Interpretation: The character of a gentleman is to improve self-cultivation from tranquility and cultivate moral character from thrift.
2. A gentleman is kind and polite: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others. -Spring and Autumn Period and Warring States Period: Mencius' Mencius Li Lou.
Interpretation: Mencius said: "The reason why a gentleman is different from ordinary people is that he has different ideas in his heart. The idea in a gentleman's heart is benevolence and courtesy. Good people love others, and humble people respect others. People who love others will love others; People who respect others will be respected by others.
If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it. -The Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period: Confucius' The Analects of Confucius and Ji Shi.
Interpretation: Learning etiquette is meticulous and clear, and virtue is firm, so it can stand.
4. Reciprocity. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go. -Western Han Dynasty: Dai Sheng's Book of Rites Quli Merchants
Explanation: It means that you will react to the behavior imposed on you by others. Show kindness to others, you should respond in a friendly way, otherwise it is impolite.
Looking back at the countries and families of the sages in the past has become the result of thrift and extravagance. -Tang Dynasty: Li Shangyin's "Two Epic Poems, the Second"
Interpretation: Throughout history, the success of every wise country comes from thrift, and the decline comes from luxury.
2. Ancient poems about civilization are untenable without learning etiquette. "-The Analects of Confucius. Jishi "
The meaning of a gentleman is benevolence, and its meaning is ceremony: the benevolent loves others, and the courtesy respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius: "Mencius Li Lou"
Courtesy is reciprocated. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go. -The Book of Rites. On Quli
The overlord takes the two rivers alone, and the descendants drop hundreds of cities. What about happiness and security after the success of luxury? -Wang Anshi
If you are extravagant, you will have more desires. If a gentleman desires more, he will yearn for wealth, and will soon waste his own way and get into trouble. -Sima Guang
Who warmly welcomes guests, as close as brothers; Evil spirits welcome people and harm soldiers. -Guan Zhong
There are brave people in the world who are not surprised, embellished or angry when they suddenly come. -Su Shi
If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it -Confucius
The reason why mortals are more expensive than animals is out of courtesy.
Do not act on small evils, and do not act on small good.
Only virtue and virtue can serve others. -Liu Bei
Don't disrespect the position, but don't disrespect the virtue; Don't be ashamed of your lack of cooperation, but be ashamed of your ignorance. -Zhang Heng
Soil can hold up the city wall, and virtue is thick soil. -Li Bai
Extended data:
Classical poetry, a genre of China's ancient poetry, also known as classical poetry or archaism, refers to a poetic genre that originated before the Tang Dynasty and was opposite to the modern poetry that appeared in the Tang Dynasty. Its characteristic is that the metrical restrictions are not too strict.
Genre scope
As a poetry genre, archaic poetry refers to ancient poetry as opposed to modern poetry, also known as archaic poetry. There are all kinds of poems before the formation of Tang law, as well as poems written in ancient Chinese after Tang dynasty. With the Tang Dynasty as the boundary, the pre-Tang poems from the Book of Songs to the Southern and Northern Dynasties are all ancient poems. Since then, classical poetry has gradually declined and disappeared.
Metric characteristics
Ancient poetry (ancient poetry) has a fixed poem and style. Compared with modern poetry, the metrical restrictions of ancient poetry are less. The length can be long or short, and the rhyme is more free and flexible. There are four words, five words, seven words, miscellaneous words and other forms. The ancient poems after the Han and Wei Dynasties are generally dominated by five or seven words, with certain rhyme and inflections.
All ancient poems are classified according to the number of words in the poem. Four-character ancient poems are referred to as four-character ancient poems for short; Five-character ancient poems are referred to as five-character ancient poems for short; Seven-character ancient poems are referred to as seven-character ancient poems for short. Four-character poems were adopted by people as early as the Book of Songs. But it gradually declined in the Tang Dynasty, and few people wrote it.
Five-character ancient poetry is the orthodoxy of ancient poetry, and many people write it. Seven-character ancient poetry is not the mainstream of classical poetry, because it originated late. Therefore, the seven-character ancient style is greatly influenced by the seven-character modern poetry.
References:
Ancient Poetry-Baidu Encyclopedia
There are many ancient books about etiquette, you can look them up yourself. After all, what you have learned is the most impressive, and you can't always use it as a guide.
Book of Rites-Confucian Classics, Book of Songs, Shangshu, Yili, Jing Yue, Zhouyi and Chunqiu. (Qin Shihuang "burned books to bury Confucianism", according to legend, the Book of Rites was lost after the Qin fire;
On this basis, the Eastern Han Dynasty added seven classics such as The Analects of Confucius and The Book of Filial Piety.
In the Tang Dynasty, twelve classics were added, including Zhou Li, Book of Rites, Biography of the Spring and Autumn Ram, Biography of the Spring and Autumn Beam and Erya.
Mencius was supplemented in the Song Dynasty, and later the Notes to Thirteen Classics was handed down from generation to generation.
Thirteen Classics is the basic work of Confucian culture. Traditionally, Yi, Shi, Shu, Li and Chunqiu are called Jing, while Zuo Zhuan, Yang Gongzhuan and Gu Liangzhuan belong to the biography and ceremony of Chunqiu Jing. The later four books refer to Daxue (one in the Book of Rites), The Doctrine of the Mean (one in the Book of Rites), The Analects of Confucius and Mencius, and the Five Classics refer to Zhouyi, Shangshu, The Book of Songs, The Book of Rites and Chunqiu. )
4. Who knows the ancient poems about civilized etiquette 1: a gentleman is kind and polite; Benevolent people love others, while courteous people respect others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius: "Mencius Li Lou"
Mencius said: "The reason why a gentleman is different from ordinary people is that he has different ideas in his heart. The idea in a gentleman's heart is benevolence and courtesy. Good people love others, and humble people respect others. People who love others will love others; People who respect others will be respected by others.
2. Courtesy is reciprocal, and it is indecent to replace it; It is also impolite to come and not go.
Translation: It means there should be reciprocity in etiquette. Now it also means to answer each other with the same attitude or practice.
3. Sages respect it, fear it, love it, love it, know its evil, hate it, know its good, gather and disperse it, move it calmly, get rid of money, take refuge, win, divide without asking for more, doubt without quality, and be straight without group.
We should be close to and respect those who are better than ourselves in moral character and talent, and we should fear and love them. For the person you love, you should not only know its advantages, but also know its disadvantages; For people you hate, you should know not only their shortcomings, but also their advantages. If you have savings, you should give them to the poor. Be prepared for danger in times of peace and be able to change the situation in time. In front of property, you can't get it; In the face of crisis, you can't escape. Haggle over every ounce, not seeking victory; Don't ask too much when distributing property. Don't pretend to know what you don't know. When you answer others what you already know, you should owe it to your teachers and friends, not as your own invention.
If the husband is sitting like a corpse, he should stand up straight, be polite and conform to the custom.
As for the way to sit, sacrifice should be as heavy as a corpse; Stand up straight and be as respectful as a fasting person. Etiquette should conform to what is appropriate and tasks should conform to local customs.
Polite people are safe, rude people are dangerous, so owners should learn.
If a person knows how to be polite, then he is safe and successful, otherwise he will be in danger. So people who know manners can't help learning from him.
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The Book of Rites is an important book of laws and regulations in ancient China.
The content of The Book of Rites is mainly to record and discuss the pre-Qin etiquette system and significance, explain etiquette, record questions and answers between Confucius and disciples, and describe the principles of self-cultivation. In fact, this 90,000-word book has a wide range of contents and diverse categories, involving politics, law, morality, philosophy, history, sacrifice, literature and art, daily life, calendar, geography and many other aspects. It is almost all-encompassing and embodies the political, philosophical and ethical thoughts of Confucianism in the pre-Qin period. It is an important material for studying the pre-Qin society.
The Book of Rites is written in prose, and some chapters have considerable literary value. Some use short and vivid stories to illustrate a certain truth, some are magnificent and precise in structure, some are concise, some are good at psychological description and characterization, and there are a lot of philosophical aphorisms in the book, which are incisive and profound.
References:
Book of Rites-Sogou Encyclopedia
5. Poetry about civilization, I love my teacher, and I love the truth even more-Aristotle 2. Tea is intoxicating, why drink it? I don't need to spend money on books to smell good.
3, people can't live like animals, should pursue knowledge and virtue-Dante 4, don't do it with evil small, don't do it with good small-Liu Bei 5, people who can't tolerate people don't deserve to be tolerated by others-bernays 6, the highest price that moral cultivation can achieve is to realize that we should control our own thoughts. -Darwin, British naturalist. C.7. if you do more injustice, you will die.
-"Zuo zhuan"? 8. The knower is not confused, the benevolent is not worried, and the brave is not afraid. -The Analects of Confucius? Zi Han "9. An upright person is open and poised, while a villain is often sad.
-The Analects of Confucius? As the saying goes, 10, those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are wise. -"Laozi" Chapter 33 1 1, poor is immune to it, and up to it helps the world.
-Mencius? Dedicated to "12, everyone can think of Yao Shun. -Mencius? Under the accusation, 13, learned, interrogated, thought carefully, argued clearly and committed.
-The Book of Rites? The golden mean 14, the mountain is not high, and there are immortals to be named; The water is not deep, and the dragon is the spirit. -[Tang] Liu Yuxi: Humble Room Inscription 15. Sincerely regret, forgive without resentment, without resentment or enmity, and bear the burden of humiliation.
-[Song] Lin's "Peace of Mind" 16, rigid and gentle, but not abnormal, respectful and upright, but not lonely. -[Qing] Wei Yuan: "On silent films? The way to learn a "17" and make human beings progress every day is, of course, to gather everyone's strength, encourage each other purposefully, practice each other and shape a good personality.
Since people's character is good, society will certainly progress. ..... People are animals, so there is little human nature. If we want human progress, we must cultivate noble personality ... If we want to create a good country, we must first have everyone's good personality.
..... Tracing back to the source, doing something fundamentally is to improve personality and save the country. -Sun Yat-sen: "People should save the country with personality" 18. Complete and comprehensive cultivation; It's not only about music, but also about being a person-not being a person in a narrow sense, but including views and attitudes towards the world and the political situation.
People in the 20th century, born in socialist countries, need calm rationality. Only emotions controlled by iron reason can be healthy and make a real contribution to art ... Son, I can't finish 1000 words. I believe you know everything. The only problem is practice! -"Fu Lei's Letter" [1957 March18]19, cunning is better than sincerity.
-"everything is done? Say "Shang Lin" 20, go back to basics, and you will never be humiliated. -The Warring States Policy? Qi ce si 2 1, gentlemen are harmonious but different, villains are the same but not harmonious.
-The Analects of Confucius? Lutz 22, the poor have no flattery, and the rich have no arrogance. -The Analects of Confucius? Learn "23, the beauty of a gentleman's adult is not the evil of an adult.
-The Analects of Confucius? "24-year-old Yan Yuan, just look at it, not who he is. -[Song] Lu Jiuyuan: "The Quotations" 25. There must be clear right and wrong, and there must be warm likes and dislikes.
-Lu Xun: Scholars despise each other [1April 935 14] 26. Good for people, bad for people. -"Mozi? Non-music "27. If you live in the world for one day, you will be a good person for one day; One day in office, one day in good deeds.
-[Song] Luo Dajing: "He Lu? Good deeds "28. Every time I say I try my best to help those I can, other people I help also try their best to help those who can help them. It is my bounden duty to help each other, and it doesn't matter if I feel rewarded.
-Dai Diary [1919 65438+1October 26th] 29. A gentleman is cautious at first, but he has no worries afterwards. -[Song] Su Xun: "The Prime Minister's Book" 30. What gives people happiness is not physical benefits or wealth, but integrity and prudence.
-Democritus: Remnants of works.
6. Ancient civilized poems:
1, the Yellow River is far above the white clouds, and there is an isolated city, Wan Ren Mountain. (Wang Zhihuan's Liangzhou Ci)
2. The mountains cover the day, and the sea drains the golden river. (Wang Zhihuan's "In the Heron Villa")
Do you know how the water of the Yellow River flows from the sky to the sea and never comes back? (Li Bai's "Into the Wine")
4. The desert is lonely and straight, and the long river sets the yen.
5. The peaks and peaks are like gathering, the waves are like anger, and the mountains and rivers are inside and outside Tongguan Road. (Zhang's "Tongguan nostalgia")
I will cross the Yellow River, but the ice will block the ferry and I will climb the snowy Taihang Mountain. (Li Bai's "It's Hard to Walk")
7. Have you noticed how the water of the Yellow River flows down from the sky into the ocean and never returns to Li Bai's "drinking"?
8. Wan Li wrote in his heart that the Yellow River fell into the East China Sea. Li Bai's Fourteen Gifts to Pei
9. The Yellow River is far above the white clouds, and Wan Ren Mountain is an isolated city. Wang Zhihuan's Liangzhou Ci
10, the desert is lonely and straight, and the long river falls in yen. Wang Wei's March on the Fortress
1 1, the mountain covers the day, and the sea sheds the golden river, Wang Zhihuan's "In the Lusu"
12, I will cross the Yellow River, but the ice is choking the ferry. Li Bai's Difficult Travel will be published in Taihang Mountain Snow Mountain.
13, Wan Li sand of the Yellow River with nine twists, waves scouring the wind from Tianya Liu Yuxi's Tang Dynasty "Waves scouring the sand"
Interpretation: Civilization is a spiritual wealth, invention and creation that has been precipitated from history, is conducive to enhancing human adaptation and cognition to the objective world, conforms to human spiritual pursuit, and is recognized and accepted by the vast majority of people. Intelligent creatures unite and cooperate in order to better understand the world, which constitutes the material basis of civilization. That is, the premise of the existence of civilization is intelligent creatures.
Element: philosophy-a collection of human thoughts; Religion-the sustenance of human mind; Art-the human interpretation of the beauty of all things.
7. Poetry describing civilization has been handed down from generation to generation in Kong Rong. Let Li honor his parents and let Huang get an education. Chinese etiquette cannot be forgotten. Strive to be a small model of etiquette. Weave a dream. In the sky, I am looking for your sad smile. It floats lightly in the grass, telling your golden dream. This dream is your only wealth. It's a pity that it passed so fast, but your sad face is there to gather your hopes. Don't cry your eyes red. Don't look at your wishes like this. Learn dimly from bugs with broken wings but eager to fly. Like a mother and a child, complete the beautiful dream of your life at the traffic lights. Please note that small guards have great skills, and pedestrians and vehicles should obey.
Remember traffic safety. Remember the traffic rules, stop at the red light and go at the green light. Uncle railing told me that after school, everyone lined up to leave the school gate, and vehicles and pedestrians did not fight.
Don't cross my shoulder, don't make noise or run. Main road, just like dad, aunt street lamp told me to cross the road and take the sidewalk, and Mercedes-Benz BMW also relied on it.
Be careful when it gets dark at night, stop at the red light, the road is unfamiliar and the land is sparse. The traffic lights remind me to drive carefully when the green light is on. My eyes have many uses. Pull over, people make way for the car, and the car makes way for others. I walk with green eyes, courtesy and courtesy, and traffic safety depends on everyone.
Open your red eyes and stop, respect the old and love the young, and be civilized. The car hit someone, someone hit someone, blinking yellow eyes, son, don't forget, the police uncle is angry.
Tell everyone to get ready! Remember the traffic rules, everyone abides by the traffic laws, children, please cherish and be safe and happy. Revitalize the country and prosper China.
Life safety is the most important. Everyone obeys the traffic laws and strives to be a small security guard.
8. The poem about civilized etiquette is 1. Smile is our language, and civilization is our belief.
Politeness is the easiest to do and the easiest to ignore, but it is the most precious.
Politeness and civilization are the golden keys to our coexistence.
Birds fly freely because they have wings, flowers are beautiful because they have fragrance, and the campus will be more progressive because of civilization.
5. It is our duty to care about the school; Caring for the school is our obligation; Love school, our voice.
6. School is a place to learn, and civilization is the foundation of success.
7. Let's take care of the collective, public property and the environment!
8. There are flowers at hand and grass at your feet!
9. Flowers decorate the world with beauty, and we beautify the campus with actions!
10, pick up a piece of paper at will, it is purely your own spirit; A stain deliberately erased purifies a person's soul.
1 1. Have fun playing games and be kind. Don't fight, don't fight, don't chase, don't forget the word safety.
12, flowers decorate the world with beauty, and we beautify the campus with actions!
13, pick up a piece of paper at will, it is purely your own spirit;
A stain deliberately erased purifies a person's soul.