First, be gentle and virtuous, and be brave and resourceful.
Shi was born in a prominent family. She married Li Shimin when she was 0/3 years old. At that time, Yang Di was extravagant and dissipated, people's grievances were boiling, and there were countless rebels in the world.
Tang Gaozu, Li Shimin and his son also took the opportunity to arise. Shi's brother Wuji has been following him and is loyal to him.
In 6 18, Li Yuan proclaimed himself emperor, and Li Shimin was his second son. Although he made great contributions, he was named King Qin and Princess Qin. Li's eldest son was made a prince.
Li Shimin's family is full of contradictions. Li Shimin's mother Dou Shi died before Li Yuan proclaimed himself emperor. After Tang Gaozu proclaimed himself emperor, there was no owner in the harem, concubines competed for favor, and the struggle between sons became more serious. Li Shimin has been following Li Yuan's expedition to the north and made great achievements in laying the foundation of the Tang Dynasty.
Relatively speaking, our eldest brother Li is much inferior. But Li is the eldest son and he doesn't want to give up his power. His younger brother, Li Yuanji, was closely related to him, and they also made an alliance with Tang Gaozu's concubine and others, trying to frame Li Shimin.
Tang Gaozu's concubines often speak ill of Li Shimin in Tang Gaozu's ear. So, I listened to their words, and gradually became close to Li and Li Yuanji, and gradually alienated.
Shi knows that if a husband wants to achieve great things, his wife must help him. He took good care of his father-in-law, got along well with all his concubines and sisters. In doing so, she won the satisfaction of Tang Gaozu and eased the crisis in Li Shimin.
In 626 AD, the contradiction between the Li brothers became irreconcilable, and the Xuanwumen rebellion was launched. At that time, not only did my brother Sun Chang Wuji go to the front personally, but even the eldest grandson princess abandoned her daughter's weak image and personally cheered for the soldiers of the King of Qin.
Li Shimin won the Xuanwu Gate Uprising in one fell swoop. Three days later, Tang Gaozu canonized Li Shimin as a prince, and then abdicated to make way for his son to succeed him as emperor.
Second, deeply understand the righteousness and keep the harem in good order.
After Li Shimin acceded to the throne, she was made queen. The eldest grandson queen manages the harem conscientiously, giving her husband a warm home and not letting him worry about the harem.
The relationship between the eldest grandson queen and the emperor is very good, without seeking special favor. Instead, it gives Li Shimin more opportunities to get close to other concubines and spread her branches widely. She treats harem concubines, maids, etc. Very gentle attitude, and a good relationship with the palace and the palace.
When any concubine or maid-in-waiting encounters difficulties or is unwell, the eldest grandson and queen will personally express their condolences and even give them her own belongings. Everyone in the palace loves her very much.
Empress Grandson also pays great attention to controlling the power of consorts, while his younger brother Sun Chang Wuji has been following Li Shimin, loyal and closely related to Li Shimin.
Sun Chang is both civil and military. In the change of Xuanwu Gate, he took the lead and made outstanding contributions. After Li Shimin acceded to the throne, he repeatedly wanted to promote Sun Chang Wuji as prime minister. The eldest grandson feels that his family has enough wealth and food. If his brother is allowed to take this responsibility again, I am afraid that the consorts will become bigger and bring bad results.
Seeing that Li Shimin couldn't be persuaded, the eldest grandson queen personally found her brother and explained the reason. Sun Chang had to resign and go to work in Li Shimin.
Three, do not interfere in political affairs, timely persuade and correct Li Shimin's wrong words and deeds.
Unlike many women in the harem, the eldest grandson has a great desire for power and never interferes with major events in the DPRK. She knows how to advance and retreat, and she also knows how to persuade Taizong in time when he does something wrong.
Wei Zhi is a famous remonstrator. He is always outspoken. Whenever Emperor Taizong Li Shimin did something wrong, he always scolded him face to face without mercy. Li Shimin loves and hates Wei Zhi.
Princess Changle got married, and Emperor Taizong wanted to give her more dowry. Because Princess Changle is the daughter of her eldest grandson, Emperor Taizong loves her very much.
But it doesn't make sense. Therefore, Wei Zhi advised Emperor Taizong not to do so. Emperor Taizong was a little dissatisfied with his feelings. He told the story to his eldest grandson. Unexpectedly, after hearing this, the eldest grandson queen praised Wei Zheng and praised him as a good minister.
The eldest grandson also sent many pieces of cloth and silver to Wei Zhi's palace as a reward. Emperor Taizong was completely relieved to see the queen like this.
On another occasion, Emperor Taizong was watching birds when Wei Zhi came. Emperor Taizong was afraid that Wei Zhi would talk about him, so he quickly hid the bird in his sleeve. Wei Zhi knew that Emperor Taizong had hidden the bird in his sleeve, so he deliberately refused to go. Taizong has been afraid to take it out, so he is stuck in his sleeve.
Therefore, Emperor Taizong sometimes really can't stand Wei Zhi. Grandson of the queen know, said Wei Zhi such a minister, is the emperor's blessing! Understand it with reason and touch it with emotion. Emperor Taizong not only calmed his anger, but also respected his grandson and queen more.
Fourth, the last moment of life is still focused on state affairs, which is unforgettable.
The queen's eldest grandson fell ill in her thirties, but she still did not forget to put Taizong first and state affairs first.
Both Emperor Taizong and the Prince were very concerned about her illness, and it was useless to use even the best medicine. Later, there was no way out. The prince told her that maybe doing good deeds could make her mother live longer. Now that the medicine is exhausted, she should try to grant amnesty to the whole world and overhaul the Buddhist temple.
After hearing this, the eldest grandson queen said with great difficulty that this is impossible. Amnesty is a matter for the state. How can she just be sick by herself? Overhauling the Buddhist temple is even more unfounded.
The so-called life and death have lives, and wealth is in the sky. If we only rely on good deeds to accumulate virtue, my eldest grandson has done a lot of good things in this life. If it works, it should be effective, so I stopped the practice of the prince.
Later, the eldest grandson's illness got worse every day. She calmly told Emperor Taizong that the funeral after her death should be simple and not extravagant.
Taizong had to listen to her words and agreed with tears in his eyes. In 636 AD, the eldest grandson queen died at the age of 36.
After the death of the queen, Taizong lost his mind. He even cried in front of the minister because he lost a wife. Emperor Taizong personally wrote an inscription for the eldest grandson queen, and also built a building view in the palace, so that when he missed the eldest grandson queen, he boarded the building view and looked at the direction of the eldest grandson queen's tomb.
After her death, Li Shimin took power for more than ten years, and he never set up a queen again.
Behind every successful man, there is a great woman, the eldest grandson queen Li Yu Shi Min, and that's it. The eldest grandson knows that the management of the family and the transformation of the environment all come from her own cultivation. Whether it is a crown princess or a queen, she plays the dual role of wife and minister, running a good family internally and exempting her husband from worries;
Externally, with her talent and courage, she took the lead in solving the crisis and predicament for her husband and correcting his shortcomings on the road in time. Empress's grandson used his life to bring the legend of counterattack to the extreme!