Since ancient times, communication has always been the basis for a person to stand and survive in a suitable meeting. A high-quality and effective communication can bring unexpected benefits to others and yourself. But some people hurt themselves and others because of unintentional words. In reality, we have also heard such examples, and the disaster comes from the mouth. However, there are also examples of disasters in history, such as the story of Emperor Xiao of Jin and Zhang Guiren, and the story of Liu Yong's failure in the imperial examination.

First, Emperor Xiaowu of Jin was murdered. Emperor Xiaowu of Jin Dynasty was a monarch who made a difference. Emperor Xiao of Jin was very clever when he was a child. After becoming a monarch, he also actively participated in politics. He carried out many measures to benefit the people and won many wars. However, such people ruined their lives because of drunken nonsense. Jin Xiaodi forced Zhang Guiren, who could no longer drink, to drink, saying that she was old and so on. Zhang Guiren couldn't stand such verbal attacks, so he threatened his confidant maid-in-waiting to murder him.

Second, Liu Yong failed in the imperial examination. Liu Yong was a very famous poet in Song Dynasty. Liu Yong is a very smart person, but also a temperament middleman, very honest and frank. Liu Yong failed in the imperial examination for the first time. He is also a conceited man, so he is very angry. After that, he became more frivolous. Liu Yong expressed his feelings a little, which probably means that youth is short, and he should spend the rest of his life happily with the person he likes, and be willing to abandon fame and fortune. This was known by the king, so Liu Yong was forbidden to continue to take the imperial examination.

The above examples of disasters come from their mouths, and their price is painful. One thing is different. Emperor Xiao of Jin lost his life and nothing, but Liu Yong opened up his own world in the creation of lyrics and songs. However, in any case, it is very important to know what to say and what not to say, and it is also one of the signs of a person's maturity.