No matter between people, between groups, or between countries, it is easy to form two opposing deadlocks. Once the deadlock is formed, it will hinder the progress of the cause.

For example, between colleagues or friends, due to some personnel problems, it is easy to cause barriers, disputes and contradictions. If you can't communicate effectively at this time, you will become more and more alienated and form a communication deadlock. This is extremely unfavorable to the communication and growth of both sides. At this time, we should remember the warning that "resentment is too strong to prevent heartbroken, and the scenery should be modest", and actively establish an open mind to break the deadlock. Never stand still and tie yourself in a cocoon.

For another example, in the long ancient history of China, because the frontier nationalities invaded the Central Plains continuously, there was often a stalemate in the eyes of both sides. At this time, Mingjun will break away from convention, find another good strategy and explore a new path of peaceful development. For example, the Han and Tang dynasties used the method of intimacy to open the deadlock of using force. Wang Zhaojun went to the Great Wall to make peace, and Princess * * married in Tibet, all of which were exceptions to peace.

If modern people want to start a business and make a difference, they must have the courage to open up a new world. Only by daring to break the deadlock can the career pattern last longer. Because in the process of enterprise development, it is easy to form a deadlock.

For example, peers are enemies, and if the competitive relationship with industry rivals is not handled well, it is easy to form a deadlock. In addition, various regulatory authorities always have restrictions on enterprises in one way or another. Without a positive attitude, it is easy to form a deadlock. In addition, all kinds of customers will bring some problems to the enterprise from time to time. If they can't improvise, they will be banned and have the means to cover it up, which will easily lead to deadlock.

All these deadlocks require entrepreneurs to find ways to solve them in time. Otherwise, the enterprise can't have a long life, and it may close down in three to five years.

Second, be good at making exceptions and forgiving mistakes, so that the pattern of the mind can be more generous and grand.

As the old saying goes: people are not vegetation, who can be ruthless? It is human nature to make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes in this world. We must be tolerant of other people's mistakes. Don't be too paranoid, and you can't kill yourself with a stick. You can't just emphasize the integrity of life, and there is no room for sand in your eyes. In addition to integrity, we should also pay attention to learning to be tolerant and open-minded.

To see if a person will do something in the future, we must first examine this person's mind. With a big mind and a big life pattern, it is possible to achieve great things in the future. Narrow-minded, no room for people, small life pattern, it is difficult to make great achievements in the future.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, Guan Zhong once shot an arrow at Qi Huangong and tried to kill Huan Gong many times. Later, Guan Zhong was captured, and Bao suggested reusing him.

Qi Huangong said, "He tried to shoot me!" Bao Shu Ya said, "In the past, all he cared about was his mistress. Of course, he wanted to shoot the duke for the Lord. If you let him go today, he can shoot the world for you! "

Finally, Qi Huangong was no longer obsessed with "revenge with one arrow", but relaxed his mind and made an exception to reuse Guan Zhong as prime minister.

Later, Guan Zhong devoted himself to loyalty and finally became Qi Huangong's "minister of nine kings, conquering the world". Let Qi Huangong be the first of the five tyrants in the Spring and Autumn Period. Even Confucius praised: "Huan Gong and the Nine Kings did not use chariots, but used Guan Zhong's strength." Sima Qian also said: "There are not many wise men in Guan Zhong, but many people in Bao Shu know people."

Imagine: If Qi Huangong can't forgive Guan Zhong, where is there room for Guan Zhong to display his talents in history? Where will Qi Huangong, the leader of the five tyrants in the Spring and Autumn Period?

Third, we should be good at innovation in thinking, so that the pattern of thinking can be broader and deeper.

Thinking ability, including comprehension, synthesis and analysis, is the core of a person's learning ability and the core competitiveness of life. If a person's thinking is not active, then his thinking is easy to be conservative and rigid. Only those who dare to think creatively can let themselves have a broad mind.

Once, Einstein asked Minkowski, a teacher, "How can a person, such as me, leave his shining footprint in the field of science and life?" Three days later, Minkowski told Einstein: The answer is there.

The teacher took him to a construction site and went straight to the concrete floor just paved by the workers. Amid the shouts of construction workers, Einstein asked Minkowski inexplicably, "Teacher, didn't you lead me astray?" "Yes, yes, go astray!" Minkowski, without being accused by others, said intently, "See? Only such a' wrong path' can leave a footprint! " Then, he explained: "Only new areas and places that have not yet solidified can leave a deep footprint. The old ground that has solidified for a long time, the places that have been trodden by countless people, don't want to step on footprints again ... "

From then on, a very strong sense of innovation and pioneering began to dominate Einstein's thoughts and actions. Where there is a will, there is a way. In the end, Einstein's thought was profound and profound, and he became one of the top ten outstanding physicists in the world, and became the pioneer, master and founder of modern physics.

Summary: As the saying goes, experience is learning and courage is breakthrough. As long as life moves forward, it will always progress and grow. In this process, if a person is good at breaking the rules in the deadlock, tolerating mistakes and innovating in thinking, then his career, his measurement and his thoughts will have a bigger pattern, and his life will be limitless.