1, Hua Xushi

It is said that Hua Xu was the mother of Fuxi and Nu Wa, and the combination of Fuxi and Nu Wa made human beings perfunctory, so Hua Xushi was also the ancestor of the Chinese nation. According to the research results of anthropology, archaeology and folklore, Hua Xushi is an outstanding female leader of ancient matriarchal ethnic tribes in China. According to legend, Fuxi's mother, Hua Xushi, accidentally saw a big footprint of Razer when she went out. Curious Hua Xu measured the footprints of adults with his own footprints and unconsciously became pregnant. Twelve years later, Fuxi was born. If, as the legend goes, she got pregnant because she was curious to measure the footprints of adults with her feet, then Hua Xu is obviously the earliest asexual mother in history. It is said that Hua Xu made the wedding ceremony, which freed human beings from disorderly marriage and group marriage, and made great contributions to regulating human sexual relations and marriage relations. Not only that, the literature also records that Hua Xushi "made nets to teach fishing and hunting" and invented fishing net hunting, which became the source of animal husbandry culture; "Book a book contract and make a knot"; In simple words; Fuxi's "sitting on the altar and listening to spirits from all directions is to draw gossip"-from the beginning of Dharma, human beings are familiar with nature; "Nu Wa Sheng Chun", the earliest musical instrument of mankind, became the origin of China music. It can be seen that Hua Xushi is also the mother of traditional culture in China, and she is obviously the undisputed first lady and mother of Tian Zi.

2. Meng Mu

It is estimated that there was no moving company during the Warring States period when Mencius was born. For Meng Mu, moving three times must be a very complicated and arduous project.

Monk, known as Mencius by the world, was a great thinker in the Warring States period. He lost his father when he was young, and his family was penniless. He relies on his mother to make a living by weaving. Meng Mu is very virtuous and good at educating and inducing children. In order to choose an environment conducive to her son's growth, she moved three times. At first, I lived near the cemetery, and many people cried, which affected my study. So I moved to a market nearby, where there was a lot of noise, and Monk didn't feel comfortable studying. His mother moved near a school. When Monk sees others go to school, he also likes reading. This is the "Three Major Movements in Meng Mu" that spread all over the world. On one occasion, Meng Mu was weaving. I heard that Monk had only studied for a while and then stopped studying. He called him to his side and cut the unfinished cloth face to face, saying, "Son, if you don't concentrate on your study like I cut the unfinished cloth, you will never succeed!" The loving mother's words gave Monk a great shock. From then on, he studied hard and finally achieved something.

3, mother-in-law

Yue Fei is a real "god of war", and it is the great mother who made such a hero. The incomparable story "Mother-in-law Tattoo" has become the mother-in-law classic of the Chinese nation. Yue Fei was an anti-Jin hero in the Southern Song Dynasty. When he was a child, he relied on his mother to teach him to read because he had no money to go to school. He studied hard and set up great ambitions since he was a child. When I grew up, I learned a good martial arts and became familiar with the art of war. After the demise of the Northern Song Dynasty, the national disaster was imminent. At the critical moment of the country's destruction, Yao's mother-in-law put the overall situation first and resolutely sent her son to the battlefield to defend the country. Before leaving, her mother-in-law tattooed the words "faithfully serve the country" on Yue Fei's back, and taught: "Don't worry about your family, always serve your country and swear to kill the army of nomads from behind!" Yue Fei kept in mind his mother's teachings, fought bravely and repeatedly made outstanding achievements.

4. Ouyang Xiu's mother

Ouyang Xiu was a writer and historian in the Northern Song Dynasty. According to the Biography of Ouyang Xiu in Song Dynasty, Ouyang Xiu died at the age of four, and his family was poor. He often eats the last meal without the next. When he reached school age, his mother couldn't afford his education, or even a pen and paper. Ouyang Xiu wanted to study very much, and his mother made up her mind to meet his wish no matter how difficult it was. In the winter night, I scattered my ashes on the snow, and with the hazy moonlight and straw as a pen, I taught Ouyang Xiu to write and read in the snow one by one. This is a beautiful talk of "Mother painting". In this way, she taught her son many words. After Ouyang Xiu became literate, he liked reading very much. Seeing books was as happy as getting a baby. He chews every word and sentence in the book carefully and is never careless. He is talented and has a strong memory, and he can recite almost all the books he has read. By the time he was ten years old, he had read the books at home many times. In order to satisfy her son's thirst for knowledge, the mother often borrows books from neighbors and relatives. Mother also urged him to copy some good books. With the help of his mother's education, Ouyang Xiu was able to read widely and later became a great scholar.

5. Cheng Mu

Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi in the Northern Song Dynasty were both famous philosophers and educators. They are also brothers and sisters. Because they are both founders of Neo-Confucianism, they are called "Cheng Er". Hou Shi, the mother of Cheng Er, gave birth to six boys, only Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi were left, and the others all died. Hou Shi naturally loves his brothers and places all his hopes on them. But she deeply understands the truth that "a loving mother defeats her child" and never dotes on it.

Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi are only 1 year apart. When they are toddlers, they often fall to the ground. The wet nurse had to come forward to help deliver the newspaper. Hou Shi dissuaded them: "Leave them alone and let them stand up by themselves." Then, he said to the children, "Walk slowly, and you won't trip.". Give it a try. " When eating, children love to choose between eating and drinking. The wet nurse wants to let the child's temper dominate and give the child his favorite meal. Hou Shi stopped: "You can't get used to children. If you get used to them, everything will be fine. I got into the habit of carrying water when I was a child. What should I do when I grow up? " Under the strict education and cultivation of his mother, "Cheng Er" has developed good habits since childhood.

6. Drift Mom

There is a tomb 18 meters high on the dock in Huaiyin County, Jiangsu Province. Not an emperor or a general, but a local village woman in the Han Dynasty. Because she often washes clothes in the river next to the pier, she has the title of floating mother. It is recorded in history that Han Xin, the ever-victorious general who founded the Han Empire, once "recognized drifting as his mother" in a difficult situation. The reason why the reputation of "Gone with the Wind" has been passed down through the ages is that it inspired the soul of a wandering teenager and made the pride of a Korean generation of soldiers.

Floating mother is different from Meng Mu and her mother-in-law, because she is a poor village woman, and Han Xin has neither mother-child blood relationship nor nepotism. Such a poor village woman in Huaiyin has turned a vagrant and begging teenager into a generation of spoiled children, which is the most beautiful chapter in the history of maternal love in China.

7. Xu Mu

Xu Xiake, a famous traveler in the late Ming Dynasty, devoted his life to the investigation of the magnificent rivers and mountains of the motherland. This feat was achieved with the teaching and support of his mother. Xu Mu broke through the Confucian tradition of "parents are here and don't travel far" and encouraged her son to "aim in all directions". When Xu Xiake went out to travel, she packed things for her son, "in order to make a travel crown and make it strong." After Xu Xiake returned to China, Xu's mother asked her son to "return it to you as soon as possible, and the sleeve picture is for me." Listening to her son's story about what he saw and heard during the trip, the mother was very happy and cooked an inscription to congratulate her.

With the encouragement of his mother, Xu Xiake was very excited. He started his trip to Wan Li, his native country. For more than 30 years, he has not avoided the cold and heat, and he is not afraid of dangers. He traveled around East China, North China, Southeast Coast and Southwest Yunnan and Guizhou provinces 17 with two legs, and made millions of words of travel notes on geography, hydrology, geology, animals and plants in most parts of China, especially on limestone landforms in China, becoming an outstanding geographer and traveler in China history.

8. Mrs. Hoelun

Genghis Khan was the leader, strategist and politician of ancient Mongolia. His father was also the leader of a tribe and was killed in a tribal dispute. Genghis Khan's mother had to wander in the vast grassland with several young children, starving and freezing. She pinned her good hopes on her son Genghis Khan.

In order to educate young children, Genghis Khan's mother, Mrs. Hoelun, often tells stories about her mother's teaching children to unite. She said, "I remember one day, your grandmother Alan Joni Aho saw that her five sons were not United, so she took out five arrows and told them to fold them separately. They break easily. Later, she took five more arrows, tied them into a bundle and let them fold. As a result, no one kept folding. At this time, grandma said to her five sons:' You know the best wrestlers, but there are many enemies; The best horse can't stand a hundred lashes. Only by uniting into a fist can we have strength and defeat the enemy! ""under the education of his mother, Genghis Khan thrived and later became a' proud generation'.

9. Mama Jiang

Jiang Shiquan, a famous writer in Qing Dynasty, studied with his mother at the age of four. Jiang's mother taught her children to read with a spinning machine. The aunts said to Jiang's mother, "You only have one child, so why bother?" Mother Jiang said, "Because there is only one child, what should I do if I lose my tools?" After Jiang Shiquan became famous, his mother still taught him to be diligent. When Shi Quan was preparing to paint his mother's portrait, his mother Jiang put forward the theme of "knocking on the phone at night in class" to reproduce the scene of his mother's reading.

10, sourdrang dowager

Some people say that Kangxi's character and wisdom are like "the real dragon emperor", so the people who train and educate the "real dragon emperor" are greater and more remarkable. This is sourdrang dowager. Xiaozhuang, accompanied by three generations of kings, enjoyed high prestige in the early Qing Dynasty. She is optimistic about the development potential of young Kangxi and urges him to be used and educated. So Xiaozhuang asked the maid Su Lagu to serve Xiao Kangxi. It is required that in daily life, eating, dressing and walking should follow the emperor's norms. She also invited foreign missionaries and several influential domestic university students to give special education to Kangxi. Kangxi received formal and good study and training, whether it is astronomy and geography at all times and in all countries, or traditional piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. Kangxi acceded to the throne as a teenager, and Xiao Zhuang taught him that "a gentleman's way leads to one country". He told him that "only by making the four seas become a healthy atmosphere can the country be boundless" and asked Kangxi to be "tolerant and kind, gentle and courteous, cautious and deliberate, conscientious, and day and night".

During the four ministers' auxiliary government, sourdrang queen was always by Kangxi's side, helping him to make suggestions, but he didn't pre-govern. For example, when Mongolian Bourny attacked Beijing against the Qing Dynasty, Kangxi felt that there was nothing to send. It was the Queen Mother Xiao Zhuang who, with extraordinary courage, pointed out Zhou Hai who opposed the withdrawal of Francisco. As a result, Zhou Hai shouldered the heavy responsibility and settled the foreign invasion in one fell swoop. At that time, Ao Bai's bullying once made the young Kangxi helpless. It was sourdrang queen's backing that cut off the powerful and arrogant Ao Bai and his associates. This effectively helped Kangxi consolidate his pro-government and ruling position.