Modern times often describe women as lewd and unfaithful to their partners, but in fact this sentence is not intended. This sentence was taught by a mother to her daughter, and there is an intriguing historical story behind this sentence.
Yongji was the daughter of Jizhong, the minister of Zheng in the Spring and Autumn Period. Ji Zhong, a famous politician and prime minister of Zheng, was highly valued by Zheng Zhuanggong. After Zheng Zhuanggong's death, Ji Zhong supported Zheng Zhuanggong's son, childe, and suddenly succeeded to the throne. Zheng Zhuanggong's other son, Gongzi Tu, fled to the State of Song. Gongzi Tu's mother is a descendant of Yong, a powerful minister of the Song Dynasty, and Yong was deeply loved by the Duke Zhuang of Song Dynasty. Therefore, after his son suddenly fled to the Song State and was frustrated, Duke Zhuang of Song actively planned to help his son suddenly regain power, so he designed to lure Ji Zhong to the Song State, secretly arrest Ji Zhong, and threatened him to help his son suddenly regain the throne, otherwise he would kill him. In the end, Ji Zhong was forced to reach a secret agreement with Song Guo.
After Ji Zhong returned to China, he succeeded in helping his son Zheng Ligong succeed to the throne. After Zheng Ligong succeeded to the throne, Jizhong monopolized power in the imperial court, which made Zheng Ligong very uneasy to sit on the throne. So Zheng Ligong secretly trapped Yongjiu, the son-in-law of Jizhong, and ordered him to secretly kill Jizhong.
Yongzheng inadvertently revealed his secret mission to his wife Yongji after drinking. Yongji was shocked and nervous when he found out. On the one hand, she is her husband, but on the other hand, she is her father. It's hard for both sides to give up. Yongji finally had no choice but to run back to her mother's house and pour out her troubles to her mother. First, she asked her mother how to choose when her father and husband were in trouble at the same time. Mother once said that a man is a husband, a father is just one, and so is Huckabee. In other words, all men in the world can be their husbands, but only one father. How can it be compared? After listening to his mother, Yongji made up his mind to reveal all her husband's secrets to his father, resulting in
Yongzheng's plan to ambush Jizhong at the banquet failed, and Jizhong sent someone to kill Yongzheng. After the failure, Zheng Ligong was forced to go into exile again.