Zhihu brilliantly replied to the main copper mine that a person's pattern is that when he thinks about problems, he has both the depth of history and the width of the world.

Case refers to personality; Bureau refers to tolerance and mind.

The annual drama "That Year is Full of Flowers" finally ended on the day when the National Day holiday ended. The inspirational story of Zhou Ying, the heroine in the drama, who finally became the richest man in Shaanxi in the troubled times of the late Qing Dynasty was moving.

In addition to the huge bug that all men like women, I have to admit that Zhou Ying's personality charm in the business world is ten thousand times higher than the intrigue among women in the deep palace!

Ma Yun said: Winning or losing depends on the overall situation.

So, where does Zhou Ying's model win?

First, tolerance.

Zhou Ying's biggest model is that she always understands that only by helping others can she help herself.

When she cooperates with others, she always emphasizes the interests of both parties, not personal gains and losses. Persuading Han Sanchun to give up the bandit business and surrender, she took out 20% shares of Wujiadongyuan; Merging with Mr. Wang and Mr. Grandpa Four to do business, never paying attention to minor interests and writing off old accounts; She went to Dihua (Urumqi) alone to sell homespun, but she was almost killed by the villains of Wu in a foreign land. Finally, she let the criminal go, just to give him a chance to be reborn. Attract all employees of the East Hospital to become shareholders and promise visible benefits.

Even if she framed Shen, the old enemy of Wu's East Hospital, although she manipulated the bank turmoil and led to Shen's bankruptcy, she finally helped Shen tide over the difficulties and rescued the people from the quagmire, just for peace of mind.

It was this generosity that made the Wu family align up and down, made Han Sanchun, the bandit leader, willing to be imprisoned in the Wu family, useful as her personal bodyguard, and finally made Shen willingly hand over the evidence against the Wu family, and also cleared himself once.

The most powerful thing is her tolerance for her competitor Hu, the only daughter of Hu Er's family in the play. Originally, Hu was going to marry her husband, but by default, she always held a grudge. She tried to poison Zhou Ying, but she poisoned Wu Pin by mistake.

Later, Hu's Hu family made a mistake in providing the Wu family with military supplies orders, which led to the Wu family being robbed, but the Hu family framed the Wu family, and the master of the Hu family blamed himself and died. Hu also blamed this reason on.

It can be said that the two of them had a grudge against their father.

Working with such a woman, Zhou Ying was full of sincerity from the beginning, and went to the door in person. Zhou Ying clearly realized that imported cloth is more profitable than domestic cloth in the market. Although the weaving layout of Minfu Yangbu invested and produced by himself is good in Shaanxi, it has not yet been made into a brand, and Hu's ancient Yueyangbu village has a great influence in the local area.

Therefore, the sales of poplars need to find partners to sell better, and Hu is the best candidate. Produce sheep to make up, sell sheep to make up, and expand the market. If so, the output and income of woven layout can be multiplied several times, and branches in Gu Yue Yangbuzhuang can also be opened all over the country. In order to achieve this win-win situation, even promised to give Hu a long-term minimum supply price.

However, Hu was bent on revenge for his father, so he started a price war and sold it at a price lower than the cost price. As a result, Zhou Ying successfully retaliated after knowing that she was ruthless, pried open her middleman status, wooed most of her clients, cut off her financial resources and made her bankrupt.

In the workplace, there are indeed many women like Hu who are narrow-minded and make others worse, instead of perfecting themselves and making themselves better.

I am single, and when I see my colleagues and couples showing love in a circle of friends, I curse them for being fired;

I'm sloppy, and when I see other people dressed exquisitely, I'm a bitch.

I am lazy, and I see that others are hardworking, utilitarian and unscrupulous;

I have accomplished nothing, and seeing others' small achievements means that there are crooked ways behind them;

On the other hand, those women who are promoted and raised quickly are good at winning people's hearts and maximizing their income. It seems that they helped others first, but the final result was their own achievements.

It is this little thing that is the most difficult pattern for many women to break through.

Second, control people's temperature.

One person walks fast, and a group of people walk far. A person's pattern is also reflected in whether he can sympathize with others and win-win.

Being wronged and committing adultery with friends not only led to her own downfall, but also caused her and Wu's children to miscarry. All this is because the client Wang Shijun nodded at a critical moment and admitted adultery, fearing that his mother would be kidnapped by his third aunt.

Zhou Ying could have hated him for his old age, but she smiled and forgave him, expecting him to become the new housekeeper and help her make a comeback.

What a strange girl! I admire her for her deep understanding of righteousness! So Wang Shijun proved his undying loyalty with his broken finger and became a loyal servant of Zhou Ying's life.

At the end of the year, the Wu family's stores have a dinner, which is equivalent to the annual meeting of management. The first dish served in Zhou Ying was Jin Yuanbao. They said to the bosses of major firms: You are the shareholders of the Wu family, and you are my brothers. For shopkeepers, I have only one sentence: "I don't doubt the use of people, and I don't need suspects"; I also say "share weal and woe" to shareholders; For brothers, it is a saying, "We share weal and woe."

This is simply a combination of material civilization and spiritual civilization, which makes employees die unsatisfied.

The best-selling foreign cloth made it possible to establish a woven layout, so Shenyang encouraged the weavers of homespun to riot. On the day when the woven layout was opened, they suffered heavy losses and vomited blood on the machine, thus wasting the 202,000 silver that the Wu family desperately raised.

However, she asked the government to release the weavers who were instigated to participate in the riots and offered them high wages to work. The leader was not convinced, but when he got home, he saw that his wife and children had food, clothing and nutrition. It turned out that Zhou Ying secretly distributed flour and silver to the weavers' families, and immediately knelt down and repented.

Why are so many capable women developing far less than they expected?

Because no matter how capable they are, they are all just one person. Because of the light burden, one must walk very fast. However, if you want to achieve a big goal, you can't rely on yourself. You need a team. Be strict with yourself, be lenient with others, pay equal attention to kindness and prestige, and have clear rewards and punishments, so that partners and subordinate employees can be convinced.

Third, look at the height of the world.

A good pattern is also reflected in her tolerance and mind, which has a lot to do with whether her vision is open or not.

To have a broad vision, there is nothing better than reading thousands of books and taking Wan Li Road.

In the play, Zhou Ying drifted with his adoptive father since he was a child. He is well-informed, well-informed, and has long known that people are sinister, so there is no blx.

Later, after marrying into the Wu family, she made up her financial knowledge crazily at school, and she could see her humbly asking for advice and burning the lamp to read books anytime and anywhere.

Therefore, we should dare to be the first, not stick to the rules, and cooperate with foreigners to make the Wu family's business as vast as the map of the world. Her husband Wu Pin admires her broad vision and lofty spirit.

When the homespun was cornered in Shaanxi, she first wanted to sell it in such a remote place as Dihua, which was super fast. She got into the carriage and left the same day, with only two attendants around her.

She went to Shanghai to expand customers, danced with foreigners, and talked business among a group of men, which was surprising, but she was informal and just wanted to expand the Wu family's business to the other side of the sea.

When a person has a gap in his chest, he will not be haggled over by petty profits and personnel disputes, but will invest time to become stronger.

Finally, the resilience of compromise

There is a proverb that a woman who is good at compromise is the most precious, and a woman who can only compromise is the cheapest.

The pattern of smart women also lies in timely compromise, can endure the humiliation of Han Xin's leg, and can earn 4 million a year like Zhou Ying.

Compromise is not weakness, but wisdom.

When she went to Dihua, she found that Sheng Longquan, a local Wu medicinal material company, was framed for selling counterfeit drugs. After finding out the truth, she promised to change all fake medicines into real medicines. Although it lost money, it won the respect of local tyrants and rushed to increase orders.

Zhao Baishi, then governor of Shaanxi Province, ordered a ban on smoking, but for the sake of the Wu family's comeback, he ventured to plant 50 mu of poppy for the first time and promised to provide only medicinal plants. However, when she saw her worker kill his wife because of smoking opium, countless people were depressed. She set fire to the poppy field she had just seen harvested, and her uncles scolded her.

As it turns out, although the annual output value of cotton planted later was not as good as that of poppy, it was later sold by home-made cotton-home-made cloth, and then foreign cloth replaced home-made cloth and set up a woven layout, which helped the Wu family earn 4 million yuan a year!

At that time, Zhou Ying was in the beautiful scenery of flowers and cooking oil. Such high profits naturally aroused the greed of the corrupt princes and ministers of the Qing government, so unexpected troubles and Wang Zaiyi gave her a charge of colluding with foreigners and accepting kickbacks, and sent her to death row.

In prison, Zhao Baishi persuaded Zhou Ying to compromise, which impressed the audience deeply and once again confirmed Sun Li's superb acting skills.

If we don't hand over all the shares of Woven Layout, the Wu family will be devastated again, and she will die very unjustly. At first, she refused to bow to the damn Qing government, but as the head of the Wu family, she endured humiliation and compromise for the survival of dozens of relatives, more than 200 shopkeepers and 500 associates of the Wu family.

Although this blow is almost devastating to Zhou Ying, it also makes her thoroughly understand that the gap between people is in the pattern of compromise. You don't have to gamble, but you have to fight for it.

A woman who is good at flexibility and compromise is the most respectable!

It is said that Zhou Ying's wild beauty, wandering the rivers and lakes, and dominating the business world actually rely on these four personalized weapons: tolerance, temperature control, the height of seeing the world, and the toughness of compromise.

People with big patterns are open-minded, able to observe other people's emotions and ideas, respected and happy.

End.

Leo, born in 1985, is a hot mom with positive energy. She signed the contract at ten o'clock, got a master's degree in landscape design, and was the editor-in-chief of the school newspaper when she was in graduate school. After graduation, she worked in naked resignation for five years from the design institute.

Know some psychology, focus on shaping women's happiness in the workplace and marriage, and wish my words to accompany thousands of women to grow together.