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Will the ancient mother-in-law make things difficult for her daughter-in-law?
Personally, I think it will, or even worse. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in ancient times, just like the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, has a long history. No matter how gentle and considerate a mother-in-law is, there is always hostility and dissatisfaction in the face of her daughter-in-law. Even if it is not so stiff, it is difficult to be as close as mother and daughter, because there is no blood relationship after all.

In ancient China, the most typical example of "evil mother-in-law" was Jiao Zhongqing's mother.

Peacock flies southeast: "The cock crows into the weaving, and it can't stop every night. It's too late to tame five horses in three days, my Lord. If you don't knit late, your wife will have a hard time! I can't bear to be driven away, but there's nothing I can do. You can send it back for nothing. " Liu Lanzhi started weaving early in the morning and worked day and night. She could weave five pieces of cloth in three days, which was extremely efficient, but her mother-in-law still felt that she was slow and was very dissatisfied with her. This shows that Liu Lanzhi's life in her husband's house is very miserable. She was fed up and wanted to leave.

It went on to say, "This woman is rude. She makes her own decisions. I have been angry for a long time, so you can't be free! The master has a virtuous daughter named Qin Luofu. She's pathetic. My mother wants to see you. Send it here quickly, and be careful not to stay! " The mother-in-law said to her son, I don't like that woman for a long time. She has no manners. You should make up with her as soon as possible, and I'll find you a better one.

Jiao Zhongqing's mother is dissatisfied with Liu Lanzhi everywhere and can't stand it. She tried to persuade her son to send Liu Lanzhi home, which also contributed to the tragedy of Liu Lanzhi throwing himself into the river and Jiao Zhongqing hanging himself in the southeast branch.

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to deal with, but the daughter-in-law will become a woman one day, which has become an infinite cycle. Therefore, the daughters-in-law are trembling, afraid that they will not make their mother-in-law angry. In A Dream of Red Mansions, Wang Xifeng, a hot-tempered "Xifeng", always tries to wait on the food when the old lady is eating. When giving a banquet in the Grand View Garden, neither Wang Xifeng nor Li Wan had seats, and they all sat down to eat after the old lady had finished eating. It is not easy to be a daughter-in-law since ancient times.

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