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How horrible is ghost marriage? Reveal the whole process of marrying a ghost wife.
Bian Xiao 2020-11-103
Finding a spouse for someone who dies before marriage is called ghost marriage. Many netizens have explored and deciphered these ancient and even modern unwritten customs and want to know more about the process of ghosts marrying their wives. If you need a friend, let Bian Xiao decode it for you.
How horrible is ghost marriage? Reveal the whole process of marrying a ghost wife.
How horrible is ghost marriage? Introduction to ghost marriage:
Ghost marriage is to find a spouse for the dead. Some boys and girls died for some reason after they got engaged, but they didn't wait until they got married. At that time, the old people thought that if they didn't get married for them, their ghosts would do mischief and make the family uneasy. So we must hold a wedding for them, and finally bury them together, become husband and wife, and be buried with their bones. In case there are solitary graves in the fields of men and women.
Other boys and girls died before they got engaged. Out of love and yearning for their children, the old people think that they failed to choose a spouse for them before their death and should marry them after their death to fulfill their responsibilities as parents. In fact, this is where people feel. In addition, in the old society, people generally believed in the so-called "geomantic omen" in cemeteries, believing that the appearance of orphan tombs would affect the prosperity of future generations of family houses. At that time, some "Mr. Feng Shui" (called "Feng Shui" in ancient times) strongly encouraged this kind of yin marriage in order to earn more money. Vaginal marriage mostly occurs in aristocratic or rich families, and poor families will never engage in such activities.
How horrible is ghost marriage? Reveal the whole process of marrying a ghost wife.
The whole process of marrying a ghost wife.
Yin's wedding ceremony has never formed a written law. Although yin marriage is a happy event, it is inevitable that red and white ceremonies are mixed. Much depends on the opinions of the parties. Therefore, the form of yin wedding ceremony is very different. Generally speaking, the yin marriage also needs the introduction of the matchmaker, and the two sides can get the dragon and phoenix post by sending the door post and getting married in Shoutang.
The setting is one-off, so there is no difference in size. Half of the gifts given by the man to the woman are real silks and satins, gold and silver treasures; Half of them are paper, cotton, clips and singlets, and there are two pairs of brocade boxes with earrings, bracelets, rings and hairpins. On the night of release, it will be incinerated in front of the woman's house or grave. In the communication, the "goose cage", "wine sea", dragon and phoenix wedding cakes, elbows and happy fruits that the man gave the woman were all real, but clothes and jewelry were all buried with paper. The dowry of a woman's dowry is usually paper. After it is delivered to the man, it is only displayed in front of the "groom" photo or memorial tablet for half a day, and some just walk around the man's yard, that is, under the guidance of drum music, it is sent to a nearby square for burning.
The above ceremony is not necessarily held in all women's marriages, but the wedding ceremony is essential. Today is a sunny day. Set up a shed to entertain relatives and friends and light a sedan chair in front of the door. In the happy room, "100%" God gives. There is a low table on the opposite side of the kang for the "groom" to take photos or set up a memorial tablet, with several plates of apples and dragon and phoenix cakes in front. There is also a big red flower with the words "groom" written on it with a ribbon. The photo or memorial tablet of the bride in the woman's boudoir is the same as before, and there is a big red flower with the word "bride" written on it. After the sedan chair arrives at the woman, the bride's photo or memorial tablet will be taken down by the bride-to-be's wife, and the sedan chair will be released by the married wife.
How horrible is ghost marriage? Reveal the whole process of marrying a ghost wife.
At this time, the parents of the "bride" could not help crying loudly and chasing out of the house. This is not a happy occasion at all. After the wedding car returns to the man, the married wife will still take out the photo or memorial tablet of the "bride" and put it on the altar on the kang in the wedding room, side by side with the "groom". Tie the two photos together with a red head rope (meaning the old man holding the red line) and attach red and yellow silk. Only by marrying a wife and kowtowing to God "100%", even if the husband and wife worship heaven and earth. Then the waiter brought a glass of wine, descendants jiaozi and longevity noodles for the newlyweds to take photos or erect a monument. If the "newlyweds" have younger brothers and sisters, brothers-in-law, etc. Call them out and kowtow to photos or memorial tablets. The two in-laws congratulated each other.
After the ceremony, choose a good day to be buried, and the woman can wake up. According to the time specified by the Yin and Yang Master, after the coffin is pivoted out, immediately pour a bucket of water into the pit and drop two apples. At the same time, raise the bonus notes. (The same is true of the awakening ceremony of non-yin marriage). The man dug a hole by the grave to expose the groove of the coffin of the groom, buried the bride in the hole and buried the husband and wife together. Buried, that is, in front of the grave, display wine and fruit, burn bonus paper money, and hold a wedding sacrifice. The father, mother and other family members (that is, the two in-laws) of both men and women cried and said "great joy". From then on, it is convenient for men and women to communicate as in-laws.