In The Legend of Mi Yue, two sisters, Mi Yue and Mishu, have their own experiences and ways of raising their sons, which basically determines the success or failure of their sons in the future.
Mi Yue, who has suffered a lot since he was a child, has experienced hardships and human sentiment. Coupled with her talent and high emotional intelligence, if she is given a fulcrum, she may shake the whole era. Mi Fei, the princess of Chu, has been carefree since childhood, and never eats human fireworks. After she first entered the state of Qin, she soon gave birth to a winner. However, her emotional intelligence is very low because she is spoiled. Obviously, she is sure to win, but she destroyed the Great Wall.
Comparison of educational methods
Mi Yue's education for his son to win Xiaomi is well-intentioned. By example, he not only taught poetry, books, etiquette and music, but also taught him how to be a good emperor.
1 Listen to the speeches extensively, and focus on the topic of the dispute between Han and Shu left by the King of Qin, so as to express opinions on attacking Korea or cutting Shu after winning the millet. Mi Yue's approach is: take Ying Ji to the Sifang Pavilion, listen to the debates of counselors from all sides, and let Ying Ji know his own advantages and disadvantages.
2 think independently and make bold decisions. The king of Qin sent Ying Ji and Ying Yong to the Sifang Pavilion to listen to the counselor's remarks, and finally decided whether to attack Korea or Chu. Tell Ji to win. "No matter what others do, Jill can't be wrong as long as she gambles with her heart." In Sifang Pavilion, Win Ji vomited the honey beans that Zhang Yi "bribed" him, for fear that eating his rice would affect her judgment. The king of Qin asked why he supported the felling of Shu, and the method he said was unexpected. If everyone knows the way, so must the enemy.
Calm, dignified mother and son are stranded in Yan's misery. When they met the prince, despite the cold, Mi Yue "stood up straight, and her behavior was not chaotic at all". When Ying Ji saw her mother, she also endured the cold and "held her head high". Even if a maid sent a hand warmer, he refused politely, because "I dare not lose my manners in front of you."
Eat your bread, taste your courage and make friends with others.
Won the millet in Yan as a hostage, down and out, the future is uncertain. However, while telling him an inspirational story of winning a foreign country in Zhong Er and becoming the overlord 20 years later, Mi Yue took him to the market to make friends with righteous men and pay attention to people's livelihood, and quoted Laozi to educate Ying Ji: "Jianghai can be the king of hundreds of valleys, so he can take advantage of it and be the king of hundreds of valleys."
5 guard against arrogance and rashness, and be prepared for danger in times of peace
Winning Ji became king, and he was self-centered and psychologically inflated. Mi Yue threw cold water at the right time and made Zhao Haoqi kneel in front of the door to reflect: "(The former queen) didn't rein in the wild horse on the throne, and finally ruined everything ... I can't let Ji Zi's heart swell ..."
Mi Yue and Miwa have different perspectives. One cares about the world, and the other is addicted to harem trivia. Mi Yue worshipped Qu Yuan as a teacher in Chu, but he didn't slack off in his studies. When he arrived in the state of Qin, he read extensively, watched raiders, listened to the debates of tourists from all sides, and helped the king of Qin sort out books and make suggestions.
Children learn from their mothers and spoil them. They lack learning ability and innovative thinking, pay attention to some details, and have no broad vision and pattern. However, if you win Xiaomi, you will be diligent and eager to learn. Anyone who pays attention to asking why and looking at the problem in the long run will gather sand and turn a small advantage into a huge advantage. Finally, you will have pioneering thinking and ability, and you will also have the foresight of a king of a country.
Compared with his educational achievements, his son won the discipline and became the portrait of Qin, one of the longest reigning monarchs. The Zhao Haoqi era laid the foundation for Qin to unify the six countries, and it was the most important and decisive era of Qin. Wang Zhao's outstanding achievements are closely related to his mother Mi Yue's godson.
Mi Zhu's son won, and Qin Wuwang was only in office for three years. The monarch is tall, strong, brave and belligerent, but his IQ is not too high. Because of fighting with Wu Huo and Meng Ben to lift the tripod, he broke his neck and bled to death.
There is a famous saying: a great winner must have a great mother. In fact, losers don't climb out of cracks in stones. Raising children without teaching is like raising pigs. But the question now is not whether mothers want to teach, but whether they have the ability to teach. Many women, before becoming mothers, have problems with their own literacy and world outlook. These problems go deep into the blood and become educational genes, which have a decisive impact on children's growth. An open-minded and cheerful mother, a stingy and selfish mother; A diligent and intellectual mother is completely different from a lazy and shallow mother in leading and educating children.