1. Girls usually go back to school in the second grade, but not in the first grade.
As we all know, in ancient China, even now, family reunion was still needed, that is, the married girl would no longer belong to her family after the water poured out, so she had to stay at her husband's house for the New Year, and the first day was the day of reunion. Since a woman is married, she can't go back to her mother's house. If you go back to your mother's house, it will make it impossible for your husband's family to reunite. You can't go back to the door on the day of offering sacrifices to the stove. The custom of offering sacrifices to stoves in ancient times represents people's good wishes to ward off evil spirits and avoid disasters, welcome the new year and receive blessings. And there was a saying at the time? Men don't want Yue Bai, and women don't want to sacrifice stoves? . Therefore, women can't offer sacrifices to stoves, so it would be a mistake to go back to the door on the day of offering sacrifices to stoves.
2. Women can't touch pots and spoons after returning to the door.
Has been circulating in ancient times? Touch the pot to kill the mother-in-law and burn the son-in-law with fire? For example, feudal superstition, this is what we are talking about now? Shaved his head and died in the first month? It is the same. Although there is no scientific basis, I believe this folk saying very much in that feudal era. So women who have heard a lot will pay special attention to these things when they return home.
On the day of her daughter's return visit, her family will invite the men in her family to meet her in-laws, and the return visit banquet will be held at noon.
In ancient times, when a woman came to the door, it was a time to report her safety to her family and to show her position in her family and her husband's family. On the day of returning home, the bride's family will send her brother to pick up the woman. This shows that the bride's family attaches importance to her daughter, so that her husband's family can also see the status of a woman and treat him better. Secondly, because the woman is married and a guest, she is greeted by her family, and she is not invited back for no reason. Third, let the husband's family not refuse to return to China on the grounds that the daughter-in-law needs help at home. And women usually go home at noon, because they can't spend the night at their parents' house. In ancient times, there were many feudal legends. People said that when a daughter ate until dark, she would eat poor at her parents' house. So they will end the party early so that their daughter can go back before sunset. If the two families are far apart, they can spend the night.