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How many times can I be the best man?
Many friends can't understand how many times the best man can be. According to the custom, it cannot exceed three times, but there is no clear definition and it needs to be considered.

Generally speaking, you won't be the best man for more than three times, that is, at most three times. The specific reasons are as follows:

1. Traditional customs

Being the best man is tantamount to giving your destiny (marriage) to someone else (bride and groom)! So every time there is a best man's fate, there will be less. Of course, the more times, the thinner you will be.

2. Realistically speaking,

As usual, the best man should feel a happy atmosphere every time, but you can find that every time you go to be the best man, you will find that the atmosphere of many new people is very strange; This is because when getting married, couples usually have some disputes, and it is normal to feel scared in the eyes of the best man! Another thing is that after the best man, when you meet new people after a while, you will hear complaints (such as how happy you are to be single). Naturally, the more you listen, the more afraid you are!

Increase premarital phobia

Because you have been the best man of too many people, you will see many new people embark on the road of divorce for various reasons. Usually, you will be careful not to panic. Marriage is the grave of love, so you will gradually develop premarital phobia, even unmarried people.

Of course, the above statement is only one-sided. There is really no definite statement about the number of best men, so we don't have to be too serious.