The responsibility of adults is not to disturb children's self-development, but to give them some help when conditions permit—that is, we often say that we should give children a good initial education, protect their curiosity, develop their free will and make them feel happy—these unchangeable truths in pedagogy are the simplest and most important means to explore children's inner potential and fulfill their future competitiveness.
Unfortunately, many people do not see the hidden power in these simple educational elements, but are more willing to spend their energy on some immediate competitive affairs. The reason is that society needs competition, and children's sense of competition should be cultivated from an early age. I have to say that this seemingly long-term idea is actually short-sighted.