In real life, many people have worked hard all their lives, but they have been struggling with food and clothing; Some people can live happily without doing anything all their lives.
Therefore, there is nothing wrong with working hard, but we must work hard on the right path, otherwise we will only go in the opposite direction, and the harder we work, the farther away we will be from success.
Feng Lun said that success is not difficult. As long as you do "three noes", you can become a rich man and live the life you want.
Who's Feng Lun? One of the top tycoons in China, one of the leading figures in China real estate, and the founder of Wantong Group, has worked hard in the business world for decades and has rich experience in making money and getting rich.
So, if you want to get rid of poverty and become a rich man like Feng Lun, you might as well learn from his "three noes".
I saw this sentence on the Internet: "This world does not belong to the post-80s generation, nor to the post-90s generation, nor to the post-00s generation. It belongs only to one kind of people, that is, people with thick skin."
Many successful people agree with this sentence. Feng Lun once said, giving others face means respecting others, belittling themselves and wronged themselves. This kind of person, for the sake of face, wronged himself, but did not get the face he wanted.
Zheng said in Pipiru and 4 19 Crimes: "The result of saving face is mostly losing face."
Anyone who has watched the TV series "Standing at Thirty with Nothing" knows that it was not Lin Youyou who ruined Xu Huanshan, but Xu Huanshan's face. Anyone who cares about face has a deep inferiority complex hidden in his bones.
This is because they don't have any competitive strength, and fellow travelers can use their self-esteem to cover up their incompetence. The role of face is to cover up his incompetence at this time.
People who have no skills care most about face.
There is a saying in the movie "The Grandmaster":
"People live in this world, some live as faces, and some live as linings. Only Lizi can win real face. "
Only by using strength as your lining can you win real face. A person's success begins with the courage to "lose face".
Feng Lun said in Persistence is Skill, don't always focus on short-term interests, all the choices are not immediate.
Whether life is long or short depends on how you look at it. In the eyes of frogs, the world has always been a well. In the eyes of the soaring eagle, the world is an endless ocean.
As a person, you have to compare with yourself. I can make little progress every day.
Today's world is not black and white. For everything, we must learn to look at it in two, and learn to analyze problems with a long-term and holistic perspective.
The greed in a person's bones will only make him see the immediate interests.
Writer Hui once said that there is a restaurant owner who is unwilling to give his employees a raise even if he earns more money. He asked the reason and said what to do if business was bad next year.
Later, he found that the consumption of soy sauce was too large, so he managed to get a bottle that was difficult to squeeze out. Who knows that soy sauce consumption will rise instead of falling at the end of the month. I found that the guest couldn't squeeze out the soy sauce, so I opened the lid and rushed over.
Therefore, people who are short-sighted and haggle over every ounce will only be trapped by themselves. This boss is like this, so the loss will continue to increase.
Feng Lun said that sometimes making money is not necessarily related to ability, sometimes making money is related to luck, but continuing to make money is related to ability. Therefore, if you want to have a long career, you must be willing.
You can't just look at the immediate interests and lock you in your inherent cognition. Instead, we should learn to think backwards, push back the principle and consider the problem from beginning to end, from 30 years to 40 years later.
People who look at today from the future will be happy.
People instinctively like to stay in an area where there is no pressure and they are very comfortable. But this comfort zone is the beginning of a person's fall; The easy road is always downhill. ...
It's useless to stay in the comfort zone alone for a long time. Getting out of the comfort zone may not be successful, but not getting out of the comfort zone may not be successful. So if you want to succeed, you must jump out of your comfort zone and add some sweetness to yourself that you want to act and change.
Man can't be God, but he can try to be God's neighbor. It's hard to be a great man, but at least try to be a friend of a great man.
Feng Lun said that he succeeded because he always made choices and made decisions between today, tomorrow, the day after tomorrow and yesterday.