When you feel embarrassed, pretend that there is no one around.
In life, we will encounter many embarrassing situations or scenes that make you feel embarrassed. If you can't speak because you feel embarrassed, it's easy to appear thin-skinned, and then make your situation even more embarrassing. Therefore, if you want to be thick-skinned, it is very important to exercise your ability to cope with embarrassment.
Self-esteem should be moderate
Moderate self-esteem means that you should have self-esteem, but don't take it too seriously. You should be clear about your position, know who deserves to be treated impudently and what deserves to put down your self-esteem and go all out.
Tell a lie and make it disappear.
Although we don't advocate lying, there are always some scenes in life where we have to lie or lie unconsciously. When a lie has been told, the best way is to round it up. The skill of lying is one of the decisive factors for your thick skin.
Treat a dilemma as an experience
After putting your mind right, you can continue to practice cheekiness with a good positive attitude. Since you recognize the social skill of thick skin and think that its advantages outweigh its disadvantages, you might as well take the predicament as an exercise opportunity and relax more in the face of difficulties. I believe that sooner or later, you will make rapid progress on the road of cheeky exercise.
positive attitude
Thick skin is not everything. Many people will feel that it is useless to be thick-skinned after being frustrated. But you have to understand that everything has gains and losses, and what we can do is to minimize the losses. Therefore, we must put our minds right. Since we want to enjoy the bonus brought by thick skin, we must bear some adverse effects brought by thick skin.
Think of it and do it.
Too much concern will make people timid, afraid to let go of their hands and feet, and the skin will naturally become thinner and thinner. So think about one thing and do it at once. Don't delay.
How delightful.
Everyone likes to listen to compliments, and flattery is a deliberate compliment. When facing people who are helpful to you, you should flatter TA skillfully.
Increase experience and knowledge
When your experience and knowledge increase, the embarrassment you encounter will naturally decrease. When you are experienced enough to talk and laugh with almost anyone, you are a "born cheeky".