First of all, when you live in the eyes of others, you will lose your judgment on yourself. Of course, because you will live in the eyes of others, it is because you don't judge yourself enough. That's why you don't know whether what you are doing is right or wrong. So I don't have a very objective and fair evaluation of myself. You will only follow the eyes of others to judge whether what you are doing is right or not. So you will only follow the footsteps of others to decide yourself, thus losing your direction.
Living in the eyes of others, it is difficult for you to find the direction you should work hard through your own efforts. Many people feel that they can't do anything well because of other people's eyes. From the beginning of inferiority complex, there is no motivation to do anything. When a person loses the motivation to try everything, then he can't find the direction he wants to work hard and what he wants to do. In order to lose yourself in constant denial.
So you have to understand that it is inevitable that others will have an eye for you when you are alive. The first thing you need to do is to have a more objective judgment on yourself. Is what you did right or wrong? With this judgment, you need to try something you want to do. Even if others disagree, only you can understand what you have experienced. So sit down bravely and don't care what others think, live high.