What is masculinity? In life, I believe many friends are masculine, especially boys. Generally speaking, when they are young, their father will teach their son masculinity. As a boy, how to protect the people I want to protect, I sorted out what is male chauvinism.
What is masculinity 1 1. What is masculinity?
Masculinity is brought out by people. The representative figures of traditional masculinity are Zhang Fei who broke Dangyang Bridge with his mouth open, Song Wu who punched Tiger Jingyanggang indiscriminately, Chiu Man-Cheuk of Dawei Tianlong Leifeng Tower, and Jason Wu who played all-around expression packs. Their common characteristics are madness, anger and martial arts.
This laid a masculine military temperament. With the change of times and language, masculinity is now understood as a synonym for masculinity, masculinity and masculinity in a narrower sense. Specifically, it has the characteristics of rough appearance, rough personality, wild behavior and inner mania.
Second, how to become masculine
1, in appearance
The first impression comes from appearance. Whether you are masculine or not often determines whether you are masculine or not. The first essence of male appearance is roughness. You see Qiao Feng is more masculine and Duan Yu is more masculine. The essence of masculinity is that the skin should be black, the hair should be poor, the beard should be uneven, and it is best to have scars.
2. Stylistically
The style of masculinity in dress is called masculinity. You think you are a muscular man. Is it appropriate to wear a white shirt? Masculine clothing is mainly made of leather clothes, leather pants, rivets, steel chains and other materials, paying attention to a kind of resistance to beating, wear and toughness.
And it's best to wear old padded leather pants. The heavier the patina of your leather coat, the more experienced it looks, the more vicissitudes and fortitude it looks.
As for the choice of shoes, I suggest that a pair of flip-flops is enough. In hot summer, a pair of flip-flops can show that you are afraid of heat, and the side shows that your endocrine is very strong. A pair of flip-flops broke through the ice and snow in the cold winter, and frostbitten toes can also show your excellent physical fitness.
3. Linguistics
The language used by masculine people is often masculine. Masculine people never show weakness, so like some lovely, soft words, you must not use them!
Use modal particles carefully! What, ah, wow, this lovely three-piece set must not be contaminated with half a point. We should use modal particles such as ah, yi and Yan, and express our feelings with decisive pronunciation and crisp broadcasting. You really need to use modal particles like ah, and you have to use them together, so that you can have momentum.
Reduplication must not be used, and eating peaches and sleeping beans is not good! ! Unless you are calling from Zhang Fei.
I've said everything that doesn't work. Let's talk about it first. Everyone thinks that since we want to be masculine, we should also talk about justice! In other words, we should emphasize a kind of antagonism in communication. For example, the instructor said that there would be a group meeting, and most people would only say "received", but we would say.
Step 4 prescribe diet
Eating is also a training ground for masculinity. Japanese food and Korean food are too delicate and petty. Real men want to eat meat! Take a swig! Like Song Wu, add two catties of beef and fifty catties of white wine to the miscellaneous food to highlight the masculinity in the barbaric diet.
Never use straws, toothpicks, spoons and other food AIDS, which will make our masculinity collapse. Real tough guys should learn to use deciduous teeth as knives and forks from babies.
5. In manners
Masculinity is often reflected in some casual small places. For example, your sitting posture and leg angle determine your attitude towards the world. I have a schematic diagram of sitting angle here for your reference.
Masculine men's emotions are either gone or exploded. Don't laugh when you are happy. Laugh for a long time with your face up, so that the mechanical waves of laughter can be transmitted in many directions. Tears can't flow casually, but if you want to drip, you have to cry. No matter what emotions are highlighted, your feelings are only allowed to know.
There are really feelings that need to communicate with the outside world, but also to highlight the determination and strength of men, do everything and say nothing. Only a prince with a grouchy bitch can have a princess. A man will only rush forward when the other person faints in the whirlpool of love.
Step 6 Internally
Masculinity is not only a savage physique, but also a civilized spirit. Only when the mind is fuller than the muscles can we realize the wholehearted masculinity.
The most intuitive way to improve one's inner self is to read and study. Real men don't look at Tianyuan Deng Gang, but Hemingway's The Old Man and the Sea is a masculine fishing bible. Ostrovsky is the godfather of masculinity, and a book How Steel was Tempered is enough to introduce millions of ordinary people into the door of masculinity.
There are also many excellent film and television works, which are highly recommended. Although Diga may not be rigid enough now, people like King Kong, Wolverine and Iron Man are still good. You can also take time to watch the martial arts films of Jet Li, Donnie Yen, Jason Wu and others. The male hormones are directly full and very masculine.
What is masculinity 2 How to cultivate children's masculinity?
1. Take the children to play outdoors.
No matter how busy they are at work, parents should contact and play with their children as much as possible and engage in sports activities, especially fathers. As a "big friend", my father took his children outdoors, went into nature, and played ball games, basketball, snowball fights, hiking, hide-and-seek and wrestling with them.
During the activity, the children experienced the excitement brought by adventure and the joy brought by success, and their physical abilities such as dodge ability and running ability were also exercised. In the game, children are physically and mentally happy, which is the most positive factor in their growth;
During the activity, father and son may encounter various problems that need to be solved, and sometimes they need to make quick decisions. In the process of solving problems, children's thinking ability, judgment ability and problem-solving ability are exercised, and their independent consciousness and self-confidence are also enhanced.
2. Don't restrict children's activities excessively.
Active is the nature of children, especially boys. Children know the world, themselves, society and environment, and through playing, playing and active practice, they can increase their knowledge and talents.
When parents educate their children, they are strict with their children and set rules for them, mainly to put forward specific requirements for what children do in all aspects of life, rather than blindly restricting their activities. In daily life, many parents interfere with their children's activities too much. As soon as the children go out, they say "Don't run, don't fall" and "Don't jump, don't knock". When you see a child squatting on the ground to play, you say "Don't play with the dirt, it's dirty", and then you say "Don't climb high, you'll fall down" ...
Children play there, parents always say you can't touch this, you can't touch that, don't do this, don't do that, let the children be at a loss, passive Nuo Nuo, everything depends on their parents' faces. Too many restrictions on children's activities will limit children's independence and autonomy, which is not conducive to children's personality development;
Depriving children of the opportunity to start work is not conducive to their intellectual development; Restricting children's games and sports will make them lose a lot of happiness and adversely affect their physical and mental development. Games play an important role in children's lives, especially in young children's lives. It is in play that children develop various life abilities.
In short, parents should not restrict their children's activities too much. Of course, in order to prevent accidental injuries, we should also pay attention to prohibiting children from engaging in dangerous activities.
What is masculinity? In ordinary families, mothers always play the role of teachers, telling children what to do and what not to do. Ask children to be obedient, not naughty, and be good children; Always like to let children do quiet activities such as painting, reading and building blocks;
Even if you take your children to play games or go out for activities, you should set rules and give them all kinds of guidance. Influenced by the mother's way of thinking and upbringing, those boys who never leave their mother's side always repeat and imitate their mother's words and deeds, and become clever, obedient and disciplined, lacking independence and exploration spirit.
However, if the father also participates in the boy's education, his masculine style will often inject masculinity into his upbringing. Father has a wide range of knowledge and often instills some knowledge outside books into boys;
The father will encourage the boy to do it himself and try boldly; Father does not give in to the boy's bad habits and does not compromise; Father always plays freely with boys as friends and "big boys".
Bobo, a little boy, likes playing shooting games with his father best. Well, father and son have their own guns, one is a "good guy" and the other is a "bad guy", beeping and clicking, and the two sides exchanged fire and refused to give way to each other. You hit my leg and I hit your arm. Until finally the father and son rolled into a ball, sweating and exhausted.
He also likes playing football, flying kites, catching bugs and making snowman with his father ... Every time he plays ball, he is very relaxed and enjoys it.
Mom asked Bobo, "Mom also plays games with you. Why do you prefer to play with dad? "
"Because I play with my father, I don't have to be afraid of getting dirty and sweating." Bobo told the truth.
It can be said that Bobo spoke the voices of the little boys and played with his father without much concern, having a good time and having a good time. More importantly, in the course of the competition, dad taught them what is called backbone, what is called courage, what is called strength and what is called manhood. ...
Psychologists have proved that the more opportunities boys have to get in touch with their fathers and the longer they spend together, the braver, stronger, more open-minded and more optimistic they are. Because fathers don't love children as much as mothers, fatherly love is mainly manifested in calmly facing the advantages and disadvantages of children and teaching children to cope with and solve various problems encountered in the process of growing up;
Give them a firm will and a clever mind. Moreover, the games between fathers and boys are mostly dynamic, intense, antagonistic and creative, which is conducive to boys' physical fitness and cultivating agility and creativity of thinking.
Boys not only need your energy and your time, but also need your masculinity to set an example for them-the will not to back down in the face of pressure; The courage to get up after falling down and failing; A contented person is always happy. ...