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When quarreling, there is a cold war.
He may vent his dissatisfaction with you by blackmailing you. When quarreling, he thinks you are unreasonable and wants to delete you because he doesn't want to communicate with you. However, when he calms down afterwards, he will regret it and may add you again. Husband and wife can quarrel, but they should quarrel with each other at one level, without personal attacks or settling old scores. They can discuss the facts and understand the meaning behind each other's language expression. He has inner needs. If both sides can understand each other and communicate well, then the number of quarrels will gradually decrease and the feelings will get better and better.

Boyfriend is like this, especially like the cold war, it is almost impossible to quarrel with him. Usually when I broke out, he ignored me, or simply blacked me out and deleted me, and then ignored people for a few days. Apologizing is useless, 3.4 days to a week or even longer.

Sometimes I even suspect that he deliberately made me angry and then had a cold war, and then naturally stopped contacting and finally broke up. After more than two years of love, the cold war time has been shortened, but the nature remains the same. Almost all of them were settled under my constant apologies (although I don't think I made any big mistakes and it's not my responsibility to hold grudges to a certain extent, he never felt that he was wrong).

In my opinion, he doesn't love me, but loves himself more. Introverted, not good at communication and unwilling to accept other people's opinions, just like a child. With such a boy, girls have to bear more psychological pressure and force themselves to tolerate and understand what he calls "reality".

If I don't particularly like it, I suggest breaking up. I hope he will have to pay a few more years of youth when he matures. After a long time, girls will be very tired, and your efforts may not be cherished.