. Distrust can lead couples to give up halfway. Secondly, it lies in the handling of money and property of both parties. It is precisely because of the lack of trust between them that they are more sensitive to money, and it is difficult to grasp whether it is AA life or the same way of income and expenditure. If the AA system is implemented, this kind of marriage life is more like cohabitation; But the same management will involve the question of whether each other's efforts and consumption are equal.
The last factor lies in the problem of raising children in the reorganized family. After all, people are separated, and the relationship between stepparents and stepchildren is particularly difficult to handle. Dealing with these problems can be regarded as an art of life, which many people have not mastered in real life.