Why does Mrding always want to find a literate wife? The situation in Mrding is like Eason Chan's lyrics, "What you can't get is in turmoil, and what you can't get is fearless." Mrding has received knowledge education since childhood, and he is regarded as an intellectual. As an intellectual, Mrding has always wanted to find a literate wife. When you are idle and bored, you can talk about poetry and songs and talk about your life ideals. This is the goal that Lao Ding pursued all his life.
However, Mrding's marriage was decided by his parents when he was young. At that time, he didn't dare to disobey his parents' matchmaker. So he spent most of his life quarreling with the illiterate child bride Wang Xiue.
I thought Mrding and Wang Xiue had been living like this, but Wang Xiue died in childbirth when she gave Lao Ding Sheng her fourth son. Later, Mrding raised Sixiang alone. When Sixiang was seven or eight years old, Mrding was sent to the island where Jiang Defu was located as the deputy chief of staff. At this time, Mrding had the idea of finding another wife.
Mrding is different from Jiang Defu. Jiang Defu was a lout and semi-literate at first, but later he began to learn cultural knowledge under the education of artillery school. Mrding has always envied that people like Jiang Defu can marry Anjie who has both culture and looks. Lao Ding likes women like Angie, and Wang Xiue saw it long before she died. So, after Wang Xiue's death, Zisixiang, a child, grew up a little, and Mrding began his journey to find a wife.
Mrding despises Dehua at first. Knowing that Mrding became a bachelor, Dehua felt sad and heartbroken at the death of Xiue's sister-in-law, but he also wanted to take better care of Lao Ding and Siyang. Knowing that Mrding was looking for another wife, Dehua worked harder to help Mrding tidy up the house, wash clothes and deliver daily necessities, and even gave Mrding the only dog skin mattress in Jiang Defu.
Unfortunately, women have feelings for men. Although Mrding knew that Dehua was a good woman at home, he still wanted to pursue his ideal and find a literate wife.
Mrding looked back and missed Geshamei. Later, Mrding took a fancy to Gexiamei, the daughter of Yuba on the island. Ge Xiamei is a teacher. She is beautiful and cultured, which fully meets Mrding's requirements for his wife. Although Ge was beautiful and educated, he set his sights too high when he was young. Later, her father was criticized for being a fisherman on the island, and Ge was implicated for being a fisherman's daughter. At that time, no brave man dared to marry Ge and go home. So she has been lonely.
Until they met, Lao Ding fell in love with Ge, and Ge thought it was a suitable candidate, so they began to fall in love freely. Until the last talk about marriage, the organization didn't agree with Mrding to marry a fisherman's daughter. At that time, on the one hand, the overall environment was sensitive, and Mrding and married people with children didn't have the courage to argue with organizations for a woman like Jiang Defu. So Mrding gave up his marriage application with Ge Xia Mei, and he also gave up Ge Xiamei.
Mrding found that Dr. Wu had a bad personality, so he gave up his pursuit automatically. After his marriage with Ge broke down, he found a new goal, that is, Wu's medical assistance. Although Wu Medical Assistant is not as beautiful as Ge and doesn't know how to take care of people as Dehua, she is literate. This is the only reason why Mrding wants to marry her. Later, after the marriage application report was sent to the organization, the organization would investigate Wu Medical Assistant's previous resume. As a result, it was found that Wu Yibang had been married before. But Wu Yizhou didn't mention to Mrding the fact that he was married, which was an affair before marriage.
Tell, Wu medical gang lied about their marriage history. Soon he went to the hospital to see Wu for medical treatment. He wanted to know what was going on. I just didn't expect doctor Wu to show his true colors when he saw things. Wu Yi gang rolled in and searched, and scratched his arm! For doctor Wu's sake, such a daughter-in-law can't marry home. He also broke his idea of medical help for Wu.
Mrding has been picky for so long, and finally he thinks Dehua is the best. Although Mrding always refused Dehua, Dehua treated Mrding and his family wholeheartedly. After driving around, Mrding also wants to know that he may not have married a literate woman. When Mrding was sitting alone in the living room, he looked at Dehua who was washing clothes in the bathroom. He suddenly realized that what he really needed was a woman like Dehua.
Mrding called Dehua to his side and said, "Dehua, let's live together!" At first, Dehua was very angry and thought that Mrding was playing a trick on himself. Later, after confirming that what Mrding said was true, he made him promise not to go back on his word, and then ran home. Dehua cried and laughed all the way home, and he could feel Dehua crying with joy through the screen.
Mrding's heart is also fleshy. Dehua helped him take care of his son and do housework without regrets, and he was also very moved. After Wang Xiue's death for so long, the family has lost the warmth of a woman's existence. At this time, Dehua's unrequited love made Mrding feel that it was good to have a woman like Dehua at home. Throw away all the poems, songs, poems and paintings! Only by living a good life now can we be happy!
Mrding also knows that Dehua is a kind and good man, and no other woman in the world is willing to pay without asking for anything in return. On the one hand, he gave in to his ideal, on the other hand, Dehua touched Mrding with his own practical actions, so Mrding and Dehua got married.
Mrding and Dehua are still very happy after their marriage. On their wedding night, when they shared the same bed, Mrding also found that Dehua was still a yellow flower girl, which made Mrding very happy! After that, Dehua gave birth to his dream daughter in Mrding, and their married life was really happy!
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