Force only treats the symptoms, not the root cause, and excessive demand will lead to the end of "being in Cao Cao and being in Han"; Heart attacks, on the other hand, gain sincere obedience through bloodless means. If you want your opponent to surrender to you forever, you must first "capture" his heart. Your real opponent is not his army, but his thought and spirit.
In the Battle of Gaixia, Liu Bang's two offensive tactics achieved perfect results, one was to defeat Han Xin and the other was to conquer Chu. The former is to seize the weakness of Han Xin's attempt to seal the king and make him satisfied and grateful, so that he will be more motivated; The latter is to use the physical and mental exhaustion of the Chu army, and then render it with the help of the bright moon, which evokes the homesickness of the Chu army, kills their fighting spirit and makes them unwilling to fight again. To sum up, it is to conquer each other's psychological defense, achieve their own goals, and finally win.
In the history of human society, attacking the heart is everywhere, all the time. Whether it is to defeat the other side, win the initiative, or turn the enemy into a friend and resolve contradictions, "attacking the heart" is an effective shortcut.
The so-called "catch the thief first, catch the king first, and attack the enemy first." Clever use of "mind attack" can often make you get twice the result with half the effort and win victory. Many people want to attack the heart, but they don't know how to attack it. As a result, they hit a wall everywhere. Some people attack with the right ideas to achieve their goals or achieve great success. Especially in today's workplace life, if you want to make ends meet, you need to study psychology and learn to use attack tactics.
On the one hand, people's current political, economic, military, educational and other activities all need to use attack tactics. However, don't think it is "intrigue", you should deal with people. Although the heart attack is powerful, it is not extremely profound. Sometimes a few words in a few words, elaborate gestures, simple entertainment such as drinking tea and eating can keep the other person's mind in your hands.