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Ancient etiquette story Fan Wenyi: Liu Bei invited Zhuge Liang (18 1? 234), the word Kongming, devoted himself to longzhong when he was a teenager, studied classics assiduously, became familiar with the history of the rise and fall of dynasties, and devoted himself to studying the art of war. He often compares himself to Guan Zhong and Le Yi in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. He is a rare general and adviser, who calls himself? Wolong? . Liu Bei, who is good at luring talents, said happily when he heard this: I need such talents! ? He also said that even if the mountain is high and the road is far away, it is not convenient to walk, so he must be invited in person.

One day in the middle of winter, Liu Bei took Guan Yu and Zhang Fei and invited Zhuge Liang to Longzhong. Who knows that Zhuge Liang happened not to be at home, so Liu Bei had to go home disappointed.

Liu Bei returned to Xinye and sent someone to Longzhong to inquire when Zhuge Liang was at home. When Liu Bei heard that Zhuge Liang had gone out and returned home, he immediately decided to invite Zhuge Liang. At this time, Zhang Fei said disapprovingly:? A common man sends a samurai to call him instead of asking you again and again. ?

Liu Bei said: Zhuge Liang is a great contemporary saint. How can you send someone to call him? You might as well go with me. ? Liu Bei persuaded Zhang Fei to call Guan Yu, and the three rode straight to Longzhong.

On this day, the north wind roared, the snow fell heavily, and the cold was unbearable. Zhang Fei shouted at Liu Bei. Why should I wait for this? Let's wait until the weather clears up. ? Liu Bei said: Dear brother, we braved this snowstorm, not afraid of mountains and roads, and went to invite Zhuge. Isn't this a sign of our sincerity? The three of us continued on our way. Unexpectedly, Liu Bei didn't see Zhuge Liang again this time, so he had to write to entrust Zhuge Liang's younger brother to help him, explain his purpose and say that he would visit again another day.

The following spring, Liu Bei changed his clothes and prepared a horse, and decided to visit Zhuge Liang for the third time. Zhang Fei and Guan Yu tried to dissuade them. Guan Yu said: We invited him twice, but we didn't see him. Presumably, he dare not meet him in name only. ? Zhang Fei even said contemptuously:? We have done our best to show tolerance. I only need to go alone this time. If he doesn't come, I'll tie him up and see you. ? Liu Bei quickly said:? Don't be rude. How can you invite a sage without sincerity?

Liu Bei flew directly to Longzhong and came to Zhuge Liang's thatched cottage. Zhuge Liang is taking a nap at this time. Liu Bei stood outside the door waiting for fear of disturbing Zhuge Liang, regardless of the fatigue of the journey, and did not dare to ask for an audience until Zhuge Liang woke up. When Liu Bei met Zhuge Liang, he said, Mr. Jiu Mu's great name, three visits to the cottage, and today's wish are really the great fortune of my life! ? Zhuge Liang said: I'm sorry, the general didn't abandon me and take care of the cottage. I'm afraid I'll disappoint the general. ? Liu Bei said sincerely:? I don't measure my strength, I want to do justice for the world and revitalize the Han Dynasty. Because of my short-term wisdom, I have not achieved my goal yet. I hope you can give me more advice. ? Zhuge Liang was very moved by Liu Bei's humble attitude and sincere feelings. So Zhuge Liang finally agreed to Liu Bei's request and left the thatched cottage in Longzhong to become Liu Bei's strategist with the political ambition of unifying the whole country. He faithfully assisted Liu Bei, for what? Three kingdoms? The establishment of the situation has made great contributions.

Fan Wener, an ancient etiquette story: Lian Lin made love. Lin Xiangru was a minister of Zhao during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. He is knowledgeable and talented. Are you online? Safe return to Zhao? 、? Mianchi met? During the two diplomatic struggles, he maintained Zhao's dignity and stood above the famous Lian Po. This makes Lian Po unconvinced. He said to others. I am invincible in Lian Po and have made great achievements for Zhao. Lin Xiangru is just talking with his mouth. What's the big deal? Instead, he climbed on top of me. Do insult him. ? Hearing this, Lin Xiangru tried not to meet Lian Po. Every time I go out, I avoid Lian Po, and sometimes I even pretend to be ill. Once when Lin Xiangru went out, he saw Lian Po's chariots and horses coming from a distance, and hurriedly asked the driver to take a detour.

People in Lin Xiangru felt wronged by his kowtowing concession and asked to leave for home. Lin Xiangru insisted on staying and patiently explained to them:? General Lian, who do you think is better than the king of Qin? Of course, even the general is not as good as the king of Qin. ? Lin Xiangru said? Yes, everyone is afraid of the king of Qin, but for Zhao's sake, I dare to scold him in Qin Gong. How can I be afraid to see General Lian? I understand your feelings, but have you ever thought that the powerful State of Qin, because of General Lian and I, dare not attack Zhao? If two tigers contend, they will both lose. I don't care about personal grievances, and I let General Lian everywhere for the benefit of the country. ? Hearing these words, everyone cooled down and gave up the idea of leaving for home, instead, they respected Lin Xiangru more.

Later, someone told Lian Po what Lin Xiangru said. Lian Po was deeply moved and ashamed. He thinks he is so narrow-minded. He was so sorry for Lin Xiangru that he decided to plead guilty to his face. One day, he took off his shirt and went to Lin Xiangru's mansion with Vitex negundo naked on his back. Jump? He knelt on the ground and wept bitterly. He said to Lin Xiangru, I am a humble clown with shallow knowledge and short temperament. I didn't expect you to be so tolerant of me. I really have no face to see you. Please punish me severely! Even if you kill me, you are willing. ? When Lin Xiangru saw this, he quickly helped Lian Po up, and the two embraced. From then on, the two men eliminated barriers and strengthened unity. Qi Xin joined forces to defend Zhao, and the powerful Qin State dared not invade Zhao easily.

Fan Wensan, an ancient etiquette story: Li Bai, a famous poet in the Tang Dynasty, did not like reading when he was a child. He often plays truant and wanders in the street.

One day, Li Bai did not go to school again. He wandered about the street, looked around and unconsciously arrived outside the city. The warm sunshine and cheerful birds and flowers swaying in the wind made Li Bai sigh. It's boring to study indoors all day in such fine weather.

Walking, at the door of a shabby hut, a white-haired old woman is grinding an iron pestle as thick as a stick. Li Bai walked over. Old woman, what are you doing?

? I want to grind this pestle into an embroidery needle. ? The old woman looked up, smiled at Li Bai, and then lowered her head to continue grinding.

? Embroidered needle Li Bai asked again:? Is it an embroidery needle for sewing clothes?

? Sure! ?

? However, the iron pestle is so thick, when can it be ground into a fine embroidery needle?

The old woman asked Li Bai:? A drop of water can wear away a stone, and a stupid person can move a mountain. Why can't the iron pestle be ground into an embroidery needle?

? However, you are so old.

? As long as I work harder than others, there is nothing I can't do. ?

Li Bai was ashamed of what the old woman said, and never played truant after he went back. I study very hard every day and finally become an immortal poet.

After reading: No matter what you do, as long as you have perseverance, you will certainly succeed. Many things happen.

Fan Siwen, an ancient etiquette story: Once upon a time, King Tuguhun had 20 sons. His 20 sons are all very capable, so it is difficult to tell them apart. However, they are self-reliant and highly skilled, and don't care about others. They think that only they are the most talented. Usually, 20 sons often fight in secret, taunt each other when they meet, and always speak ill of each other behind their backs.

A can was very worried when he saw that his sons were incompatible with each other. He knows that it is easy for the enemy to take advantage of this incompatible situation and divide them one by one, and then national security will be imminent. Achan often takes advantage of various opportunities and occasions to earnestly teach his sons not to attack and fight each other, but to unite and be friendly. However, everything the sons said to their father went in one ear and out the other. On the surface, they pretended to follow the instructions, but in fact they didn't take it to heart, or they still went their own way.

As the jackal grows old, he knows that his rule will not last long. But what will sons do after their own death? No one can teach them and mediate the contradictions between them. Isn't that country falling apart? How can we make them know how to unite? The jackal is getting more and more worried.

One day, Aman, who was bedridden for a long time, had a premonition that death was coming, and he finally had an idea. He called his sons to the bedside and told them: Each of you put an arrow on the ground. ? The sons agreed somehow. The jackal also called his younger brother Muliyan and said, Just take an arrow and break it. ? Mu Liyan picked up an arrow next to him, and with a little effort, it broke. The jackal said again:? Now you pick up all the remaining 19 arrows, tie them together and try to break them. ? Mu Liyan grabbed the bundle of arrows, sucked the milk with all his strength, gritted his teeth, bent down, and the veins stood out on his neck, sweating profusely, but never broke the bundle of arrows.

The jackal slowly turned to his sons and said earnestly. As you all know, arrows break easily, but when put together, they keep breaking. So are your brothers. If you confront each other and act alone, it is easy to fail. Only when 20 people unite and Qi Xin works together will you have great strength, overcome everything and safeguard national security. This is the power of unity! ?

The sons finally understood their father's good intentions and remembered their past behavior. They all said with tears of regret. Father, we understand, you can rest assured! ?

When the jackal saw that his sons really understood, he nodded with confidence, closed his eyes and died safely.

The broken arrow tells us that unity is strength, and only by uniting can we produce great strength and wisdom to overcome all difficulties.

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